How many people in the bar/club are you actually attracted to?

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    Mar 10, 2014 8:12 PM GMT
    This is assuming there are 100-150 people in the bar/club. On average, how many of them will you be attracted to enough to want to go on a date with?

    For me, it's usually about 5 people. I am not sure if this is worse than average, I think probably not? And no, I don't think I am amazing, it's just that I enjoy my own company enough to not feel like I need to be on 'the hunt' as such.

    What about you?
    *points at you*
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    Mar 10, 2014 8:27 PM GMT
    I don't generally look. Most of the bars I go to are tiny often me and my group take up the whole bar. The night club I usually go to has about 1500 people (not sure on the gender split or whose gay and not) but I never spot anyone and noone spots me. That is not to say if someone spoke to me I wouldn't give them my number but I never see someone and have like an instant attraction.
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    Mar 10, 2014 8:46 PM GMT
    The 2 clubs my friends I and go to usually have about 1000 people each. When I'm single and on the prowl I might notice about 10 guys who are objectively hot, of which there are maybe one or two are my type specifically. Usually those few aren't interested haha. I get approached a few times a night, but they are never my type.
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    Mar 10, 2014 10:58 PM GMT
    probably less than 5 lol
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    Mar 10, 2014 11:55 PM GMT
    Hundreds? Thousands? I wish I lived somewhere for that..
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    Mar 11, 2014 12:15 AM GMT
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  • gymlocker

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    Mar 11, 2014 12:32 AM GMT
    I am usually only attracted to about 2% after eliminating the characteristics that I wouldn't tolerate in anyone more than a mere stranger

    and generally if I take the time to really get to know that 2% I can eliminate half of them before bar close





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    Mar 11, 2014 6:35 AM GMT
    probably just about 3 or 4 guys that I want to go out with in a bar setting. But I'm always distracted by the cute shirtless bartenders and gogo boys. Lol, now if I have a little liquor in me, I'll start to flirt and hitting on random dudes. But yeah, I don't expect to find a long lasting relationship in a club.
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    Mar 11, 2014 3:16 PM GMT
    0% but it increases steadily as I down shots of tequila and get closer to desperate hour.
  • whytehot

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    Mar 11, 2014 5:55 PM GMT
    So this is the "look how picky/hot I am" thread
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    Mar 11, 2014 6:04 PM GMT
    earthsearch said0% but it increases steadily as I down shots of tequila and get closer to desperate hour.


    Diogenes! look quickly! An honest man!
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    Mar 11, 2014 6:38 PM GMT
    whytehot saidSo this is the "look how picky/hot I am" thread


    Lol there's no correlation between being picky and being hot. Plenty of picky unattractive guys and hot guys who are not picky at all.
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    Mar 11, 2014 6:43 PM GMT
    There isn't, but many guys think they'll appear hotter if others thought they were picky
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    Mar 11, 2014 7:14 PM GMT
    Ohno said
    whytehot saidSo this is the "look how picky/hot I am" thread


    Lol there's no correlation between being picky and being hot. Plenty of picky unattractive guys and hot guys who are not picky at all.


    Count me among the later. Unattractive guys need sexual release too! It's my way of giving back to the community. It's my charity work. icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Mar 13, 2014 4:32 AM GMT
    earthsearch said0% but it increases steadily as I down shots of tequila and get closer to desperate hour.


    Lol And once you're drunk, everyone starts to look attractive to you. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 18, 2014 12:52 AM GMT
    If there were a Cafe in Academy I'd be there more often, they might think I'm shoplifting if i go in there and wander around as much as I like
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    Mar 18, 2014 12:58 AM GMT
    As for the crowd I've seen in bars i have been to in H town I'd say about about a quarter.
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    Mar 18, 2014 1:09 AM GMT
    Wow - this varies a lot... per 100...? Maybe 3...? I guess it depends on the party/venue and "type" of crowd. ie, I'm not into twinks. LOL! icon_cool.gif
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    Mar 18, 2014 8:24 AM GMT
    whytehot saidThere isn't, but many guys think they'll appear hotter if others thought they were picky


    It's called having a little standard. Nothing wrong with that.
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    Mar 18, 2014 8:50 PM GMT
    25-30?
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    Mar 18, 2014 9:35 PM GMT
    Depends on how drunk I am.and how horny I am
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    Mar 18, 2014 9:40 PM GMT
    I usually am attracted to the guy with a bottle of water in his hip pocket who never leaves the dance floor, instead, dancing like he owns the floor cause he does.
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    Mar 18, 2014 10:26 PM GMT
    Not too many since most r probably on something or drunk. I can look and say he is good looking but doesn't mean I am attracted to them. It's the sober one that gets me
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    Mar 18, 2014 11:35 PM GMT
    Ohno saidLol there's no correlation between being picky and being hot. Plenty of picky unattractive guys and hot guys who are not picky at all.


    I would say the less attractive you are the pickier you tend to be. Any preference becomes more exclusive when the dating pool is small.
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    Mar 18, 2014 11:52 PM GMT
    bachian said
    Ohno saidLol there's no correlation between being picky and being hot. Plenty of picky unattractive guys and hot guys who are not picky at all.


    I would say the less attractive you are the pickier you tend to be. Any preference becomes more exclusive when the dating pool is small.


    Interesting. Because they don't realize how unattractive they are, so have outrageous standards?