We been dating 3 years now. I cant say who we are because the safely of my mate from his fans. We did met at work, which is a gay porn company. We do love each other. I want to have my mate here in the US to live with me. But USCIA said that the only way is to marry to him, yes I am planning to asking for his hand. I am 28 years old and he is 20 years old. Our families do not know that we are bi or had been dating for 3 years. That is one of problems that we have. Another problem is we must meet each other in the skin in the past two years, to get his visa to the US. We always try to do but it is hard for us. What we should do? We do miss each other. Only birthday wish that I have is to have his in my arms.icon_sad.gificon_cry.gif We had been dating via Whatapp, Skype, Email. Thank you for your input guys.