WHERE/HOW DO U MEET A POTENTIAL BF IF...

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    Apr 02, 2014 4:15 AM GMT
    A) You're not into the gay scene

    B) You're not fully out of the closet

    C) You're pretty masculine (people can't tell you're gay)
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    Apr 02, 2014 4:16 AM GMT
    Online, obviously icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 02, 2014 4:16 AM GMT
    Any Republican party meeting
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    Apr 02, 2014 4:18 AM GMT
    Uh. Lowes. Home Depot.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Apr 02, 2014 4:20 AM GMT
    Real Jock icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 02, 2014 4:26 AM GMT
    Go to a local place or activity you like to do. I went to a local concert and met my ex
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    Apr 02, 2014 4:27 AM GMT
    meetup.com
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    Apr 02, 2014 4:32 AM GMT
    If you are not out I would consider not meeting anyone until you are. The problem with meeting guys when you are not out is you often meet away from public places and if the guy is a stranger then that is dangerous. They could be a serial killer or anything.
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    Apr 02, 2014 5:21 AM GMT
    Go online or come out of the closet. .
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    Apr 02, 2014 5:24 AM GMT
    HamsterCheeks saidIf you are not out I would consider not meeting anyone until you are. The problem with meeting guys when you are not out is you often meet away from public places and if the guy is a stranger then that is dangerous. They could be a serial killer or anything.


    Good advice HamsterCheeks. It's also a pain to date a guy that's not out to his family -- I refuse to do it.
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    Apr 02, 2014 6:18 AM GMT
    Might I suggest dating women you might have an easier time.
  • Suetonius

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    Apr 02, 2014 7:08 AM GMT
    In Greece? None of us non-greeks would know - except on the beach in Mykonos.
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    Apr 04, 2014 2:39 PM GMT
    hellass saidA) You're not into the gay scene

    B) You're not fully out of the closet

    C) You're pretty masculine (people can't tell you're gay)


    I could relate to them a, b and c as well i was recently on a course and the other day i was texting and told someone who i have stayed in contact with about me and she said no one had a clue and thought there was something going on between me and a girl who i have become friends with so C is a struggle for me, B is ok as i am out, A is one that is a total struggle as well im not into the scene for many reasons as all i know of the scene is the gay villages near me e.g. Liverpool and Manchester are basically just full of night clubs and pubs and the sense i get from it is very tacky so i wouldn't want to enter that scene.

    You could consider where you may have met lads previously as even when you look around everyone else seems to be in a relationship and or find them so easily when they break up.

    The gym is a popular answer but lol i don't get that as nothing as come my way in the gym,

    Going out to the pub is the same,

    Online is for me abit weird really mainly due to the reason that everyone seems to be just time wasters or idiots.

    Let me know if you manage anything that i could take as advise lol
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    Apr 04, 2014 6:05 PM GMT
    A) Don't be so afraid of the "gay scene". You say it like it's a cult but really, what you're really referring to is essentially just males/females that have chosen to embrace themselves as opposed to repressing themselves.

    B) Work on coming out of the closet or find someone who doesn't mind dating someone who is in the closet. The chances of you just stumbling upon someone to date while in the closet are slim; to meet the gays, you have to be out with them. Or try the nearest rest stop icon_lol.gif .

    C) I'm "pretty masculine" and undetectable and I have no problem meeting guys, pretty much because of my responses to A and B; I'm out of the closet and comfortable enough with myself to approach other dudes, nor am I afraid to find them.

    Express yourself, don't repress yourself: bscap070jk4.jpg
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    Apr 05, 2014 12:12 AM GMT
    Since you live in Greece head to Mykonos.