Kissing on the mouth: reserved only for love?

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    Mar 12, 2014 2:10 PM GMT
    I love kissing; passionate, long, intense kissing. But I don't need to be in a committed relationship with a guy to enjoy passionately kissing him.

    Is it cool to kiss a guy like he's your long lost love during a casual one night stand even when you never expect to see each other again?
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    Mar 12, 2014 2:32 PM GMT
    When I used to hang out in the bars, everyone would greet everyone with a kiss on the mouth, just for knowing them. I didn't like it at all.
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    Mar 12, 2014 2:59 PM GMT
    sloppy wet kissing all you want and dont be surprised they like it too.
    Dont just grab men off the street to do this.
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    Mar 13, 2014 11:37 AM GMT
    pellaz saidsloppy wet kissing all you want and dont be surprised they like it too.
    Dont just grab men off the street to do this.


    Love that your profile pic illustrates your point, so you're saying all men really want to be passionately tongue kissed? Just as part of normal sexual intercourse? (I'd love to think that's true)
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    Mar 13, 2014 12:17 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidWhen I used to hang out in the bars, everyone would greet everyone with a kiss on the mouth, just for knowing them. I didn't like it at all.

    There are a few mouth kissers at the bars we attend. Kiss on the cheek among friends, yes, but not on the lips. That's for my husband only. But I go along, not sure how to dissuade them.
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    Mar 13, 2014 12:59 PM GMT
    I like to reserve mouth kisses to the boy I'm dating.. Like Julia Roberts says in pretty Woman 'it's Personal'

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    Mar 15, 2014 1:57 PM GMT
    prapa123 saidI like to reserve mouth kisses to the boy I'm dating.. Like Julia Roberts says in pretty Woman 'it's Personal'

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    Yeah that's fair enough. I know some guys feel that way. I just kinda feel that even a one-off is "personal". If I'm gonna get naked with a guy and maybe even bend over for him, I want to feel that deep connection-- at first through our kiss. It's as intimate as hell but so is any sexual act.
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    Mar 15, 2014 2:20 PM GMT
    Agathon1974 said
    If I'm gonna get naked with a guy and maybe even bend over for him, I want to feel that deep connection--

    Well, if you bend over for him I'm sure the connection you feel will indeed be deep. icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 15, 2014 8:23 PM GMT
    Depends on the guy entirely.

    I like kissing a lot myself but if the energy isn't right with the guy I'm getting intimate with, I would probably rather skip it.

    Kissing feels the most appropriate to me when it's with someone I'm committed to.
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    Mar 15, 2014 8:30 PM GMT
    "One night stand"??
    No
    It gives the wrong impression

    as if

    -you like, like him.
    He'll be waiting for your text at least two weeks.
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    Mar 15, 2014 9:17 PM GMT
    I agree with YourName2000's comment. It's not sex without kissing. I love long, passionate make out sessions with a guy who knows how to kiss...not all do. I can skip the sex if the make out session is hot enough and there's a lot of naked body contact. But I'd really like the kissing and the sex.
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    Mar 15, 2014 10:54 PM GMT
    I don't kiss a guy unless I have that tingly feeling for him. That included guys I liked or hooked up in the past. Sex without kiss is kinda detached and meaningless. Kissing is more intimate. icon_biggrin.gif Oh yeah, if I don't know you and you try to kiss me right off the bat, no no, turn off.
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    Mar 17, 2014 11:54 AM GMT
    YourName2000 saidThere's just no sex without kissing for me. Can't say I'm a one-night stand guy (last one I went on was in 1987), but if I ever did again, kissing would be mandatory. It's the spark that get's my pistons firing. icon_twisted.gif

    Kissing is awesome just on its own, imo (though hard for it not to lead to more, hahaha). Just be a good kisser! Some guys drool like Pavlov's dogs, and swallowing a bunch of spit makes me nauseous to the point of puking. Kissing is a skill, I say 'practice whenever you get the chance'.


    Oh yeah. I once got a chance to kiss a guy who I'd dreamt of kissing for soooo long. And clearly he'd only seen guys kiss in pornos. No, no, no. Fortunately it didn't take long to pull the reins in and improve his technique. (Admittedly, he turned out NOT to be a one night stand)
  • Svnw688

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    Mar 18, 2014 3:13 PM GMT
    Kissing is fine.

    Surprisingly I'm not a huge fan of kissing because (1) I'm always self-conscious about my breath (even though I brush, floss, peroxide, and listerine all the time and my breath is minty fresh) and (2)most guys are so bad at it that I can't stand it.

    What makes a bad kisser? Too much spit, too little spit, too aggressive, too passive, too much tongue, not enough tongue. It's a fine line between all these things, and so many men get it so wrong. I swear most people are undiagnosed autistic because they cannot pick up on simple cues from another person.

    If I moan, I like that. If I "change" our position, then change with me because I'm not into that.

    But yea, kissing is fine. My thinking is some men don't like to kiss because they're cheating, and kissing is such an intimate act it makes the cheating pain feel more acute.