Are there any guys out there who like muscular fem guys.

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    Apr 04, 2014 12:16 AM GMT
    Are guys who like feminine guys turned off by muscularity? Are there any guys out there who like guys who are muscular but obliviously fem.
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Apr 04, 2014 12:16 AM GMT
    Search the forums as this has probably been asked many times before.
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    Apr 04, 2014 12:30 AM GMT
    ThatSwimmerGuy saidSearch the forums as this has probably been asked many times before.


    I'm asking current/ active members there opinion. Some how I think realjock will survive a few redundant threads.
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    Apr 07, 2014 2:41 AM GMT
    I guess the silence says it all,lol.
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    Apr 07, 2014 3:31 AM GMT
    There are tons of threads by "average" guys who want muscular guys - not so many threads asking this question, so I'll answer.

    Masculine or feminine, if they're muscular I'm comfortable with both. In fact, when a big butch-looking bodybuilder opens his mouth and a purse slips out I'm actually turned on by the disconnect - it's like getting the best of all worlds. Now if only I can find me one.
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    Apr 07, 2014 3:54 AM GMT
    eagermuscle saidThere are tons of threads by "average" guys who want muscular guys - not so many threads asking this question, so I'll answer.

    Masculine or feminine, if they're muscular I'm comfortable with both. In fact, when a big butch-looking bodybuilder opens his mouth and a purse slips out I'm actually turned on by the disconnect - it's like getting the best of all worlds. Now if only I can find me one.


    I always wanted to be muscular but never lifted weights seriously because u was terrified that no man would ever love me if I had the body of a man. I have always been keenly aware that the guys that liked me were attacked to my femininity. After my boyfriend of 3.5 years dumped me to become to stay in the closet I have decided to say fuck it and develop the kind of body I want for me. I am kinda worried I'll end up alone because so many gay men seem to detest that disconnect. I've heard the word transformer used to describe men who seem masculine in the gym but feminine once they leave.

    This is the kind of body I want to develop, with bigger because his seem to be lacking.
    http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=tn1BHa85GfE
  • PolitiMAC

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    Apr 07, 2014 3:59 AM GMT
    Muscle Marys sound hilarious icon_razz.gif

    I've never been one to care about the muscle mass on a man, so I don't really care if he's feminine, masculine, muscly or not.

    My line is drawn at too overweight or too thin.
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    Apr 07, 2014 4:03 AM GMT
    PolitiMAC saidMuscle Marys sound hilarious icon_razz.gif

    I've never been one to care about the muscle mass on a man, so I don't really care if he's feminine, masculine, muscly or not.

    My line is drawn at too overweight or too thin.


    Muscle Mary might be a good drag name. She has fake boobs, a ten inch dick, 20 inch guns and a fierce wig.
  • buddycat

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    Apr 07, 2014 8:02 AM GMT
    I remember seeing one of those at a Saint at Large party many years ago. He was all built up and wearing platform shoes with some sort of feathers, make-up, and hot shorts. It was hilarious.
  • BloodFlame

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    Apr 22, 2014 4:48 AM GMT
    Not to me. I think that "Muscle Marys" or feminine muscular men can be quite appealing. Of course, I'm not a muscular guy myself but I do like muscular guys, be them masculine or fem but something tells me, I probably could get along well with an open-minded fem muscular guy or in the middle.

    In fact, when I was about 13 and discovered more of my gay side, I used to go on a site called ChrisGeary.com (the first gay site I ever saw) and I remember seeing a picture of Chris and his boyfriend who is quite muscular built in drag (underbust leather corset with leather undies and tassels with eyeshadow/eyeliner and lipstick). I thought that looked quite cool and attracting on him.

    As far as attraction goes, it wouldn't bother me at all as long as he was being true to himself and not trying to be something he's not. If he's rude/obnoxious, that's an immediate turn off but that goes for anyone really lol).

    If you're looking to build muscle, then go ahead and do it if that's what you truly want. Even if some guys won't like the fem muscular combination, I'm sure there will be plenty who will like it so don't get deterred.
  • HottJoe

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    Apr 22, 2014 10:24 PM GMT
    taichiguy saidI guess the silence says it all,lol.

    They're just being shy.icon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 24, 2014 2:57 AM GMT
    that's kinda interesting never seen that before. Muscle fem? I'll Google it icon_biggrin.gif probably wouldn't matter, if love is genuinely there, right? Or are we just falling for an image? Just need clarification* spell *:p
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    Apr 25, 2014 12:44 PM GMT
    ArtStrength77 saidthat's kinda interesting never seen that before. Muscle fem? I'll Google it icon_biggrin.gif probably wouldn't matter, if love is genuinely there, right? Or are we just falling for an image? Just need clarification* spell *:p


    I have noticed increasing numbers of muscular fems and they are at least a very large minority of the whole gay & bi-sexual male world. I would not date one I find it more off putting than a slim/skinny fem but at least they are what you think they might be when you look across the room to meet them 1st time. Please note I am including Gay men who's mannerism, likes and the majority of their dislikes and hobbies fit into a list of those characteristics which the wider hetero world would be consider "stereotypical". The type who try to create a perception of masculinity and fail and many of them don't realise it