Are good looking men oblivious to their attractiveness

  • Matthew56

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    Mar 13, 2014 12:39 AM GMT
    So I met this drop dead Goregous on grindr tonight and while we were chatting I said to him that are you are so Goregous and handsome and he was like really really?? Saying I am not all that

    So are good looking men/people oblivious to their good looks or just being modest

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    Mar 13, 2014 12:44 AM GMT
    does it matter?
  • Matthew56

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    Mar 13, 2014 12:47 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]JarIan said[/cite]does it matter?[/quote

    It's just something I thought I would discuss seeing as the guy was so good looking and being like no no
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    Mar 13, 2014 12:51 AM GMT
    Matthew56 said[quote][cite]JarIan said[/cite]does it matter?[/quote

    It's just something I thought I would discuss seeing as the guy was so good looking and being like no no



    ok, sorry for asking
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    Mar 13, 2014 12:56 AM GMT
    Matthew56 said[quote][cite]JarIan said[/cite]does it matter?[/quote

    It's just something I thought I would discuss seeing as the guy was so good looking and being like no no


    Dont mind him, its a valid question. A good looking guy should know hes got the looks so either hes being humble or not very bright.
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    Mar 13, 2014 1:02 AM GMT
    Matthew56 said[quote][cite]JarIan said[/cite]does it matter?[/quote

    It's just something I thought I would discuss seeing as the guy was so good looking and being like no no

    yeah ignore Jarlan. He contributes nothing and is boring.

    Back to the topic: I feel like good-looking guys know they're hot. The constant attention and being told how "cute" "hot" "good-looking" they are.... u cant not know, especially in the day and age of selfies and the like....

    He was being humble and that's kinda cute.
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    Mar 13, 2014 1:02 AM GMT
    I've known some guys who after realising how good looking they are become total man sluts and treat women like crap. Women can be the same.

    My friends have dated or been used by those sorts and they usually cheat. Plus when you see how arrogant they are you realise they're not that special. I thought my ex was the best looking guy in the world and now I think I was mad. In my experience most guys who are noticeably good looking know it and let it go to their head.
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    Mar 13, 2014 1:06 AM GMT
    Import said
    Matthew56 said[quote][cite]JarIan said[/cite]does it matter?[/quote

    It's just something I thought I would discuss seeing as the guy was so good looking and being like no no

    yeah ignore Jarlan. He contributes nothing and is boring.

    Back to the topic: I feel like good-looking guys know they're hot. The constant attention and being told how "cute" "hot" "good-looking" they are.... u cant not know, especially in the day and age of selfies and the like....

    He was being humble and that's kinda cute.


    lol, thanks
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    Mar 13, 2014 1:16 AM GMT
    Matthew56 said he was like really really?? Saying I am not all that


    Perhaps he was being sarcastic.
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    Mar 13, 2014 1:27 AM GMT
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    Mar 13, 2014 1:31 AM GMT
    I was oblivious until I was 24. Could still use a reminder now and then.
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    Mar 13, 2014 1:58 AM GMT
    YourName2000 said"Good looking" is subjective. If you're not attracted to yourself, it seems unlikely that you'll think you're attractive to others, even if others say "you're attractive". icon_confused.gif


    this
    or
    He's trying to tell you he has a tiny penis.
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    Mar 13, 2014 1:59 AM GMT
    A humble person is very attractive. Not everyone views themselves as being handsome and those that do probably have some other issues.

    If you keep in contact with the guy you'll probably discern if he's being genuine or not.
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    Mar 13, 2014 2:01 AM GMT
    Sometimes it's false modesty.
    The best ones are the guys who grew into their looks. They're good looking but don't have an ego about it.
  • Webster666

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    Mar 13, 2014 2:40 AM GMT
    There are all different types.
    Some guys turn instantly ugly because of their conceit.
    Most of us have different opinions as to what we would call good looking.
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    Mar 13, 2014 2:52 AM GMT
    Yeah attractiveness is all subjective. My friend is extremely good looking but he doesn't prat about it, and I greatly love him for it! Stuck up people who think they are the hottest thing ever are enraging to be around....but yes, some people are oblivious to their good looks! Or they just don't care. Haha
  • rnch

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    Mar 13, 2014 2:55 AM GMT
    Macaque saidSometimes it's false modesty.
    The best ones are the guys who grew into their looks. They're good looking but don't have an ego about it.





    Quite right!
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    Mar 13, 2014 3:26 AM GMT
    Nebraskakid467 saidYeah attractiveness is all subjective. My friend is extremely good looking but he doesn't prat about it, and I greatly love him for it! Stuck up people who think they are the hottest thing ever are enraging to be around....but yes, some people are oblivious to their good looks! Or they just don't care. Haha


    I agreed somewhat with this assessment. Hot looking guys who act douchy or mean guys who are hot who act douchy are just total turn offs. I like guys who are good looking but not being stuck up about it. But then again, Look is very subjective. I can go for a **hot guy and my friends are like **Ewh Lol. Vice Versa.
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    Mar 13, 2014 4:09 AM GMT
    Those that are, are by far the hottest!!
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    Mar 13, 2014 4:13 AM GMT
    There's a lot of gay guys that were former fatties as kids and kinda blossomed when they grew up...
    Most still carry that inner fat kid and have a hard time seeing themselves as anything special.
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    Mar 13, 2014 6:12 AM GMT
    Depends on the guy
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    Mar 13, 2014 6:24 AM GMT
    It is very disappointing to find a good looking guy who can't get away from the mirror...the ones that only see the outside world if it pertains to stroking their own ego. That, my friends, is not hot. As long as his modesty is genuine, that just makes him even hotter
  • AMoonHawk

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    Mar 13, 2014 6:30 AM GMT
    It's funny because some don't realize while some not even close to good looking guys think they are smoking hot ... The later crack me up so bad icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Mar 13, 2014 9:17 AM GMT
    eagermuscle saidI was oblivious until I was 24. Could still use a reminder now and then.


    WOW, YOU'RE OVER 24?!?!?!?! /reminder
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    Mar 13, 2014 12:38 PM GMT
    He is trying to be modest but on the flip side.. I like to try and be modest as well because everyones definition of gorgeous is not the same. Just because you think so does not mean the world thinks so.


    Although.. More often than not, if you hear it enough it is safe to say you arent at the very least ugly