I feel that in order to get a guy to notice I might have to change the way I dress

  • Being

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    Mar 03, 2014 6:31 AM GMT
    So how do I get his attention? I mostly wear the samething day after day. I mostly dress like dork with no style and such.
  • MikeW

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    Mar 03, 2014 6:55 AM GMT
    Well, if you're as lame in RL as your RJ profile and this thread here, I say just give it up. Cuz you could light your hair on fire and run around screaming naked and that might get you attention but would it be the *kind* of attention you wanted? But apparently you're so lame it never even occurred to you to think about that part of the equation. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Being

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    Mar 03, 2014 7:15 AM GMT
    MikeW saidWell, if you're as lame in RL as your RJ profile and this thread here, I say just give it up. Cuz you could light your hair on fire and run around screaming naked and that might get you attention but would it be the *kind* of attention you wanted? But apparently you're so lame it never even occurred to you to think about that part of the equation. icon_rolleyes.gif



    Wow, you didn't have to go that far. It's not my fault I'm lame.
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    Mar 03, 2014 7:19 AM GMT
    You didn't say what was wrong with your fashion but there's probably nothing wrong with it.
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    Mar 03, 2014 7:42 AM GMT
    I think a nice ascot would look marvelous on you.
  • MikeW

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    Mar 03, 2014 8:12 AM GMT
    textilemaker saidWow, you didn't have to go that far. It's not my fault I'm lame.

    Whose fault is it, mummy and daddy's?
  • killercliche

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    Mar 03, 2014 9:26 AM GMT
    The trick with fashion is striking the balance of self expression while avoiding looking like a sideshow at a circus. Until you have some idea who you are and what you want to present to the world it would be hard for you to make an impact to anyone with your fashion sense. I'd recommend just buying up aeroposale, a&f, and american eagle(all muted colors of course) and go with the pleb look till you figure things out a bit.
  • SuntoryTime

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    Mar 03, 2014 11:40 AM GMT
    Honest answer?

    Go to places where gay guys frequent.

    Then go to places with straight guys frequent.

    Then go buy the clothes you saw straight guys wearing.

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  • creature

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    Mar 03, 2014 12:17 PM GMT
    Is getting a man to notice you the only reason you want to re-vamp your wardrobe? Or do you want to change the way you look regardless? If it's the former, I suggest working on your confidence and attitude—that's far more alluring.