Would you date a bottom who is tall and manly?

  • evilmike1989

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    Mar 28, 2014 5:17 AM GMT
    Just out of curiosity, I am considering trying out gay relationship, and I definitely want to be on submissive type.

    But I am 6.3, muscular college jock, who is completely masculine. If you are a top - would you go for someone who is taller or as tall, more manly and so on. Is it a normal scenario or not?

    Cuz' all I keep seeing in porn that bottoms are girlier, smaller etc.
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    Mar 28, 2014 5:22 AM GMT
    evilmike1989 saidJust out of curiosity, I am considering trying out gay relationship, and I definitely want to be on submissive type.

    But I am 6.3, muscular college jock, who is completely masculine. If you are a top - would you go for someone who is taller or as tall, more manly and so on. Is it a normal scenario or not?

    Cuz' all I keep seeing in porn that bottoms are girlier, smaller etc.

    Never topped but I would definitely top a guy like you. I'm not really attracted to guys who are small or skinny.
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    Mar 28, 2014 5:22 AM GMT
    Height/build of the guy doesn't matter to me. It's actually kinda hot trying to manhandle a guy taller/bigger than me. icon_biggrin.gif

    Don't let porn define who you are or what gets you off. It's all fantasy.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Mar 28, 2014 5:25 AM GMT
    so are you saying you want to short guy to top you? because there are tons of them out there
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    Mar 28, 2014 5:31 AM GMT
    I prefer my men shorter then me (Im 6') but thats my personal preference.
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    Mar 28, 2014 5:36 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    David3000 saidI prefer my men shorter then me (Im 6') but thats my personal preference.


    Hi. icon_biggrin.gif

    I'm aware of you.
  • SuntoryTime

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    Mar 28, 2014 6:31 AM GMT
    Hell yeah. Sure the difference in size can be a little awkward but whatevs. icon_cool.gif
  • buddycat

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    Mar 28, 2014 8:13 AM GMT
    I think that is interesting but definitely not uncommon. I certainly don't think masculinity has anything to do with whether you are a top or bottom. The height thing is interesting. I tend to like guys taller or larger than me but that certainly isn't set in stone. Then again I am a bottom and can say that because people tend to clock me pretty easily for some reason. You would be surprised how lying down even's out height differences but if the other guy is much smaller it may seem a little awkward.
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    Mar 28, 2014 5:45 PM GMT
    It's totally fine to be a tall bottom or a short top. I saw a drag show
    recently where a queen described herself as a blouse - a feminine top. I think your needs sound pretty normal.
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    Mar 29, 2014 5:02 AM GMT
    I like cute guys who are boy next door types and who are bottoms! icon_smile.gif Not tall, super manly bottom dudes, no.
  • matty2night

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    Mar 29, 2014 5:20 AM GMT
    I don't mind...I'm not that tall and have dated guys taller than me and topped

  • Apr 09, 2014 9:03 PM GMT
    HamsterCheeks said
    evilmike1989 saidJust out of curiosity, I am considering trying out gay relationship, and I definitely want to be on submissive type.

    But I am 6.3, muscular college jock, who is completely masculine. If you are a top - would you go for someone who is taller or as tall, more manly and so on. Is it a normal scenario or not?

    Cuz' all I keep seeing in porn that bottoms are girlier, smaller etc.

    Never topped but I would definitely top a guy like you. I'm not really attracted to guys who are small or skinny.


    Oh yes..same here, I'd rather top a big muscular masculine guy!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 09, 2014 9:09 PM GMT
    That's the only type that approaches me.
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    Apr 09, 2014 9:42 PM GMT
    evilmike1989 saidJust out of curiosity, I am considering trying out gay relationship, and I definitely want to be on submissive type.

    But I am 6.3, muscular college jock, who is completely masculine. If you are a top - would you go for someone who is taller or as tall, more manly and so on. Is it a normal scenario or not?

    Cuz' all I keep seeing in porn that bottoms are girlier, smaller etc.

    You need to see more porn - there are definitely some masculine tall bottoms in porn. Some advice? No one I know has "tried out a gay relationship." Relationships take time to form. Did you mean say try out gay sex? (You sound like a virgin.) If you are so inclined, you should definitely try it. And in the process, you will discover what you like and don't like in the sex department.
  • kentstrongtom...

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    Apr 10, 2014 8:39 AM GMT
    Dude, what kind of gay porn do you watch?! How btm porn stars are girly? You need to stop watching weird amateur gay porn and start going for Colt, TitanMen, Falcon, Kristen Bjorn, Randy Blue, Alpha Males, etc. And yes, a muscular, tall bottom guy could be a treasure ;-).