"12 Gay Guys Who Need To Be Stopped"

  • Bunjamon

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    Mar 29, 2014 5:41 PM GMT
    Another RJer brought my attention to this article:

    12 Gay Guys Who Need To Be Stopped

    Some of the highlights that might resonate with RJ's forum users:

    2. The Gay Who Says “If I Wanted To Date A Girl I Would”

    3. The Gay Guy Who Doesn’t Know When He’s Being Racist

    8. Every. Single. Self-Described “Straight-Acting” Gay

    8. Every. Single. Self-Described “Straight-Acting” Gay


    What do you guys think of this list? Any kinds of guys you would add? I've proclaimed myself as a "gold-star gay" in the past, not really as a badge of honor but just a way to identify myself as a gay man who hasn't had sexual contact with a woman before. But this article is right, it doesn't really matter one way or another, so why bother?
  • creature

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    Mar 29, 2014 6:01 PM GMT
    Ouch. Tends to describe quite a few guys on here.
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    Mar 29, 2014 6:03 PM GMT
    I think it would be more honest to call the list
    "12 more reasons for gays to hate each other for no reason whatsoever."
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    Mar 29, 2014 6:06 PM GMT
    Bunjamon saidAnother RJer brought my attention to this article:

    12 Gay Guys Who Need To Be Stopped

    Some of the highlights that might resonate with RJ's forum users:

    2. The Gay Who Says “If I Wanted To Date A Girl I Would”

    3. The Gay Guy Who Doesn’t Know When He’s Being Racist

    8. Every. Single. Self-Described “Straight-Acting” Gay

    8. Every. Single. Self-Described “Straight-Acting” Gay


    What do you guys think of this list? Any kinds of guys you would add? I've proclaimed myself as a "gold-star gay" in the past, not really as a badge of honor but just a way to identify myself as a gay man who hasn't had sexual contact with a woman before. But this article is right, it doesn't really matter one way or another, so why bother?


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    Mar 29, 2014 6:44 PM GMT
    Sassy!
    Sharing a link about (NOT THE ONLY!) 12 types of guys you'll find on RJ here on RJ. icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 29, 2014 7:17 PM GMT
    Here's the whole list..

    12 Gay Guys Who Need To Be Stopped
    Mar. 23, 2014, By Shawn Binder & Madison Moore

    1. The Gay Homophobe (Yes, They’re Real)

    This is the guy who thinks it’s okay to casually call everyone they dislike a “faggot” or scoff when someone talks about wanting to try drag or wear makeup. This is the guy who secretly can’t stand the idea that they’re gay and insists on dragging every other gay man down around them into a pit of self-doubt and fear.

    2. The Gay Who Says “If I Wanted To Date A Girl I Would”

    This gay guy loves masculinity so much that he doesn’t want anything to do with gay guys who are even slightly effeminate. This means no drag queens, no sissies, just straight up BEEF. Why? Because if he wanted to date a girl he would, of course!

    3. The Gay Guy Who Doesn’t Know When He’s Being Racist

    Every single gay guy who has ever stated a racial preference, especially if that same gay dude loves Beyoncé and goes in for Rihanna but he will not date a black guy under any circumstances. What makes it worse though is when people are all, “Well I’m not attracted to women so if I’m not attracted to Asian guys it’s the same thing.” Actually though? No it isn’t. There’s nothing in biology that programs people to be attracted to one race over another. It’s all cultural.

    4. The “I Have A Sassy Black Woman Inside Of Me” Gay

    Oh for real?

    5. The Vapid Gay

    This gay uses Facebook groups like “Gorgeous, Gay, and 20-something” (which is real) to connect with other gays to feel less alone. Most of the men in these groups only do it to make their sexual exploits very public. They tote about not being sure whether to go to a bukkake or snuggle with their boyfriend. They take surveys as to who is a bottom and who is a top and take every possible chance they get to post shirtless pictures of themselves for reassurance that they’re still hot and “with it.”

    6. The Bottom-Shaming Gay

    The gay guys who bottom-shame all the bottoms. They are always all, “You’re such a bottom!” Yes, thank you. But what does that mean? Like bro, just because you’re a top with a nice cock and you like to put it inside of people, that doesn’t mean you’re more masculine or “the boy” or that a bottom can’t fuck you if he wants to.

