Gay-on-gay bullying

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    Mar 30, 2014 8:19 PM GMT
    What's the point of gays bullying other gays? I had some random guy sending demeaning messages on the Grindr app. Every time I go to the gym he seems to be there and will tell me how fat I am and need to stay in the gym all night if I ever want a boyfriend.

    Guess I don't understand the point.
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:25 PM GMT
    bigDrunner saidWhat's the point of gays bullying other gays? I had some random guy sending demeaning messages on the Grindr app. Every time I go to the gym he seems to be there and will tell me how fat I am and need to stay in the gym all night if I ever want a boyfriend.

    Guess I don't understand the point.


    why do u even conversate with this person? icon_confused.gif
    block him on grindr and dont talk to him at the gym.
    that's such a strange thing to say to someone, espeically unprovoked. He sounds like a real shit-head. Cut him out of ur life.
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:25 PM GMT
    I don't know if it's really bullying. I think that guy just has mental problems.

    Next time he talks shit to you. Tell him to take his meds.
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:31 PM GMT
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    bigDrunner saidWhat's the point of gays bullying other gays? I had some random guy sending demeaning messages on the Grindr app. Every time I go to the gym he seems to be there and will tell me how fat I am and need to stay in the gym all night if I ever want a boyfriend.

    Guess I don't understand the point.


    why do u even conversate with this person? icon_confused.gif
    block him on grindr and dont talk to him at the gym.
    that's such a strange thing to say to someone, espeically unprovoked. He sounds like a real shit-head. Cut him out of ur life.


    lol You bullied me on another thread for no reason and you are here to give your words of wisdom? What a dick. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:32 PM GMT
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    bigDrunner saidWhat's the point of gays bullying other gays? I had some random guy sending demeaning messages on the Grindr app. Every time I go to the gym he seems to be there and will tell me how fat I am and need to stay in the gym all night if I ever want a boyfriend.

    Guess I don't understand the point.


    why do u even conversate with this person? icon_confused.gif
    block him on grindr and dont talk to him at the gym.
    that's such a strange thing to say to someone, espeically unprovoked. He sounds like a real shit-head. Cut him out of ur life.


    lol You bullied me on another thread for no reason and you here to give your words of wisdom? What a dick. icon_rolleyes.gif


    oh boo hoo, cry me a fuckin river. icon_rolleyes.gif
    theres a difference. You're a whiner and I called u out for it. Dont like it? Block me.
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:33 PM GMT
    There are a few different reasons - some relationships are based on this dynamic (very messed up ones)!
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:34 PM GMT
    bigDrunner saidWhat's the point of gays bullying other gays? I had some random guy sending demeaning messages on the Grindr app. Every time I go to the gym he seems to be there and will tell me how fat I am and need to stay in the gym all night if I ever want a boyfriend.
    Guess I don't understand the point.

    Bullies are on the rise. There's no understanding mean people. They're just mean.
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:34 PM GMT
    Online bullying cant be considered real bulling, you just unplug the laptop and that's it.
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:37 PM GMT
    David3000 saidOnline bullying cant be considered real bulling, you just unplug the laptop and that's it.


    I kind of agree with you to a certain degree.
    All one needs to do is log off, however some ppl's entire social lives happen online so when bullying does occur it might as well be real bullying to them.

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    Mar 30, 2014 8:38 PM GMT
    David3000 saidOnline bullying cant be considered real bulling, you just unplug the laptop and that's it.


    Or just use the block and ignore options. Although some bullies are so pathetic that they actually become entertaining.
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:39 PM GMT
    David3000 saidOnline bullying cant be considered real bulling, you just unplug the laptop and that's it.


    I don't really understand why the op would not just block the gym guy. Also, take some hair removal cream with you and put it in his shampoo while his back is turned icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:39 PM GMT
    If the guy won't take his meds and he continues to talk trash, then swing a curl bar over his head. He won't bother you again after that. Some people have to learn the hard way.
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:41 PM GMT
    I actually never engaged in a conversation with him. I don't even know what he looks like. I guess curiosity set in and I am wondering what he will say next time. Plus I am trying to narrow down the person just so I know who I need to avoid.
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:42 PM GMT
    bigDrunner saidI actually never engaged in a conversation with him. I don't even know what he looks like. I guess curiosity set in and I am wondering what he will say next time. Plus I am trying to narrow down the person just so I know who I need to avoid.

    um ok. icon_neutral.gif
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:44 PM GMT
    David3000 saidOnline bullying cant be considered real bulling, you just unplug the laptop and that's it.

    That's it for sure.
    Good bye Realjock.
    Good bye Facebook.
    Good bye all online social circles.
    The bully has won.
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:45 PM GMT
    bigDrunner saidI actually never engaged in a conversation with him. I don't even know what he looks like. I guess curiosity set in and I am wondering what he will say next time. Plus I am trying to narrow down the person just so I know who I need to avoid.

    LOLWUT? So.. some blank profile on Grindr is sending you bitchy messages? Just block him. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:48 PM GMT
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    bigDrunner saidI actually never engaged in a conversation with him. I don't even know what he looks like. I guess curiosity set in and I am wondering what he will say next time. Plus I am trying to narrow down the person just so I know who I need to avoid.

    LOLWUT? So.. some blank profile on Grindr is sending you bitchy messages? Just block him. icon_rolleyes.gif


    I would just say "Dad I know that's you, now please delete your profile or I'm going to tell Mum".
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:52 PM GMT
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    bigDrunner saidI actually never engaged in a conversation with him. I don't even know what he looks like. I guess curiosity set in and I am wondering what he will say next time. Plus I am trying to narrow down the person just so I know who I need to avoid.

    LOLWUT? So.. some blank profile on Grindr is sending you bitchy messages? Just block him. icon_rolleyes.gif

    And why would you avoid him? He's obviously a coward, if he can only hurl insults anonymously. Also, it's likely that he's really out of shape and fuggo. So he's gotta insult others to make himself feel better.
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:59 PM GMT
    It's not just gay people it's the whole of humanity
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    Mar 30, 2014 9:03 PM GMT
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    David3000 saidOnline bullying cant be considered real bulling, you just unplug the laptop and that's it.

    That's it for sure.
    Good bye Realjock.
    Good bye Facebook.
    Good bye all online social circles.
    The bully has won.

    You can block people on RJ, FB and basically any other community so what are you talking about? If you think youre being "online bullied" is because you let them.
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    Mar 30, 2014 9:11 PM GMT
    I know I can block people, but I am wondering if that is the best course of action. I mean, is it better to block him, which he would know because he would not see my profile when I am at the gym, or is it better to keep ignoring his messages.
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    Mar 30, 2014 9:15 PM GMT
    HamsterCheeks saidIt's not just gay people it's the whole of humanity

    You have a point. Some people have too much time on their hands. OP's mystery guy is probably not even gay. Most likely some high school kid looking for easy laughs.
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    Mar 30, 2014 9:16 PM GMT
    bigDrunner saidI know I can block people, but I am wondering if that is the best course of action. I mean, is it better to block him, which he would know because he would not see my profile when I am at the gym, or is it better to keep ignoring his messages.

    Report him for harassment. Then block him. Why do you care what he has to say? Why do you care if knows you blocked him. Like I said, he's a coward.
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    Mar 30, 2014 9:18 PM GMT
    bonapart01 saidBullying is bad
    although there are many types of bullying worse are the ones you are not even conscious about

    What about the kind of bulling where you wish a horrible death to others, is that conscious or unconscious?
    PS: Just kidding, you couldn't bully anyone even if you tried icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 30, 2014 9:23 PM GMT
    he wants you to stay in the gym