Dec 26, 2008 8:58 PM GMT
This past summer I was romantically involved with a 29 year old man named Frey. He was one of those myspace celebs with like 29875293745 friends and was very attractive and very sought after, and had way with words for sure. We were "dating" considering he lived in chicago and I lived in Delaware at the time. He was very controlling and immature and would snap at the smallest things, such as, me coughing on the phone...pressing the ignore button for no reason when I would call him etc and like stuff like that. He would insult my weight. bash my talents, and make me so upset on days that he knew mattered to me on purpose....such as graduation....family reunions...etc... but I put up with it. Long story short. One day I found out he was cheating on me with...6 other men....at the same time...and none of them had any idea that this was going on. we had a big fight etc....stopped communicating. however, I missed him alot and after alot of crap...we started building the bridge to be friends again. I still liked him very much, but it was apparent he had moved on. He promised me he had changed and that he was a totally diffrent person. HOWEVER, last night we talked and he was being QUITE romantic. and it got my hopes up quite a bit. we were talking on video chat. and then I had to go for 5 seconds to say goodbye to my friend lauren who is leaving for 4 months! he got EXTREMELY pissed and said that he couldnt beleive that i wasnt devoting my entire self to him. and signed off. saying he had to hang out with his roomate. he promised me his roomate was straight and that they were best friends. which i was cool with. however. as soon as he got offline he texted me telling me that they were dating and very much in love. that they have amazing sex. and i would never ever in my life have a chance with him again, to leave him alone, and fuck off....and called me while they were having sex so I could hear.........resorting right back to his old behavior... =/....this was a pretty lame description...but I hope it gave you all a gist of the situation....I don't understand why I'm still for some reason attracted to this guy. He's a total dick.....because of how he's made me feel. very insecure about myself and.so my question is......Has anyone ever been in a situation like this before? and How did you deal/cope with it... and move on?