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    Mar 29, 2014 9:52 PM GMT
    Is it just me or are there ways and means on this site that when you comment on someones pictures they fail to give a thanks yet they still accept and approve the comment ?

    I remove my comments if i haven't had a reply but they have accepted !
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    Mar 29, 2014 9:58 PM GMT
    I don't really care if a guy thanks me for leaving a photo comment. If he does, then that increases his hotness level a notch. icon_cool.gif
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    Mar 29, 2014 10:12 PM GMT
    I think some guys don't say a thanks, because based on experience, a thanks could turn into a conversation via e-mail (which they may not have time for, especially if they're popular), and the conversation, while starting innocently enough, could become sexually charged, which they may not want.

    I'm not suggesting it is the explanation for all cases, but may apply to some.
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    Mar 29, 2014 10:14 PM GMT
    Dennis1989 saidIs it just me or are there ways and means on this site that when you comment on someones pictures they fail to give a thanks yet they still accept and approve the comment ?

    I remove my comments if i haven't had a reply but they have accepted !
    I do the same thing.. don't get me started on hot listing
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    Mar 29, 2014 10:23 PM GMT
    yeah its rude, I always thank them for the comment.
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    Mar 29, 2014 10:25 PM GMT
    Even if you do not think they are attractive, it's basic manners, so yes, always thank a person.
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    Mar 29, 2014 10:37 PM GMT
    well i'm finding a lot of people think the same way as me then, it mainly just bugs me that its as though they think they earned that comment and don't see a need to reply and if they had the time to read and open the message and accept it then a reply is no time at all. When i comment i mean the comment i am giving and i am selective of ho i give them to lol i mean thats not to say i am above people and they should be honored by my comment.
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    Mar 29, 2014 10:45 PM GMT
    Dennis1989 saidwell i'm finding a lot of people think the same way as me then, it mainly just bugs me that its as though they think they earned that comment and don't see a need to reply and if they had the time to read and open the message and accept it then a reply is no time at all. When i comment i mean the comment i am giving and i am selective of ho i give them to lol i mean thats not to say i am above people and they should be honored by my comment.


    I agree. When you accept a comment it doesn't even take 5 seconds to send a thank you. Some guys have such good manners they send a thank you for the MOTD vote.
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    Mar 29, 2014 10:47 PM GMT
    I just leave a comment, but don't expect a thanks in return. I'm actually surprised most of the time if they do say thank you
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    Mar 29, 2014 10:48 PM GMT
    Dennis1989 you left a comment to me and I didn't say thanks because I don't know how to reply on photo comments. Sorry icon_sad.gif
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    Mar 29, 2014 10:50 PM GMT
    If someone takes the time to comment than I can take a moment and acknowledge the effort...it's just common courtesy.

    Now, if someone arbitrarily unlocks their pics for me without initiating any conversation,..I may not respond to that.
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    Mar 29, 2014 10:50 PM GMT
    Xavier92 saidDennis1989 you left a comment to me and I didn't say thanks because I don't know how to reply on photo comments. Sorry icon_sad.gif
    Haha well thats fine icon_smile.gif all you have to do is reply to the message that is automatically sent to you :p
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    Mar 29, 2014 11:09 PM GMT
    It depends on the situation, the person and what they said.

    I get a few comments I won't approve I decline and move on. Those I have approved some I've thanked others I haven't.

    At the end of the day though it wasn't something I've requested or expected so if I thank someone for a comment it's usually because I've seen them posting in the forum and I like what they have to say so a comment on my photo or a hot listing or what ever so it actually feels a bit more like a compliment.

    otherwise if they aren't offensive and don't make me feel like I'm being stalked and I don't know them I just accept the comment and usually leave it at that.
  • Webster666

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    Mar 29, 2014 11:31 PM GMT
    No one is under any obligation to respond to unsolicited messages of any kind.

    If you want to send a message to someone, just send it, then forget about it.
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    Mar 29, 2014 11:38 PM GMT
    Webster666 saidNo one is under any obligation to respond to unsolicited messages of any kind.

    If you want to send a message to someone, just send it, then forget about it.

    No one in forced to write back indeed, we're just saying it's not nice to ignore a comment when the other person took the time to do it. It's just a nice thing to do that is all.
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    Mar 29, 2014 11:49 PM GMT
    I don't expect anything in return, though I do like when they acknowledge my compliment and say thanks. I wouldn't delete my comment though, I feel like that's kind of like saying "I'm going to stop following him on instagram because he never followed me back".

    In real life it would definitely be rude if they didn't say thanks.
  • MikeW

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    Mar 29, 2014 11:53 PM GMT
    Sorry Dennis! icon_sad.gif
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    Mar 30, 2014 10:08 AM GMT
    I rarely make picture comments or similar things, but whether I get a response or not doesn't really bother me at all.
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    Mar 30, 2014 1:57 PM GMT
    The way some guys over think things is adorable, bordering on insecurity; adorable none the less.
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    Mar 30, 2014 1:59 PM GMT
    To me its more that my compliment has been ignored than the comment in its self as like in real life if you said to someone oh your looking nice today and they turned away its kind of like that to me. As the case is most comments are about how good a person as worked out to get the body/shape so most in sense are about looks so if someone said oh your good looking etc id say thanks.
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    Mar 30, 2014 2:02 PM GMT
    Ohno saidI rarely make picture comments or similar things, but whether I get a response or not doesn't really bother me at all.


    do you thank guys who compliment you?
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    Mar 30, 2014 4:28 PM GMT
    AlmondJoy said
    Ohno saidI rarely make picture comments or similar things, but whether I get a response or not doesn't really bother me at all.


    do you thank guys who compliment you?


    Usually, but sometimes I have forgotten, mainly because I was interrupted while checking mail on my phone and then I forgot I hadn't replied already. Never because I thought I was 'too good' for the person or anything like that.
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    Mar 30, 2014 4:31 PM GMT
    I always say thank you when someone comments my photos. Usually I return the favor as well, that's just me though. I don't delete the comments I give if they don't reply. I just assume they're not into talking with me which is fine, so I don't comment again.



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    Apr 02, 2014 12:50 PM GMT
    It's common courtesy. Also on the rare occasion someone hot list's me I'll thank them icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 02, 2014 4:32 PM GMT
    Richenstein saidI don't expect anything in return, though I do like when they acknowledge my compliment and say thanks. I wouldn't delete my comment though, I feel like that's kind of like saying "I'm going to stop following him on instagram because he never followed me back".

    In real life it would definitely be rude if they didn't say thanks.


    I hot listed you and you didn't say thanksicon_rolleyes.gif.