Saturday night out

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    Mar 22, 2014 3:23 PM GMT
    Hey I'm going out tonight for the first time in ages and I hope to have my first ever hook up! Any tips on how to pull gratefully received and I'll test them out tonight icon_smile.gif
  • Amira

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    Mar 22, 2014 3:26 PM GMT
    Just twerk. icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 22, 2014 3:35 PM GMT
    For you, just show up.
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    Mar 22, 2014 3:44 PM GMT
    lose the expectations, except for one:
    Have fun.
    Don't read into anything. Don't get stuck on the wall; just dance and enjoy being alive.
  • Karl

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    Mar 22, 2014 3:58 PM GMT
    be interesting is the key :3
    what will be will be , just relaxxxx
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    Mar 22, 2014 6:40 PM GMT
    Cheers folks icon_biggrin.gif

    What can I actually DO though. Like do I walk over and talk to someone or do I buy them a drink. I've done some online research and it's quite contradictory. Apparently guys can feel emasculated if you buy them a drink but then also if you don't buy a drink people think your cheap. Its like a mine field!
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    Mar 22, 2014 6:44 PM GMT
    Slut
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    Mar 22, 2014 6:48 PM GMT
    So if I see someone I like I should buy them one?
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    Mar 22, 2014 7:14 PM GMT
    Don't buy anyone anything until you click.
    Walk in and smile at everyone to show what a great guy you are.
    Find someone you like and ask him if he thinks the bar is too dark... because it always is.
    If he doesn't want to talk, move on.
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    Mar 22, 2014 7:18 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidDon't buy anyone anything until you click.
    Walk in and smile at everyone to show what a great guy you are.
    Find someone you like and ask him if he thinks the bar is too dark... because it always is.
    If he doesn't want to talk, move on.


    Yeah but how am I meant to click with someone until I've spoke to them? I thought you offered to buy someone a drink to get to talk them!?

    Bollocks in 30 mins I've got people coming over (unless they arrive early) and I feel totally unprepared!
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    Mar 22, 2014 7:22 PM GMT
    Oh, and dance like this with your shirt off.
    (I want this kid so bad.)
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-2YuXPN73YE&feature=youtube_gdata_player
    Not like this.
    (Yuck)
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ygYpKgvoLGw&feature=youtube_gdata_player
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    Mar 22, 2014 7:31 PM GMT
    'Yeah but how am I meant to click with someone until I've spoke to them? I thought you offered to buy someone a drink to get to talk them!?"

    Only on TV.
    Make small talk to start.

    This bar is hot...
    What time does this bar get packed...?
    This is my first time here, is the music always so loud/horrible/fantastic...?
    Do they serve food here?
    Hello... I'd like to meet you. My name's Thom.

    This always worked for me to start off comfortably.


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    Mar 22, 2014 7:50 PM GMT
    Thanks!People are due any minute now and I'm already a little tiosy slightly so I'm going to practice my conversation all starters when we get to the club! I've wrote them down in my phone so I don't forget them icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 23, 2014 1:45 AM GMT
    It didn't work icon_sad.gif
  • mybud

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    Mar 23, 2014 1:59 AM GMT
    Chin up bro..You're cute, it will happen for ya.Always use protection.
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    Mar 23, 2014 2:02 AM GMT
    mybud saidChin up bro..You're cute, it will happen for ya.Always use protection.


    I made a title of myself so it's never happens again and I have aheadache!