only bottoms want intemacy / relationship?

  • comoesta

    Posts: 21

    Mar 10, 2014 5:16 AM GMT
    Still a virgin. So, i was chatting with few tops lately to find a gud fit. Chat goes fine, but as soon as I mention "looking something ongoing", they stop replying. So, are bottom men are only one who crave warmth/ cuddling after sex. And possibility to find an ongoing partner. Are tops just looking to shoot a load nd nothing else? This question doesn't apply to lucky men in relationships. However, share thoughts as a general gay man.
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    Mar 10, 2014 5:32 AM GMT
    It's just a matter of finding the right type of guys. I'm a top who wants more, but I have spoken with plenty of bottoms who are not interested in anything more than just fun. When you want intimacy and a relationship, it's very hard to find, no matter what your position is.
  • Apparition

    Posts: 3516

    Mar 11, 2014 5:12 AM GMT
    im a top. ltr is the best
  • Danny_boy

    Posts: 9

    Mar 11, 2014 10:47 PM GMT
    I'd like to have some fun while i'm young, maybe settle down sooner or later if I find that right guy :3
  • comoesta

    Posts: 21

    Mar 13, 2014 2:26 AM GMT
    Danny_boy saidI'd like to have some fun while i'm young, maybe settle down sooner or later if I find that right guy :3


    Part of me want to be like you. But then I think, wt if i met a my perfect match nd he rejects me for being all used up.