What personality traits do you find very attractive?

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    Mar 30, 2014 8:24 PM GMT
    icon_lol.gif yep, another positivity thread. Let's start.
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:34 PM GMT
    Desperation? icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 30, 2014 8:35 PM GMT
    Ohno saidDesperation? icon_twisted.gif


    lol well, you'll get along just fine with a lot of RJers.
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    Mar 30, 2014 9:02 PM GMT
    Patient, respectful of other people's boundaries and a good heart
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    Mar 30, 2014 9:11 PM GMT
    Confidence

    Modesty (sometimes)

    Kindness

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    Mar 30, 2014 10:27 PM GMT
    I like a guy who is a bit reserved, very wise and understanding. I guess I imagine a sage-like guy, who will listen to you prattle on about your problems, and then says something really profound that kind of floors you.

    Sensitivity is very ideal for me, as well. Not sensitive in a way that makes them very overemotional, but sensitive enough to understand their feelings and especially the feelings of others. In my mind, it is the kind of sensitivity that makes guys become very reserved in their manner of being, because they know all too well how viciously people hurt each other.
  • Webster666

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    Mar 30, 2014 10:33 PM GMT
    1) Be considerate of me, and others
    2) Laugh easily, but not at the expense of others' feelings
    3) Be honest
    4) Be independent
    5) Let me be me
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    Mar 31, 2014 12:33 AM GMT
    Well, let me resurrect this topic to see what happens.
  • Abe13

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    Apr 01, 2014 3:56 AM GMT
    Loyalty, Honesty, and kindness.
  • rdberg1957

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    Apr 01, 2014 4:06 AM GMT
    I know a man who is following his heart. That is very attractive.
  • stratavos

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    Apr 01, 2014 4:08 AM GMT
    confidence, passion, and self deprecating humor.
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    Apr 01, 2014 4:09 AM GMT
    I like an outgoing, strong-minded guy whose not afraid to take the lead or make decisions. Easy-going but has something to share. I hate deadweights that never talk, or it feels like work to get them to say anything at all. I also like a guy who's not afraid to touch people.
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    Apr 01, 2014 4:35 AM GMT
    Kind. Some people think they're being kind when they're brutally honest, point out your flaws, and tell you all the things you are doing wrong with your life. That's not the sort of kindness I admire. Honesty never has to be brutal, and, as Miss Manners wrote, "Helping someone into distress does not count as a good deed." Kindness that's attractive involves genuinely caring about other people and wanting to see them happy.

    Smart. People who know all the rules of grammar aren't necessarily smart. People who have read a lot of books aren't necessarily smart. People who can memorize formulas aren't necessarily smart. People with expensive educations aren't necessarily smart. Some intelligent people use their knowledge to belittle others. A man who is sexy smart sees the world in an interesting way and uses his insight to help others.

    Kind comes first, because without it, smart don't mean shit. I like to remember this saying: Nobody cares how much you know until they know how much you care.
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    Apr 01, 2014 5:03 AM GMT
    Honesty...
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    Apr 01, 2014 5:15 AM GMT
    I guy who is easy- going and easy to talk to, so we can talk about anything without feeling dumb or forced.
    It seems that trait I find in a lot of straight guys, which probably explains why I have a lot of straight guy friends.
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    Apr 01, 2014 5:21 AM GMT
    respectful, easy going guy, sarcastic, loyal, genuine, manly
  • toastvenom

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    Apr 01, 2014 5:32 AM GMT
    courtesy
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    May 03, 2014 3:41 AM GMT
    Quietness and a soft assertiveness. I finf soft, but deep voices, with that hint of a smile in the way they talk, is highly attractive. Sincere sensitivity and conscientiousness win my heart. Pull me in a snag a kiss, i may not leave. Organization is cool, but would prefer someone who is passionate.
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    May 03, 2014 3:45 AM GMT
    goal oriented.

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    May 03, 2014 4:14 AM GMT
    Bent perspective on life. Someone who ain't from around here. And by "here," I mean "planet Earth."
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    May 03, 2014 6:04 AM GMT
    Is swallowing a personality trait?
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    May 03, 2014 6:57 AM GMT
    Perfect traits = Goal-orientated and driven, assertive but willing to compromise once in a while, confident in who he is, adventurous, open, passionate, spontaneous, artistic, intelligent, humorous, humble and last but not least, random/slightly weird....
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    May 03, 2014 7:39 AM GMT
    Confidence
    Assertiveness
    A little bit of arrogance/cockiness
    Caring
    Passionate
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    May 03, 2014 7:52 AM GMT
    Sense of humor. Emotionally strong willing to put up with me. Goal oriented hard working, thoughtful likes woking out, easy going, but still assertive. But really putting up with me is a major one haha.
  • Anther

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    May 03, 2014 8:33 AM GMT
    Rich and Dependable.