What physical and mental attributes do you like in a guy? Which ones do you hate?

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    Mar 19, 2014 5:08 AM GMT
    By physical attributes, I mean anything that you can tell just by looking at a guy, whether that be build, how he dresses, what voice he has, hair, or a body part. Do these differ between someone you might want to just hook up with and somebody you want to date?

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    This might sound shallow, but for me, being attracted to the guy is a must. A hot body might come and go with age/time, but mentally, the best trait combination I look for in a guy is being at a good balance of confidence and empathy , a.k.a not being a self-centered narcissist/douchebag, or somebody who will cheat (usually related). I also like it when guys can grow stubble. That's for being with someone. For just checking out or hooking up, I still see the face first and mostly, but nice pecs, abs, and butt are all hot ;) Oh, and don't forget hung icon_twisted.gif lol (but that's not a must).
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    Mar 19, 2014 5:10 AM GMT
    Physically fit, and not crazy. Attractiveness is negotiable. icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 19, 2014 5:27 AM GMT
    Guys, calm down. We all have preferences and I personally think both of you are aiming too low and too high(oops)/are on complete opposites of the spectrum, but that doesn't mean your preference in a guy is the only one that goes.
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    Mar 19, 2014 5:29 AM GMT
    I ignored that guy's posts. See what I meant by narcissistic and self-centered? He got mad because the other guy didn't give him validation that a body is everything, and projected those feelings to him. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Mar 19, 2014 5:51 AM GMT
    I prefer the ones without a mental illness
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    Mar 19, 2014 5:55 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidI prefer the ones without a mental illness


    What is that even supposed to mean?
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    Mar 19, 2014 6:12 AM GMT
    Self sufficient sarcastic assholes. I tend to like lean or average body types.
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    Mar 19, 2014 8:42 AM GMT
    Physically I like a guy who's in good overall fitness and makes the best if his appearance.

    Characteristics are more important to me. I like someone who is mentally strong, knows his own mind and has the mental comprehension to talk through problems without smashing things etc. Also someone who is patient and won't just rush sex and then disappear.
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    Mar 19, 2014 3:20 PM GMT
    I like a fit and smart guy, someone who's articulate of himself.
  • kentstrongtom...

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    Mar 19, 2014 4:36 PM GMT
    I have no problem with a little, acceptable belly, no 6 pack, an average sized cock works for my desires and some good strong pecs makes me melt. The guy also must be smart, down to earth, understanding, kind. And... my partner is more than that. :-D
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    Mar 19, 2014 4:59 PM GMT
    Generally in shape and likes fitness and just simply is not arrogant
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    Mar 19, 2014 5:20 PM GMT
    What physical and mental attributes do you like in a guy? Which ones do you hate?

    A flexible mind more than a hard, rigid body. Even a rigid cock doesn't impress me. If I can't connect with the head on his shoulders I disregard the head between his legs.
  • Matras

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    Mar 19, 2014 5:21 PM GMT
    I like nice cock, without any issues...

    I do not like 'buggy ass'...
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    Mar 19, 2014 7:43 PM GMT
    LC92 said
    AMoonHawk saidI prefer the ones without a mental illness


    What is that even supposed to mean?


    It means he's not interested in a guy who's crazy!