How do you grab the attention of a guy you like on RJ???

  • naughtyboy55

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    Mar 25, 2014 7:51 PM GMT
    So what is the best way to grab the attention of a guy you like and want to get to know on RJ or any other internet site without being dull!!!...and please!...don't say cock pics!!There's enough cocks going around as it is???
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    Mar 25, 2014 7:53 PM GMT
    Say hi..or unlock
  • naughtyboy55

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    Mar 25, 2014 8:15 PM GMT
    "Hi"...and then what?
    I find it so dull and purposeless asking people "tell me more about yourself?" or "what are you looking for?" or those types of generic questions initially.....asking too personal questions too soon seems to be forward and a bit aggressive, don't you think?
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    Mar 25, 2014 9:02 PM GMT
    Shameless flirting.
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    Mar 25, 2014 9:25 PM GMT
    bonaparts01 saidsay something shocking and extreme and boom, you will get an attention

    This because it is super wise and stuff.
  • FuerteC

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    Mar 25, 2014 9:26 PM GMT
    naughtyboy55 saidSo what is the best way to grab the attention of a guy you like and want to get to know on RJ or any other internet site without being dull!!!...and please!...don't say cock pics!!There's enough cocks going around as it is???


    Get to know them. Or is it that hard these days?
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    Mar 25, 2014 9:39 PM GMT
    These guys are all size queens. You'll only get their attention if you're hung like a horse.
  • FuerteC

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    Mar 25, 2014 9:43 PM GMT
    bonaparts01 said
    Lumpyoatmeal saidThese guys are all size queens. You'll only get their attention if you're hung like a horse.


    don't talk about yourself so much


    What?
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    Mar 25, 2014 9:44 PM GMT
    FuerteC said
    bonaparts01 said
    Lumpyoatmeal saidThese guys are all size queens. You'll only get their attention if you're hung like a horse.

    don't talk about yourself so much

    What?

    Humor impaired x2. icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 25, 2014 9:48 PM GMT
    paz_daddy saidyou don't.

    It's impossible.
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    Mar 25, 2014 9:56 PM GMT
    paz_daddy said
    JohnSpotter said
    paz_daddy saidyou don't.

    It's impossible.

    no, it's not. icon_lol.gif

    OK. I'm confused.
    PASS.
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    Mar 25, 2014 10:41 PM GMT
    _Behemoth_ saidSay hi..or unlock

    In my case neither of your options work. When they unlock without even introducing themselves I automatically ignore them no matter how good they look. The same with guys who just say "hey" or "what sup?", just no...

    Best way to call MY attention is when I receive emails of guys saying they agree with my views or with something I said. Picture comments are also good, I usually reply with a thanks and that can lead to a conversation.
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    Mar 26, 2014 4:12 AM GMT
    David3000 said
    _Behemoth_ saidSay hi..or unlock

    In my case neither of your options work. When they unlock without even introducing themselves I automatically ignore them no matter how good they look. The same with guys who just say "hey" or "what sup?", just no...

    Best way to call MY attention is when I receive emails of guys saying they agree with my views or with something I said. Picture comments are also good, I usually reply with a thanks and that can lead to a conversation.
    don't forget the technique!
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    Mar 26, 2014 4:15 AM GMT
    For me, it's agreeing on some topic or realizing we have something in common, and we message one another, and it helps that we both find each other attractive icon_smile.gif
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Mar 27, 2014 12:20 AM GMT
    Read their profile. Talk about something they are interested in. If they fail to fill it out they are not worth it.
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    Mar 27, 2014 4:37 AM GMT
    Here's a helpful video that worked wonders for me. ;)

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3i6Jqu7BT4M
  • naughtyboy55

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    Mar 27, 2014 6:00 PM GMT
    "Shameless flirting."
    I believe flirting is an art!!!
    so what would be the first step to it?
    "Hi, you sexy beast!"...."great 6-pack, I bet you work out!"
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  • naughtyboy55

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    Mar 27, 2014 6:06 PM GMT
    ThatSwimmerGuy saidRead their profile. Talk about something they are interested in. If they fail to fill it out they are not worth it.

    I like your comment....seems like so many guys are then just not worth it!!
    make the connection, initially most people like to get to know more about the other and they start with questions about you and you reciprocate....feels like a job interview most of the time!.....where is the passion in that???
    that's what i'm looking to connect with....discovering the passion in a person, not meaning sexual passion(yes of course!) but I connect with people who are passionate about themselves and what they do in life!!!
    too much to ask?
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    Mar 27, 2014 6:21 PM GMT
    Complimenting what he says and being funny.