Lack of sex due to location

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    Mar 27, 2014 10:31 PM GMT
    This is a #small_town_problem. Even if I want to hookup, which is rare, I have to drive ~45 miles to Tulsa to find a decent guy. I don't want to settle for letting some obese married man blow me just because I live in a relatively remote location. I usually just end up masturbating because all the gay apps (Jack'd, Grindr, Scruff etc) don't produce any favorable results, and the same trolls are the only ones who respond on Craigslist. I almost feel sexually frustrated.

    What am I gonna do, resort to webcam buddies? Lame. Anyone feel my pain?

    EDIT: I have plans to move out of here in about a year, which is when I will graduate college.
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    Mar 27, 2014 11:08 PM GMT
    This is happening in big cities too. and it is worse in other areas of the world. Went to Italy last year. Nothing at all going on there in the bars except in the dark rooms.
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    Mar 27, 2014 11:26 PM GMT
    Avsigkommen said
    What am I gonna do, resort to webcam buddies? Lame. Anyone feel my pain?

    Relocate. I've been to Muskogee a number of times, I understand what you're facing.

    On the other hand, I lived in Fargo, North Dakota, which is only a little bigger. Oddly, I had more gay sex there than I did previously living in Seattle. It's a reason I lingered there longer than I probably should have.

    Maybe the gay guys in Fargo were more desperate than elsewhere, I dunno. But I know I was in bed with someone almost every weekend.

    But if you can't make Muskogee work, then move, as soon as you can. You ain't gonna quench your thirst in a desert, right?
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    Mar 27, 2014 11:29 PM GMT
    The only advice that comes to mind is get the hell out of Oklahoma. OR move to a larger city. I think you will be much happier.
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    Mar 27, 2014 11:53 PM GMT
    Oh y'all, I have plans to move to a bigger city after college. But that's a year away and I've suffered this problem since I started having sexual thoughts, as I was born and raised here.
  • Timbales

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    Mar 27, 2014 11:55 PM GMT
    find a fuck buddy
  • Apparition

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    Mar 28, 2014 1:27 AM GMT
    if you cant find another gay guy your age, you are just going to have to create one. Find some likely candidates, and drag them into your closet for fucking. Your town has 39000 people, I am sure there is a highschool kid who likes his cock sucked and willing to suck yours in exchange.

    I made 2 in a town of 400.