Andaman saidI thought this was a dating site like all the others. I guess I assumed wrong. I am not interested in dating myself, because I am not at all narcissistic, and I like partners who are different from me, whether it is size, race, culture or coloring. I don't think anyone should be looking for someone just like themselves. I don't think that is a good basis for a relationship, maybe for a mutual admiration society. Maybe that's why so many couples are out cheating or looking for a third...
Being a non-jock does not mean I am not interested in, or don't take care of myself. It is one of the more annoying traits of some jocks that they act like their way is the only way to be, and that anyone can do it, and if they don't do it, they are lazy or don't care. That is very unattractive in a man.
There were years where I was extremely active and I am still strong. You should not make assumptions about others.
Lol. You should follow your own advice and not make assumptions about others.
You pretty much just made my point. If you wouldn't be willing to date yourself then you certainly can't expect anyone else to want to. It's really that simple. Clearly you don't want to date an exact replica of yourself. No one does. However, similarity is very attractive.
Wanna know what is really unattractive in a man? Not being able to accept the reality of one's self. You're on here wanting a jock but aren't really putting anything on the table to attract one. It doesn't work that way.
Most guys who keep fit are naturally attracted to others who do as well. It's not just a physical thing either. There's a lot more to it then that. It's a connection.
Take your ass to a gym or just start working out and you'll "get it". Also, I'm calling bs on you not knowing what the deal with this site was about. It clearly states on the main page what the site is so your observation skills need a brush up too along with your piss poor attitude and slightly delusional opinion about "jocks" and those who put effort in to being fit.
Date a "non-jock" or so someone in the same category as you then. Or put in some effort to attract what you want. Done.