Stalked

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    Sep 22, 2007 4:34 PM GMT
    Has anyone else been stalked?

    OK, so I am officially an old fart at 45.

    I am in LA for the weekend (haven't been here in years), Iain is home in London because he has school. Last night I was tired from a long stressful week, and just wanted to let go - blow off some steam.

    I had been invited to a party in the Hills. Good party, way too many adherents of the benefits of modern chemistry. Couple of guys tried to pick me up - we are in LA remember: EVERYONE is gorgeous, fit, and toned.

    Then this... KID... tries to pick me up; I mean just - WAY too young even if I was looking, I couldn't believe he was even at the party. I admit I flirted for a minute, but then shut him down - gently but firmly.

    He follows me around the party, keeps trying to flirt, even makes a couple blatant passes.

    I ditch him and go out back to the dance floor they have set up in a huge tent next to the pool; start dancing with just anybody and everybody. I start to get sweaty so I take off my shirt (like half the people there), and I am dancing with these two younger muscle types. The dance floor was PACKED SOLID. All of a sudden I feel somebody dancing close and reach around me and run their hands over my pecs and down to my crotch. So I turn around... it's the young kid who has been stalking me.

    Just totally freaked me out. I tell him to get lost, and move away. He persues.

    Finally I decide to leave and go out in WeHo for a while. My driver takes me down to The Abbey, I figure its a good a place to start as any, not too far from my hotel, and the night is still young.

    About an hour later I am having a drink, grooving to the beat and turn around.. guess who? Heee's BACK!

    I ask him if it isn't a school night and tell him to go home.

    I leave and go back to my hotel.

    This morning I get up and go out to the pool to take a swim... this kid is sleeping in a lounge chair by the pool outside my room (It rained last night even if he was under the gazebo roof). I think he must have told one of the managers that he was with me in order to let him in.

    Ok - so he's kind of puppy dog cute when he's sleeping, if you're into blond twink.

    I am in a good mood, I am amused, I ask him WTF he is doing, and if he has been there all night. I tell him to take a fucking shower and I'll buy him breakfast.

    Long story short:after trying to convince me he is 21, he cops to being seventeen (17!!!), he got into the Abbey with a fake ID. JHC I have nieces and nephews that age! I am not sure he is not a street kid or a hustler. Either way after breakfast I tell him he is way too young, I'm not interested in a hookup, and he needs to go home and to get lost - AGAIN.

    I haven't seen him in a couple hours, but I am afraid he is going to turn up again.

    Christ, my own personal stalker!

    Iain laughed his ass off when I told him. Prick.






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    Sep 22, 2007 7:05 PM GMT
    You don't sound like a very nice person. I think he's had a lucky escape.
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    Sep 22, 2007 9:41 PM GMT
    Chuckle -

    RHG stated "You don't sound like a very nice person. I think he's had a lucky escape."

    What was I supposed to do?

    Lead him on? Buy him a drink?

    Break my vows to my partner and pity fuck a 17 yo?

    Adopt a kid for the weekend?

    He should be at home or with friends his own age.
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    Sep 22, 2007 9:57 PM GMT
    Homeless.
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    Sep 22, 2007 10:08 PM GMT
    IT JOCK....i think you sound like a great guy and you did the right thing all the way around...take it as a compliment (Im 45 also) that a guy was so attracted to you that he went to those lengths to be with you (No matter the age)...and what is most impressive is....you stood firm to your vows!!! KUDOS TO YOU....youre a unicorn in this community!!! An example for us all!!!
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    Sep 22, 2007 10:46 PM GMT
    For me it use to be another way around. I was the one who stalked . Long ago I meet this guys , who is a foreign construction worker. We have sex just 2 time. You know, he got the most amazing body I have ever see. Everything about him just drove me crazy. He chest , his ass , his powerful dick ..god , the way he hold me with his muscular arm. I was doing pretty much anything to please him toe sucking, rimming, arm pit .... I admit I am so obses with him that I start stalking him. I come to his place uninvited. I hang around his living quarter , you know among all those other masculine foreign construction worker, that they start wondering what going on. I keep calling him. I even entertaining ideas of spending the rest of my life with him.
    Really I cant even think properly anymore.