    7. The Gay Who Can’t Decide Between Promiscuity Or A Boyfriend

    A gay who has an inability to decide between sexual freedom and long-term commitment. Do what you want with your own body and sexual life. However, if you’re looking for a long-term committed relationship, you may need to make peace with the fact that you’re unable to sustain a completely healthy relationship with someone while contemplating getting gang-banged, lol. I’ve literally seen someone ask a group of their friends whether they should opt for a boyfriend or just a ton of dicks.

    8. Every. Single. Self-Described “Straight-Acting” Gay

    If someone can actually give me an answer as to what “straight acting” means that isn’t wrapped up in societal norms of sexuality then you will win all the awards. Nothing pisses me off more than someone calling me “fem” or “masc” and then using it as a dismissal. I could chop wood for a living with the deepest voice and no sense of style and still go home and plow my boyfriend because I’m gay.

    9. The “Topless Tuesdays For Attention” Gay

    This is the guy who works out constantly and plans their week around Tuesday just so they can post a shirtless gym selfie. They wait by their computer for the affirming “likes” and comments that they’re “so ripped” and “buff” and “sexy,” because they’re truly insecure about their bodies. There is nothing wrong with being proud of the way you look, but these guys take it to the next level by toting their body around like it’s the only thing giving them worth.

    10. The Ones Who “Embellish” Their Dick Size

    Either they lie about their real size or they take a picture in such a way that it always looks big. Why do guys like this even bother? Do they think we’re unable to tell the difference between someone who is 6 inches and someone who is 8? These guys just end up looking like liars who equate penis size with dateability. When looking for love we should be looking for someone to eat cookies and binge watch The Face in bed with us, not a giant cock.

    11. Gay Men Who Have A Superiority Complex

    Believe it or not there are a lot of gay guys out there who think that just because they’re educated, rich or attractive that that automatically makes them better than all other gay men. Like, are gay guys automatically primed to hate one another right on the spot? A bitchy gay guy is the one who waits by the bathroom at a gay club to tell their fellow clubbers things like, “Honey, you’re beautiful but never wear another tank top.” They look for things to pick apart other gay men.

    12. The “Gold Star” Gay

    The men who think they deserve a special prize for never having touched a vagina need to get it together. Especially the ones who think they’re extra special for having being delivered via C-section and therefore have literally never been in contact with a woman’s lady parts, wow.
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    Mar 29, 2014 7:27 PM GMT
    "This is the guy who thinks it’s okay to casually call everyone they dislike a 'faggot' or scoff when someone talks about wanting to try drag or wear makeup. This is the guy who secretly can’t stand the idea that they’re gay and insists on dragging every other gay man down around them into a pit of self-doubt and fear."

    This article is such boloney. How are you guys falling for it? Its only aim is to make gay people hate other gay people even more. Everybody's got their quirks. Accept them. It's no big deal and much easier to do than trying to STOP THEM like they're criminals.
    The only gay people who HAVE TO BE STOPPED are those who write articles like these that are so judgemental.
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    Mar 29, 2014 7:32 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter said"This is the guy who thinks it’s okay to casually call everyone they dislike a “faggot” or scoff when someone talks about wanting to try drag or wear makeup. This is the guy who secretly can’t stand the idea that they’re gay and insists on dragging every other gay man down around them into a pit of self-doubt and fear."

    This article is such boloney. How are you guys falling for it? Its only aim is to make gay people hate other gay people even more. Everybody's got their quirks. Accept them. It's no big deal and much easier to do than trying to STOP THEM like they're criminals.


    I agree +1000.
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    Just judge each individual, and if a gay guy is proud he got pussy, who cares? Bottom shaming gay for example has nothing to do with bottom shaming, but as a person, you shouldn't say things to hurt or offend someone else. Plain and simple.
    Also, he shouldn't make unproven scientific statements (about racial attraction).
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    Mar 29, 2014 8:11 PM GMT
    Ironically, this article makes gays hate other gays even more. Dudes that are too sensitive always look for the dumbest little reasons to be offended. Also, the last one is very stupid. For whatever weird reason, non-Gold Star gays are the ones that are always bragging. Apparently, putting your penis in a vagina makes you super duper manly. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 29, 2014 8:26 PM GMT
    bonapart01 said
    JohnSpotter said"This is the guy who thinks it’s okay to casually call everyone they dislike a 'faggot' or scoff when someone talks about wanting to try drag or wear makeup. This is the guy who secretly can’t stand the idea that they’re gay and insists on dragging every other gay man down around them into a pit of self-doubt and fear."

