WTH?!? Is it always like this for you guys?

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    Dec 24, 2008 11:40 PM GMT
    Okay so I went through what I assume most guys go through when discovering (or coming to the horrible realization of) their same sex attractions. I wanted desperately NOT to be turning homo, spiraling despair, etc.

    Fast forward four years to my freshman year in college when I've fully accepted my attraction to the same sex. This semester alone I've already had a few females either ask why I haven't asked them out or actually ask me out themselves. Who knows how many more are waiting for me to 'pop the question'.

    I dunno, this is more of a rant than anything else but i think it's ridiculous how girls start being interested in you after you've fully accepted that you are NOT straight and never will be. icon_confused.gif


    Any of you guys have similar experiences?
  • Delivis

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    Dec 24, 2008 11:43 PM GMT
    Yup, girls ask me out all the time. Not guys, nooooo, that would be too convenient.
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    Dec 24, 2008 11:52 PM GMT
    mm once you become moe accepting of your self, you tend to get more relaxed around people.. girls find a relaxed man attractive.. someone who is more confident and understanding of who they are is also more attractive..

    Men don't ask you out cause they got no balls... go ask them out instead!
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    Dec 25, 2008 12:38 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidmm once you become moe accepting of your self, you tend to get more relaxed around people.. girls find a relaxed man attractive.. someone who is more confident and understanding of who they are is also more attractive..

    Men don't ask you out cause they got no balls... go ask them out instead!


    Ha ha, after reading your thread I'm sure as hell going to ask some guys out!
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    Dec 25, 2008 12:42 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidmm once you become moe accepting of your self, you tend to get more relaxed around people.. girls find a relaxed man attractive.. someone who is more confident and understanding of who they are is also more attractive..

    Men don't ask you out cause they got no balls... go ask them out instead!


    Truth! lilTanker is correct. This happens to me all the time, especially at work. To top that off, Australian women are far more aggressive than American women...I have been down under for three months now and I am beating them off with a stick! I take it as a compliment however - you should do the same....
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    Dec 25, 2008 12:49 AM GMT


    You listen to lilTanker, RyanReBoRn, he speaks truth! And be ready, we both have had women get a bit pissed when they find out we're not cousins or B Fs and by that we mean Best Friends.

    In the words of at least a few gals,
    "Eh, what a waste." heheheh .......we don't think so! To one I replied that we're the guys gals can talk to when their guys give them a headache. We even had a couple of women over the years slyly try to break us up!!!!! icon_rolleyes.gif

    Merry Christmas, Ryan!!

    Doug and Bill
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    Dec 25, 2008 1:18 AM GMT
    Women did not take an interest in me until I lost weight and got rid of my glasses. All of a sudden I was a catch. Sort of like gay men come to think of it. I find that most women expect you to ask them out. As for gay men, they are often not thinking of a date at all, but a roll in the hay, so to speak.
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    Dec 25, 2008 2:15 AM GMT
    RyanReBoRn saidFast forward four years to my freshman year in college when I've fully accepted my attraction to the same sex. This semester alone I've already had a few females either ask why I haven't asked them out or actually ask me out themselves. Who knows how many more are waiting for me to 'pop the question'.

    I dunno, this is more of a rant than anything else but i think it's ridiculous how girls start being interested in you after you've fully accepted that you are NOT straight and never will be.


    You should be thankful that hot girls find you attractive, even though they are not your type, for the same reason that straight guys should be thankful when you hit on them but they decline because you are not their type.
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    Dec 25, 2008 2:29 AM GMT
    Delivis saidYup, girls ask me out all the time. Not guys, nooooo, that would be too convenient.



    have u seen Ur self. if i saw u walking down the street i would look at u and say so hot but so straight to myself.because as i said b4 i am a bad judge of character.

    anyways people new just by the way i acted but even though i still hear people telling me that this girl likes and i know they what can i do but avoid them a little until i think their feeling have passed
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    Dec 25, 2008 2:42 AM GMT
    Delivis saidYup, girls ask me out all the time. Not guys, nooooo, that would be too convenient.

    You gotta relax.. smile a little.. have some fun.. enjoy life, let guys know you aren't so scary.. they'll come flocking to your door like irritating christmas beatles that hit my window at night and freak me out.
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    Dec 25, 2008 3:44 AM GMT
    jakebenson said


    You should be thankful that hot girls find you attractive, even though they are not your type, for the same reason that straight guys should be thankful when you hit on them but they decline because you are not their type.



    I am thankful when I get hit on by girls, it's a big self esteem booster, ha ha.
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    Dec 25, 2008 3:56 AM GMT
    No, it's never been that way for me. I have never had a woman hit on me. Am I too ugly for them? Do I just scream gay? I dunno... a friend of mine from school accused me of being in the closet b/c I don't dress very stereotypically anymore. I think women must just intuitively sense my opinion of their marring chest growths.
  • DCEric

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    Dec 25, 2008 4:35 PM GMT
    Satyricon331 saidI think women must just intuitively sense my opinion of their marring chest growths.


    I loled.

    /Women rarely approach me.
    //Tend to be out in most groups of people I know.
    ///Was aggressively pursued, however last week in Asia by a woman named Ezee, and yes its pronounced how you think.
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    Dec 25, 2008 7:23 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidmm once you become moe accepting of your self, you tend to get more relaxed around people.. girls find a relaxed man attractive.. someone who is more confident and understanding of who they are is also more attractive..



    EXACTLY!!!!!
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    Dec 25, 2008 7:36 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidmm once you become moe accepting of your self, you tend to get more relaxed around people.. girls find a relaxed man attractive.. someone who is more confident and understanding of who they are is also more attractive..

    Men don't ask you out cause they got no balls... go ask them out instead!


    Wow, I third that one! Up until very recently I was in a great deal of denial about who I really was, and girls could pick up on it. I kept hoping the opposite sex attractions I thought I should be feeling would develop, but they never have. I recently have my epiphany, and my confidence has actually shot up quite a bit. Girls are actually beginning to take a liking to me now. I am still careful about who I tell about my sexuality, as you never know the fall-out that could occur. I don't lie about it though... if they ask I will tell, but I don't really go out of my way to tell people.

    Admittedly coming out is a slow ongoing process... damn it took me 26 years to even come out to myself. The next year will be interesting to say the least. Everyone is going to know "the big secret".

    ^Holy tangent Batman^
  • Freddo

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    Dec 25, 2008 7:37 PM GMT
    DCEric said
    Satyricon331 saidI think women must just intuitively sense my opinion of their marring chest growths.


    I loled.

    /Women rarely approach me.
    //Tend to be out in most groups of people I know.
    ///Was aggressively pursued, however last week in Asia by a woman named Ezee, and yes its pronounced how you think.


    So... did she live up to her name?