Porn career

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    Mar 03, 2014 7:36 PM GMT
    Was wandering if u would find out that the sweet guy ur dating now has been in the porn industry and done some really nasty stuff...would u still want him as ur bf? would u still consider yourself serious with him?
  • Apparition

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    Mar 03, 2014 8:03 PM GMT
    im 43, they have done lots of nasty stuff already.
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    Mar 03, 2014 8:07 PM GMT
    What someone has done in their past, provided it's legal and doesn't violate any previous relationships (e.g. followed rules set by partner when in open relationship), has no impact on my current relationship with them. No one is perfect and no one deserves to be judged solely based on their past. None of us are the same person we were in previous years. And even then, sex is sex. He just happened to get paid for it when you didn't. So what?
  • creature

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    Mar 03, 2014 8:14 PM GMT
    I think the concern would be if they're into the extreme stuff and are left sexually frustrated because you're not into it too, and whether or not they will go behind your back to hook up with someone who is into it. But if they are committed enough for a monogamous relationship, I don't see a problem with it. It's not an issue for me if they've done it on film, so long as they know it won't be done in the bedroom.
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    Mar 03, 2014 10:35 PM GMT
    depends on the guy, if he's done with it and clean/negative I guess. If I like him a lot, he's not doing it anymore and it's in his past, sure I'd love to give it a go. I have *dirty secrets from my past too. I'm not trying to be judgmental.
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    Mar 04, 2014 12:17 AM GMT
    How nasty?
  • Timbales

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    Mar 04, 2014 12:19 AM GMT
    I don't think I could handle being with someone who is actively doing porn, but I don't think I'd have any problems with it being in their past.
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    Mar 04, 2014 8:59 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidHow nasty?
    well im not sure what ur into but i would say kinda hardcore stuff lol...still a person can change and find adequate careers in other domains
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    Mar 04, 2014 8:55 PM GMT
    The real question is whether or not you can handle being seen with him in public. For example, let's say you two are having a romantic dinner at a restaurant. Then some perv who watched his movies comes up to you two and tells him how much he's a fan especially the scenes where he got gang-banged.
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    Mar 06, 2014 11:31 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidThe real question is whether or not you can handle being seen with him in public. For example, let's say you two are having a romantic dinner at a restaurant. Then some perv who watched his movies comes up to you two and tells him how much he's a fan especially the scenes where he got gang-banged.


    Lol rude bitch ehhh....