Downlow

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    Mar 31, 2014 5:20 AM GMT
    Is this as common as I'm seeing or am I going crazy -

    Opinions please - I find it extremely confusing and try to avoid it - seems duplicitous.
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    Mar 31, 2014 5:54 AM GMT
    I see that a lot in those smartphone apps. Usually it's the headless profiles that are "discreet". I'm sure they have their reasons. Might be job related. Or maybe they're just not ready to be totally out yet. Or maybe they're married to a woman and fucking guys on the weekends.

    If it gives you the wrong vibes, then just leave them be. Or ask questions first, then judge them later if applicable. icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 31, 2014 6:04 AM GMT
    Lolololol yeaaaa

    Thanks :-)
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    Mar 31, 2014 6:08 AM GMT
    I think it might be common in your area. South OC is pretty conservative. Oddly enough, I've also heard rumors that South OC has a very large population of swingers. icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 31, 2014 6:19 AM GMT
    What are you talking about? Low sex drive?
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    Mar 31, 2014 6:24 AM GMT
    Xavier92 saidWhat are you talking about? Low sex drive?

    http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=down+low
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    Mar 31, 2014 6:41 AM GMT
    It seems to be pretty popular around these parts too. I think hear they fuck around all week then take the wife and kids to Sunday worship. In their mind it is not cheating if it is another guy.
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    Mar 31, 2014 3:33 PM GMT
    Just another big giant red flag is you are interested in healthy people. You have to be desperate to meet up with a DL or BI - because all the red flags those sorts of closet crazies seem proud of. Run, do not walk.
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    Mar 31, 2014 3:35 PM GMT
    even if the guy has a two wives and eleven children both of you use a condom.

    Instead date another gay man will know exactly what to do for you w/o a lot of static
  • Amira

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    Mar 31, 2014 3:38 PM GMT
    Xavier92 saidWhat are you talking about? Low sex drive?


    lol Xavier icon_lol.gif
  • tj85016

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    Mar 31, 2014 6:10 PM GMT
    Xavier92 saidWhat are you talking about? Low sex drive?


    lol, you really are a straight woman
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    Apr 01, 2014 6:48 AM GMT
    Well i'm writing as more a global statement I've been on the road for about six months and downlow guys are all over the place... I'm writing from a place of shocked disbelief and many occassions revulsion... many are very very aggressive which confuses me given my understanding of downlow - it seems almost normal :O
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    Apr 01, 2014 7:17 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidJust another big giant red flag is you are interested in healthy people. You have to be desperate to meet up with a DL or BI - because all the red flags those sorts of closet crazies seem proud of. Run, do not walk.


    I tend to agree with this after thinking of it more.
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    Apr 01, 2014 7:24 PM GMT
    Snaz saidWell i'm writing as more a global statement I've been on the road for about six months and downlow guys are all over the place... I'm writing from a place of shocked disbelief and many occassions revulsion... many are very very aggressive which confuses me given my understanding of downlow - it seems almost normal :O


    It's because a lot of them are quite self loathing icon_neutral.gif
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    Apr 02, 2014 6:11 PM GMT
    ^^

    Yeaaaaaaaaaaa lol :'(