    This article is such boloney. How are you guys falling for it? Its only aim is to make gay people hate other gay people even more. Everybody's got their quirks. Accept them. It's no big deal and much easier to do than trying to STOP THEM like they're criminals.
    The only gay people who HAVE TO BE STOPPED are those who write articles like these that are so judgemental.


    there is nothing wrong of shaming those kind of people
    These articles are useful


    You should read 11.
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    Mar 29, 2014 8:58 PM GMT
    A stupid, short-sighted, politically-correct article that's meant to be more divisive than actually helpful.

    Not all gays are created equal. Not all gays are attracted to other gays; Ethnic and racial backgrounds are a matter of preference. (There's a difference between preference and racism and anyone who tells you otherwise doesn't know what they're talking about). Not all gays have the same developing sexual experiences (who cares if you're 'gold star' or if you started straight then turned gay? makes no difference. gay is gay). Not all gays act effeminate, many act straight, some don't; they're all gay regardless.

    There's no one standard of 'gay' and both sides of the fence in these arguments need to drop the bullshit. The effeminate circuit boy partying with drag queens at the gay club is just as gay as the closeted married man fucking another closeted man in some hotel room.
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    PR_GMR saidA stupid, short-sighted, politically-correct article that's meant to be more divisive than actually helpful.

    Not all gays are created equal. Not all gays are attracted to other gays; Ethnic and racial backgrounds are a matter of preference. (There's a difference between preference and racism and anyone who tells you otherwise doesn't know what they're talking about). Not all gays have the same developing sexual experiences (who cares if you're 'gold star' or if you started straight then turned gay? makes no difference. gay is gay). Not all gays act effeminate, many act straight, some don't; they're all gay regardless.

    There's no one standard of 'gay' and both sides of the fence in these arguments need to drop the bullshit. The effeminate circuit boy partying with drag queens at the gay club is just as gay as the closeted married man fucking another closeted man in some hotel room.


    Replace gays with 'humans' and it applies just as well. +1
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    Mar 29, 2014 9:30 PM GMT
    That article is already working its evil spell on us.
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    Mar 29, 2014 9:36 PM GMT
    Lol Johnspotter, Sweettooth, and PR-GMR are trying to defend the stupidity, idiocy and ignorance of mannnny gay men, i guess this articale is right ! ( some people cant take being called out ). There is so much truth in this article its not even funny.
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    Mar 29, 2014 9:43 PM GMT
    bonapart01 said
    JohnSpotter said"This is the guy who thinks it’s okay to casually call everyone they dislike a 'faggot' or scoff when someone talks about wanting to try drag or wear makeup. This is the guy who secretly can’t stand the idea that they’re gay and insists on dragging every other gay man down around them into a pit of self-doubt and fear."

    This article is such boloney. How are you guys falling for it? Its only aim is to make gay people hate other gay people even more. Everybody's got their quirks. Accept them. It's no big deal and much easier to do than trying to STOP THEM like they're criminals.
    The only gay people who HAVE TO BE STOPPED are those who write articles like these that are so judgemental.


    there is nothing wrong of shaming those kind of people
    These articles are useful


    Dont bother conversing with someone who'd rather pretend to not understand the big picture, they would prefer to keep themselves in the dark for the sake of spite and feeling "secure"
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    Mar 29, 2014 9:50 PM GMT
    Kataka saidLol Johnspotter, Sweettooth, and PR-GMR are trying to defend the stupidity, idiocy and ignorance of mannnny gay men, i guess this articale is right ! ( some people cant take being called out ). There is so much truth in this article its not even funny.


