First time gay sex advice

  • mitchyboy21

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    Mar 02, 2014 3:20 AM GMT
    Hey guys
    Im going to be having gay sex for tge first time so im just wondering if you can give any tips on what to do and also how to prepare for iy
    Thanks :-)
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    Mar 02, 2014 3:28 AM GMT
    First bit of advice play safe!

    The rest depends on what you're actually planning on doing with this guy. Is it a hook up of a boy friend? If it's a hook up shame you're not in UK because I'm up for hooking up icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 02, 2014 3:34 AM GMT
    Jerk off before leaving your house so then you will last longer.

    PS: ALWAYS use a condom.
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    Mar 02, 2014 3:55 AM GMT
    Thom1993 saidFirst bit of advice play safe!

    The rest depends on what you're actually planning on doing with this guy. Is it a hook up of a boy friend? If it's a hook up shame you're not in UK because I'm up for hooking up icon_biggrin.gif


    What about your boyfriend?! icon_eek.gif
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    Mar 02, 2014 4:00 AM GMT
    David3000 saidJerk off before leaving your house so then you will last longer.

    Great advice.. nothing worse than a guy that shoots about 2 mins or less once things start getting hot!
    If so, you better have a round two lined up in those stones for me!
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    Mar 02, 2014 4:02 AM GMT
    Rita said
    Thom1993 saidFirst bit of advice play safe!

    The rest depends on what you're actually planning on doing with this guy. Is it a hook up of a boy friend? If it's a hook up shame you're not in UK because I'm up for hooking up icon_biggrin.gif


    What about your boyfriend?! icon_eek.gif


    Dumped him!
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    Mar 02, 2014 4:10 AM GMT
    I see you're already laying down, so that's a good start.
  • SuntoryTime

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    Mar 02, 2014 5:03 AM GMT
    1. Play safe. IF you decide not to, remember that the consequences are the result of your decisions. When you decide to forgo condoms, there's always athe possibility for a nasty outcome, no matter how much you trust the other guy.

    2. If it's anal sex, make sure the bottom is douched to the max...unless your into that kinda stuff. icon_razz.gif
  • Suetonius

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    Mar 02, 2014 5:29 AM GMT
    YourName2000 saidUmmm....shower, brush/mouthwash (don't floss), go light on the cologne, bring condoms and lube, go slow, touch a lot, don't slobber when you kiss, look for queues from your partner (and give them back)...aka: communicate (no one has ESP), no teeth, it's 'suck' not 'blow', be prepared for smells/hair/etc, foreplay is key, and if you're going up the hershey highway you can expect a little chocolate.

    Other than that, maybe a bit more background would help. Have you had sex with chicks? Have you made out with a guy at all? Who is this guy --trick? friend? longtime BF? Do you see yourself as top, bottom, both, or neither?

    @Thom: yes, definitely, definitely play safe!! No matter what a guy says "I just got tested", "I'm clean" (what does that even mean?), "It's my first time", whatever: always condoms for anal. Frankly, I have "the conversation" before I sleep with a guy.


    Good avice -

    What happened last April?

    Mitchyboy21 said
    this guy ive been seeing we hav decided to have sex tommorow and i was wondering is there any tips / advice for recieving anal any advice would help


    If you intend on being fucked (as you did last April), douche a lot beforehand, and definitely bring the lube and condoms.

    As to everything else before the final act (if it's still the planned final act), just go with the flow. If it's not also your partner's first time, you can learn from him.

  • Karl

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    Mar 02, 2014 5:31 AM GMT
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  • Import

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    Mar 02, 2014 7:12 AM GMT
    you're going to be having some gay sex tonight, huh?

    ok.
    well, let's explore that statement, shall we?
    In what capacity will this alleged "gay sex" be happeneing?

    u will be the bottom, obviously, which begs the question: have u prepared?
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    Mar 02, 2014 9:04 AM GMT
    Import said
    u will be the bottom, obviously,

    and how do you know youre a mind reader tonight. go to bed.
  • hockey007

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    Mar 02, 2014 1:32 PM GMT
    Great advise YourName. All true. Take it slow and have fun. And Play it Safe.
  • bigass6767

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    Mar 02, 2014 1:36 PM GMT
    i have an smooth tight and round ass and have had sex before a few times
    just on the first one don't let him go to hard and always wear a condom