My first time - 8 years older, Hawaiian, 6' and looked and sounded a lot like "The Rock" but with a broad-shouldered swimmer's body and a 27 inch waist. Here we are then - Dwayne Johnson's face is buried somewhere beneath the smile, swimmer's body, hat, sunglasses and mustache:
My first steady - 2 years older, a dead ringer, face and body, for "The Real World" Season 1's Eric Nies (both were male models):
My first serious boyfriend - a fashionista one year younger then and a fashion designer now, looked like an '80s George Clooney then, maybe even more so now.
I pursued the first one, the other two pursued me.