    It only after he start to be rude and avoiding me that I realize what I have done. I am ashamed for what I have done now, but than I guess that how we learn , right. By making mistake
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    Sep 22, 2007 11:05 PM GMT
    Rugger -

    Yes, probably. There are way too many of them in our little communitty.

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    Sep 22, 2007 11:46 PM GMT
    Sounds like a typical night in LA and WeHo to me.
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    Sep 22, 2007 11:54 PM GMT
    Also seems to have shades or your knee healer OW.
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    Sep 23, 2007 12:05 AM GMT
    Yeah, nothing like being stalked by a manic-depressive bisexual 26-year-old faith healer.

    He is still around, dragging out the work we are having him do. My partner, who insists on supervising his work, is with his mama at our mountain place this weekend, so I have a reprieve.
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    Sep 23, 2007 12:11 AM GMT
    A reprieve from your partner or the manic depressive OW?

    And yes, IT, flattering on a level, but what does he expect or where does he think things will go? And he can't count on everyone to be decent enough to just give him a shower and breakfast.
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    Sep 23, 2007 12:15 AM GMT
    IT JOCK - please email me a pic of yourself.

    I kind of think after reading your story that you either forgot to take your medication, however, you could have a new sitcom under way. But I really think you were in that alfa state of sleep and it really never happened.

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    Sep 23, 2007 12:23 AM GMT
    "A reprieve from your partner or the manic depressive OW?"

    From the emissary of Our Lord. My partner and I are independent-minded, to say the least, but I miss him when he's not here. Why don't you come over and play doctor with me?
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    Sep 23, 2007 12:36 AM GMT
    The stalking part is a bit wierd, but when I was a wee little homo, I targeted (was attracted to) men older than you ITJock. So don't down him just for that. But he really should have moved on once you said no. You did nothing wrong.
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    Sep 23, 2007 2:33 AM GMT
    I'm could find a dx or two that needed treating OW. We can invite Crimm as well because I have a feeling that despite not being a 'wee little homo' anymore his appetite isn't for blond 18 y/o twinks.
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    Sep 23, 2007 2:36 AM GMT
    We can't interrupt his reading.
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    Sep 23, 2007 2:38 AM GMT
    Maybe he has better concentration than I thought!
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    Sep 23, 2007 3:45 AM GMT
    Meanwhile, I am planning an all out stalk of wrerick.

    In fact, I have already sent out my advance scout cat, Matilda, to track his daily movements. Moreover, I am so confident of being undetected, werick already knows about my plans....

    moooohhhhaaaaaahhhhhaaaaaaaa
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    Sep 23, 2007 6:01 AM GMT
    Hmmm, so that's why the animals have been acting weird.
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    Sep 23, 2007 4:35 PM GMT
    HEEE'S Back...

    He found me again last night.

    He was hungry (I've never seen someone eat so much). He is apparently homeless.

    SHIT - SHIT - SHIT - SHIT - SHIT - SHIT - SHIT -
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    Sep 23, 2007 4:45 PM GMT
    "Hmmm, so that's why the animals have been acting weird."

    I came home last night (after a futile 50 minutes in a club) to find yet another goddam possum in the house.
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    Sep 23, 2007 4:52 PM GMT
    ITJock...if it is really bothering you, I'd tell him to get lost or you'll call the police.
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    Sep 23, 2007 4:53 PM GMT
    Once you feed a stray dog... it's yours.
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    Sep 23, 2007 4:59 PM GMT
    MG wrote "Once you feed a stray dog... it's yours."

    NOW you tell me...?
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    Sep 23, 2007 5:05 PM GMT
    Oh, IT just take the poor little bird home with you.

    Did he say why he is homeless, and at 17 not living at home? And why'd he pick you? Do you have sucker written all over your face?

    The possum's just trying to give you excitement you didn't get at the club OW.