Moving on...

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    Mar 03, 2014 5:17 PM GMT
    Have you ever felt like everybody is moving on with there lifes and you are at the same point u were once you met them? icon_cry.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Mar 03, 2014 5:24 PM GMT
    It happens. Don't be sad cupcake. You just need to figure out where you want go and start moving in that direction. It won't happen on its own, you are going to have make a move to set it in motion.
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    Mar 03, 2014 5:29 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidIt happens. Don't be sad cupcake. You just need to figure out where you want go and start moving in that direction. It won't happen on its own, you are going to have make a move to set it in motion.
    tnx ^_^...just idk...feels like sometimes things dont work out whatever i do while others just bam they get everything o.O...feel like lifes little bitch lol
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    Mar 04, 2014 6:11 AM GMT
    ChrisMD saidHave you ever felt like everybody is moving on with there lifes and you are at the same point u were once you met them? icon_cry.gif

    To me, (sometimes) it's the opposite.
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    Mar 04, 2014 8:10 AM GMT
    ChrisMD saidHave you ever felt like everybody is moving on with there lifes and you are at the same point u were once you met them? icon_cry.gif

    Best not to compare yourself to others. Nothing good ever comes of it. Whatever you do, there will always be someone better at it. No matter how much money you have, there will always be someone with more. Work on your own goals/dreams/life. That is the only way you have of achieving something. And no matter where you are, at your age, you have a lot of time to start anew - perhaps many times.
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    Mar 04, 2014 5:14 PM GMT
    I think this tends to be seen and experience more during that separation following completion of schooling. You're at that age when I think most people move on and sort of start a 'new life'.

    We tend to hang on to our friends until we initiate our 'work' life, we move on to new beginnings and often our friends are left behind, not forgotten but with a lower priority of our time. We develop new friends, jobs meeting associates and we mature with a focus less on our juvenile side and instead more on our adult being.

    If you're feeling left behind, I would take some time to think about where it is you're going? Are you moving forward into adulthood? What do you see in your future? Do you have goal? Plans? Or are you stuck in the same place where you have been since high school. Perhaps the 'moving on' is not where your friends are going but where you are not. Self reflection could be the answer to why you feel this way.

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    Mar 04, 2014 5:59 PM GMT
    Yeah, I have -- but the way I see it, our lives could be moving forward right now, if we willed it, or even if we saw it that way in light of everything that has happened.
  • MikeW

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    Mar 04, 2014 6:01 PM GMT
    eb925guy said...Self reflection could be the answer to why you feel this way.

    Awesome response, eb. icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 04, 2014 8:17 PM GMT
    eb925guy saidI think this tends to be seen and experience more during that separation following completion of schooling. You're at that age when I think most people move on and sort of start a 'new life'.

    We tend to hang on to our friends until we initiate our 'work' life, we move on to new beginnings and often our friends are left behind, not forgotten but with a lower priority of our time. We develop new friends, jobs meeting associates and we mature with a focus less on our juvenile side and instead more on our adult being.

    If you're feeling left behind, I would take some time to think about where it is you're going? Are you moving forward into adulthood? What do you see in your future? Do you have goal? Plans? Or are you stuck in the same place where you have been since high school. Perhaps the 'moving on' is not where your friends are going but where you are not. Self reflection could be the answer to why you feel this way.



    I agree with you here! There are some people that I went to high school with who have never let go of their teen experience. I know this because it's all they talk about and if you ask them about their current lives or future, they're silent.
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    Mar 05, 2014 11:48 PM GMT
    eb925guy saidI think this tends to be seen and experience more during that separation following completion of schooling. You're at that age when I think most people move on and sort of start a 'new life'.

    We tend to hang on to our friends until we initiate our 'work' life, we move on to new beginnings and often our friends are left behind, not forgotten but with a lower priority of our time. We develop new friends, jobs meeting associates and we mature with a focus less on our juvenile side and instead more on our adult being.

    If you're feeling left behind, I would take some time to think about where it is you're going? Are you moving forward into adulthood? What do you see in your future? Do you have goal? Plans? Or are you stuck in the same place where you have been since high school. Perhaps the 'moving on' is not where your friends are going but where you are not. Self reflection could be the answer to why you feel this way.

    Beautiful said and very true about moving on...i do have a career thing is i just feel like sometimes things are slipping and its that feeling of getting tired of always trying to put things together...but it cant be helped as i said to someone today.....lets just hope on rainbows and sunshine someday icon_smile.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Mar 05, 2014 11:52 PM GMT
    I knew what I wanted to do with my life when I was ten, and I've never moved on, no matter what!!icon_mad.gif
  • Svnw688

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    Mar 06, 2014 12:11 AM GMT
    eb925guy saidI think this tends to be seen and experience more during that separation following completion of schooling. .... way.



    This. EB is very smart and eloquent.
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    Mar 06, 2014 12:18 AM GMT
    Yes, I have felt this way. It's not an easy place to be in. However, someday things will change and people will be watching you and feeling like you are skyrocketing and leaving them behind.

    Hugs.
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    Mar 06, 2014 12:28 AM GMT
    I also feel the same way. It's like everyone around has already experienced a lot of things ( dating, traveling, having a career etc.) and I'm the only person that hasn't done anything. Like there is no excitement in my life.