I love two

  • Fargo

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    Mar 10, 2014 12:16 AM GMT
    I am in this odd situation where I ended up geniunly and truely loving two persons. The first is someone I knew for years and we committed to a relationship 5 months ago, the second one I also know for quite a while and it just developed on its own as well. I think about the two all the time, and in these days try to share my time with both as well. It is getting stressful for me, since I know it is not fair to both of them, but I'm also pretty certain how they feel toward me, and things are going so well overall that I hate to break anyone's heart just to stay with one. Maybe it's a taboo to fall for two, but it isn't something I can control.

    So besides the "Dump one and pick another", has anyone been in a similar situation? What did you do?

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    Mar 10, 2014 6:04 AM GMT
    You're in difficult position indeed.

    Perhaps you have to come out to both of them. And then let the fate decide. Secrecy makes it a lot complicated but there comes a time(perhaps, for you it's now) where you can't handle anymore. Truth on the other-hand makes it simpler but only tough at the beginning.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Mar 10, 2014 6:07 AM GMT
    Not buying it ... you are very close friends with both, you're not truly in love with either.
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    Mar 11, 2014 10:52 AM GMT
    Harry7785 saidYou're in difficult position indeed.

    Perhaps you have to come out to both of them. And then let the fate decide. Secrecy makes it a lot complicated but there comes a time(perhaps, for you it's now) where you can't handle anymore. Truth on the other-hand makes it simpler but only tough at the beginning.


    This.

    You said it yourself, you're being unfair. I think you're letting greed get the best of you and your cup is overflowing. So empty it.
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    Mar 11, 2014 10:53 AM GMT
    Keep both, who said you can only have one love at a time?