Apr 04, 2014 10:14 PM GMT
I'm just curious but I myself am on the skinnier side. Don't get me wrong I workout and stay in shape, I'm just not huge and wouldn't necessarily considers self a bodybuilder.
Mitchell7665 saidI think every thin guy wants this to be true, but in most cases its not. One of the more superficial reasons why gay guys workout and put so much time into their bodies to get muscles is to be attractive to other muscly guys, after all they are gay and are obviously attracted to men and their physique just the same as any other gay guy. In saying that there is a smaller number of muscled guys who are attracted to smaller, thinner guys.
shortbutsweet said^^^ True. But isn't the theme of all these threads really, "Are there any muscular men interested in me?"Lazy net casting? Oh, my word...
mickeytopogigio saidshortbutsweet said^^^ True. But isn't the theme of all these threads really, "Are there any muscular men interested in me?"Lazy net casting? Oh, my word...
Toastvenom saidso is being skinny like the new fat or something? unnerving how gay dudes have been conditioned to accept only one body type as acceptable/desired (the jacked up on steroids and/or protein shakes/bar type) kinda ironic that the gay symbol is a rainbow.
bachian saidAs someone who's 6'2" and who was once 50lbs thinner, I can attest that I attract far more of these guys now than before. Paradoxically, becoming bigger makes you less shallow: since it's guaranteed that you will attract someone physically attractive to you, you don't have to compromise so much on moral character, personality, common interests... The guys I date now are not only better looking, they're better overall. Nowadays I'm even experiencing requited love! Becoming more muscular will open many doors and if you knew what you're losing you wouldn't even consider remaining skinny.
Neon saidHmm interesting, don't you question why so many more are into you, does it bother you that it's on your physical appearance and not actually who you really are? Would they have given you the time of day before you got fit? These are questions I'm going to wonder about once I get more fit..