Changing?

  • Joeyphx444

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    Mar 23, 2014 3:19 AM GMT
    Not sure if anyone else has felt this at a certain age or not?

    I have found myself wanting less in terms of dating, men, etc.

    I have lost some interest in going on the apps and dating sites and looking around and chatting. I still go on and check messages and might message someone once in a while if they catch my eye, but I don't send as much as I used to. I almost feel like I am loosing the initiator/pursuer in me. I have been doing a lot of "me" things and I think that has gotten me into a mentality of caring for my needs rather than the need to talk to guys or go on dates, etc.

    I think this is a good change icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 23, 2014 3:22 AM GMT
    Been there done that, got the tshirt, key chain, coffee mug, mouse pad, monthly magazine.. shit they just keep sending me crap!

    That stage has come and gone. I don't use them now I've no interest on them. I downloaded scruff the other day flicked through lost interest and deleted it.

    Plus I refuse to enter into the circular life style of hookups for validation, I feel just fine about my self without needing validation from some random horny guy.
  • creature

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    Mar 23, 2014 3:31 AM GMT
    I shifted the focus to what kind of father I imagine the guy would be. I've been thinking a lot about marriage and kids, so that's where my priorities are.
  • jo2hotbod

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    Mar 23, 2014 3:35 AM GMT
    Yah that's typical
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    Mar 23, 2014 3:55 AM GMT
    You'll find as you age, all kinds of things (not just hunting down sex) will change for you. If you do it right, it will always be for the better.
    Life can be as great as you make it, when you let things go that weigh you down.

    If you don't, you'll look as stale as this cray cray performance!

    Life's too short for this much drama!
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    Mar 23, 2014 4:10 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidIf you don't, you'll look as stale as this cray cray performance!

    Life's too short for this much drama!

    Yes the presenter was awfully stale indeed!
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    Mar 23, 2014 2:30 PM GMT
    The crack effect wears off after these different venues leave you in the same exact place you started before you tried to use them!

    Try something totally new... spice it up. Pursuing in person is always more of everything including fun (if you aren't thirsty)
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    Mar 23, 2014 4:23 PM GMT
    lilTanker said
    TheGuyNextDoor saidIf you don't, you'll look as stale as this cray cray performance!

    Life's too short for this much drama!

    Yes the presenter was awfully stale indeed!


    I do remember this bloke , i was working 1st class on the DFW-LAX-SYD the day i met him , i didn't fancy him at all ,he was such a prissy drongo !! , glad he disembarked in LAX ..lol..
    I was told by a crew-mate that he also has a radio show ..