Feb 25, 2014 6:53 AM GMT
My partner and I have been together 3 yrs., at the end of the first 9 months he moved to another city, which he had planned well before he met me. So far we both think living together is not a good idea, at least not until we both feel like it's really going to work. I'm 50 and on disability(HIV+ and healthy), he's 57 and works a retail job and is very work oriented. My idea which until just recently was to visit him for 1-2 months at a time, with 1-2 months apart. That's been good. The problem is that when I'm there I'm home all day, I try to keep busy with household stuff, etc. so he has more time for us, however he is jealous because he can't be home enjoying the day with me or whatever, this is a big problem because it seems he rather I'm not there so he won't feel that way. I can't seem to make him understand that being home and not working is not a nonstop party, so to speak. I don't know how to deal with this, I love him very much, however he is not as much in love with me(I don't think). Anyone want to give me some ideas/direction? or am I missing something?