Has anyone one here ever giving someone else a "pity fuck"? If so, why?

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    Mar 31, 2014 7:44 PM GMT
    icon_lol.gif Let's read the stories.
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    Mar 31, 2014 8:44 PM GMT
    nope .. never ... that's like giving a stray cat a bowl of milk
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    Mar 31, 2014 8:56 PM GMT
    Why not ask whether anyone's had "pity sex" instead? icon_rolleyes.gif
    Either way - who hasn't?

    As for stories, once it took me about ten months to live down giving "pity sex." The pitied one took my agreeing to sleep with him to mean we were close and inseparable. Getting rid of him for good did take that long.

    There have been a few occasions when guys were reluctant to let me blow them (thinking they could "hold out for 'something better'.") But when their little head did the thinking for them and I got to do the honors, they were glad. icon_biggrin.gif In these cases it's not so clear in terms of whether "pity" was involved. Being turned down for superficial reasons wasn't going to ruin my day. Nor, for the other man, was running the risk of having to take matters into his own hand going to ruin hisday.

    A friend of mine referred to pity sex as "charity work," LOL...and there's nothing wrong with some charity now and then.
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    Mar 31, 2014 8:59 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidnope .. never ... that's like giving a stray cat a bowl of milk


    Except that would be a genuine kindness which any decent person ought to do. Helping an animal in need of basic nourishment doesn't fall into the same category as bedding someone who's horny but who you wouldn't have gone after.
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    Mar 31, 2014 9:37 PM GMT
    No more pity fuck stories? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 01, 2014 7:55 AM GMT
    Lol not really, well there was this one guy. He was cute and great on papers. But in the bedroom, let's just say he doesn't get me hard and up Lol. It was late, I decided to stay over for the night and he kinda just jerked me off a bit. Nothing major or hardcore. After that incident, I realize that sexual chemistry/attraction is important as hell.
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    Apr 03, 2014 7:32 AM GMT
    I've done it twice…
    one time i was so horny and kinda went out of my way to hookup with this not-so-attractive guy…i kinda camped down during making out.. but felt too bad for him so just kept going.

    second time was with a guy that just did not stop talking to me at a club.not really sure if this is exactly pity, but i gave him head and let him lick my body just so that he could go away…gave me his number but didn't really text him back