Naturally slim guy doesn't fit in

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    Mar 18, 2014 10:04 PM GMT
    So I'm new to RJ and I'm wondering what the general consensus is for muscular guys and what they look for.

    I'm a slim guy but far from bone thin. I'm very active but unsure on how to catch the eye of the knight and shining armor savior- with muscles, great attitude, and enough strength for the both of us. Do muscle men tend to like other muscle men? Where do the slim/swimmers build guys fit in?

    Comments appreciated.. Thanks guys.
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    Mar 18, 2014 10:05 PM GMT
    I have dated slim guy's before. Most guy's who are muscular don't have the face I like.
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    Mar 18, 2014 10:09 PM GMT
    Neogaf1000 saidI have dated slim guy's before. Most guy's who are muscular don't have the face I like.



    Interesting. I've had a straight guy friend of mine say I have a handsome face before. Just feel out of the loop on this site haha
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    Mar 18, 2014 10:33 PM GMT
    This site is less about fitness these days. But to answer your question.. Muscular guys usually seek out other muscular guys. But there are exceptions to the rule. I've dated slim guys before. Not skin and bones type. But guys that are healthy and do some form of exercise. I suppose a swimmer's build would be one way to describe them.
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    Mar 19, 2014 1:00 AM GMT
    LionEyes said
    Neogaf1000 saidI have dated slim guy's before. Most guy's who are muscular don't have the face I like.


    I agree, there are guys with hot bodies and busted faces. I'll rather go for an average body guy with beautiful face, he may as well have a big dick too icon_wink.gif
    WAHOO! there's hope for me yet !
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    Mar 19, 2014 1:03 AM GMT
    We're more than bodies bro. Some guys are body snatchers, they use your body at their will, then drop ya. Focus more on your esteem, Focus on what makes you unique. When that right guy does show up, you would have done all ground work that's truly important. All the best.
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    Mar 19, 2014 1:05 AM GMT
    ^^ body snatcher icon_eek.gif
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    Mar 19, 2014 1:41 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidTBH, you don't look that slim. Average at best. You could tone up some more. I have more of a slim/athletic body. I have come to terms that I will never be a big muscular guy. But it's not an issue with me. I bang many hot muscly guys who have no problem with my body.

    Maybe it's your face? Show your face so I can judge you. Please. icon_biggrin.gif

    That's because you're slutty. icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 19, 2014 1:52 AM GMT
    xrichx said
    jmusmc85 saidTBH, you don't look that slim. Average at best. You could tone up some more. I have more of a slim/athletic body. I have come to terms that I will never be a big muscular guy. But it's not an issue with me. I bang many hot muscly guys who have no problem with my body.

    Maybe it's your face? Show your face so I can judge you. Please. icon_biggrin.gif

    That's because you're slutty. icon_lol.gif
    now if I could only get the two of you in the same room icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 19, 2014 1:55 AM GMT
    _Behemoth_ said
    xrichx said
    jmusmc85 saidTBH, you don't look that slim. Average at best. You could tone up some more. I have more of a slim/athletic body. I have come to terms that I will never be a big muscular guy. But it's not an issue with me. I bang many hot muscly guys who have no problem with my body.

    Maybe it's your face? Show your face so I can judge you. Please. icon_biggrin.gif

    That's because you're slutty. icon_lol.gif
    now if I could only get the two of you in the same room icon_twisted.gif

    icon_eek.gif
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    Mar 19, 2014 1:58 AM GMT
    I've found a lot of the bigger muscle guys are attracted to people of their size, but I've met more than a handful of muscle men who would have no picking me up and throwing me over their shoulder. icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 19, 2014 1:59 AM GMT
    JumpMan_Josh saidI've found a lot of the bigger muscle guys are attracted to people of their size, but I've met more than a handful of muscle men who would have no picking me up and throwing me over their shoulder. icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif

    I saw a porn GIF of this once. And I immediately thought you. icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 19, 2014 2:00 AM GMT
    xrichx said
    JumpMan_Josh saidI've found a lot of the bigger muscle guys are attracted to people of their size, but I've met more than a handful of muscle men who would have no picking me up and throwing me over their shoulder. icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif

    I saw a porn GIF of this once. And I immediately thought you. icon_lol.gif


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  • Import

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    Mar 19, 2014 2:02 AM GMT
    I'm slim.
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    Mar 19, 2014 2:11 AM GMT
    Import saidI'm slim.
    ok..and????
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    Mar 19, 2014 2:44 AM GMT
    I'm slim and I've been with two muscular guys. Not everything is set in stone. People have different tastes. Good luck in your quest! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 19, 2014 2:50 AM GMT
    meh, who cares if you don't fit in.
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    Mar 19, 2014 3:30 AM GMT
    Apparently naturally slim guys DO fit in on RJ and most want the same thing - here's the proof:

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    Mar 19, 2014 4:42 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    Import saidI'm slim.


    You are also kinda fugs.icon_confused.gif
    lol this made me burst into laughtericon_lol.gif
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    Mar 19, 2014 5:06 AM GMT
    LionEyes said
    YOU GOT A LOT OF F*CKING TIME IN YOUR HANDS!!!!

    Not really. This took under a minute. I just repasted the same answer I give to every "average" guy who asks this question, which seems to come up every two weeks. That frees me up for loads of gym time.
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    Mar 19, 2014 4:53 PM GMT
    Import saidI'm slim.


    Not only you are slim , but you also have a beautiful lean and fit body !
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    Apr 01, 2014 2:09 AM GMT
    For me, lasting attraction comes from someone's spirit, personality, values, understanding, attitude and belief system more than their looks.

    Physical assets are usually enhanced, diminished or often destroyed by these other things - or used to wank over, which doesn't usually last very long.

    Don't get me wrong - I love ogling a hot body like the rest of you - but there are more important facets to a person when you are considering a relationship or meaningful connection with someone

    I find it surprising that quite a few men have quite defined "types" or physical criteria which they seem to limit themselves to. For me, there is pleasure in exploring the merits of an individual in a holistic way, without ruling out whole swathes of people based on say age, hairiness or physical build, for example. I am not judging them, I am just surprised how common that behaviour is.
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    Apr 01, 2014 2:48 AM GMT
    Travelguy90 saidSo I'm new to RJ and I'm wondering what the general consensus is for muscular guys and what they look for.

    I'm a slim guy but far from bone thin. I'm very active but unsure on how to catch the eye of the knight and shining armor savior- with muscles, great attitude, and enough strength for the both of us. Do muscle men tend to like other muscle men? Where do the slim/swimmers build guys fit in?

    Comments appreciated.. Thanks guys.


    consider that there's a section called swimming, im sure having a swimmer build is fine, if you're the type to keep physically fit and active. lol.

  • Apr 01, 2014 12:28 PM GMT
    Different people like different things. Not all guys with muscle like other guys with muscle. Also this isn't exactly eHarmony.com, so it's not like many people are looking for a relationship here anyway.