ThatSwimmerGuy saidRead their profile. Talk about something they are interested in. If they fail to fill it out they are not worth it.
I like your comment....seems like so many guys are then just not worth it!!
make the connection, initially most people like to get to know more about the other and they start with questions about you and you reciprocate....feels like a job interview most of the time!.....where is the passion in that???
that's what i'm looking to connect with....discovering the passion in a person, not meaning sexual passion(yes of course!) but I connect with people who are passionate about themselves and what they do in life!!!
too much to ask?