    You're an idiot if that is the only thing you absorbed from what I said.
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    Mar 29, 2014 9:52 PM GMT
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    Kataka saidLol Johnspotter, Sweettooth, and PR-GMR are trying to defend the stupidity, idiocy and ignorance of mannnny gay men, i guess this articale is right ! ( some people cant take being called out ). There is so much truth in this article its not even funny.


    You're an idiot if that is the only thing you absorbed from what I said.


    bllllaaaaaaaaaaahhhh blaaaahhhhhh blaaahhhhhhh I JUST called you and idiot so you'll have to think of a new insult. Obviously thats not the ONLY thing i saw that you said, however you are notorious for defending racism and prejudice against ethni gays INCLUDING your own race smh. Be ashamed
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    Mar 29, 2014 9:56 PM GMT
    Kataka saidLol Johnspotter, Sweettooth, and PR-GMR are trying to defend the stupidity, idiocy and ignorance of mannnny gay men, i guess this articale is right ! ( some people cant take being called out ). There is so much truth in this article its not even funny.


    Inferiority Complex?
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    Mar 29, 2014 9:56 PM GMT
    The article is no good. Not because it's inaccurate( i actually believe it applies to many people) but I think that this will mainly put people on the defensive lol.
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    Mar 29, 2014 9:58 PM GMT
    tmac saidThe article is no good. Not because it's inaccurate( i actually believe it applies to many people) but I think that this will mainly put people on the defensive lol.


    EXACTLY MY POINT !!!! they would rather stay in the dark ! its amazing to see how hard people will defend a problem simply to spite the fact that they are full of shit and dont want to change
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    Mar 29, 2014 9:59 PM GMT
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    Kataka saidLol Johnspotter, Sweettooth, and PR-GMR are trying to defend the stupidity, idiocy and ignorance of mannnny gay men, i guess this articale is right ! ( some people cant take being called out ). There is so much truth in this article its not even funny.


    Inferiority Complex?


    nope i'm not mexican...
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    Mar 29, 2014 9:59 PM GMT
    Kataka said
    Xavier92 said
    Kataka saidLol Johnspotter, Sweettooth, and PR-GMR are trying to defend the stupidity, idiocy and ignorance of mannnny gay men, i guess this articale is right ! ( some people cant take being called out ). There is so much truth in this article its not even funny.


    Inferiority Complex?


    nope i'm not mexican...


    What did you say about me and racism, fuckface?
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    Mar 29, 2014 10:01 PM GMT
    Sweetooth said
    Kataka said
    Xavier92 said
    Kataka saidLol Johnspotter, Sweettooth, and PR-GMR are trying to defend the stupidity, idiocy and ignorance of mannnny gay men, i guess this articale is right ! ( some people cant take being called out ). There is so much truth in this article its not even funny.


    Inferiority Complex?


    nope i'm not mexican...


    What did you say about me and racism, fuckface?


    Thats wasent rayciss, mexican is not a race icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 29, 2014 10:02 PM GMT
    Kataka said
    Sweetooth said
    Kataka said
    Xavier92 said
    Kataka saidLol Johnspotter, Sweettooth, and PR-GMR are trying to defend the stupidity, idiocy and ignorance of mannnny gay men, i guess this articale is right ! ( some people cant take being called out ). There is so much truth in this article its not even funny.


    Inferiority Complex?


    nope i'm not mexican...


    What did you say about me and racism, fuckface?


    Thats wasent rayciss, mexican is not a race icon_biggrin.gif


    Congratulations, number 3 applies to you now.
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    Mar 29, 2014 10:03 PM GMT
    Xavier92 said
    Kataka said
    Sweetooth said
    Kataka said
    Xavier92 said
    Kataka saidLol Johnspotter, Sweettooth, and PR-GMR are trying to defend the stupidity, idiocy and ignorance of mannnny gay men, i guess this articale is right ! ( some people cant take being called out ). There is so much truth in this article its not even funny.


    Inferiority Complex?


    nope i'm not mexican...


    What did you say about me and racism, fuckface?


    Thats wasent rayciss, mexican is not a race icon_biggrin.gif


    Congratulations, number 3 applies to you now.


    LOLOLOLOL Mexican is not a RACE !!!!! And i have no problem dating one. But thats not what this is about.