First time tips...?

  • averyc93

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    Mar 26, 2014 10:02 PM GMT
    So I've been with my boyfriend for quite a while. Are there any pointers as far as bottoming for the first time? I'm a wuss so anyone have any helpful tips...?
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    Mar 26, 2014 10:06 PM GMT
    Expect that it's probably going to hurt and once you've started the actual sex part even if you start to regret the decision you're stuck with it until it's over.

    Use a condom.

    Ask if your partner doesn't mind going slow.

  • averyc93

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    Mar 27, 2014 5:14 PM GMT
    I'm not too worried about the whole stuck with the decision thing (I've been with him quite a while and he's been patient) but the pain thing is a different story since my pain tolerance is laughable
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    Mar 27, 2014 5:29 PM GMT
    Well I thought it was painful and I assume everybody who's not used to it would but I have heard since writing that that some people didn't find it that painful so you may not either.

    The condom is lubed so it would be a lot more painful if you didn't use the condom.
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    Mar 27, 2014 5:32 PM GMT
    Lube is your friend. I've only done it once but lube was needed! icon_wink.gif
  • averyc93

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    Mar 27, 2014 9:30 PM GMT
    I'll keep all that in mind, thanks icon_smile.gif