Doug and Bill, Your question ^^^^^ above is a very good one. Here's my answer, for what its worth.
I'd be happy to know if there was a particular restaurant or business that didn't want me because of my sexuality, or any other reason. Fine with me. I'd encourage my office to hold the meeting somewhere else. There are tons of choices and we really don't have any problem choosing a different, better, business run by normal, enlightened proprietors! Let the marketplace sort it out. When word gets out that a business is run by angry homophobic people, or bigots, or religious fanatics, the public will eventually drive them out of business. We're seeing this actually happen. A great way of a sort of Prairie Style justice!