Is the gay community turning into Wishy Washy, Flishy Flashy just shallow groupies?

  • RainBow_Drago...

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    Apr 05, 2014 11:50 AM GMT
    So I have decided to disassociate myself from a group of gay guys I used to hang out with mainly because I think that some gay guys have no morals.

    Don't take me wrong, I'm not judging these people, this kind of fun is nice sometimes, but this Wishy Washy, Flishy Flashy it's just not my thing.

    I like to have a "meaningful" conversations, whatever I just find them to be too dramatic, too raunchy with their sexual image and they have nothing to offer in a real friendship and will do any shit to make a name for themselves.

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    Apr 05, 2014 11:59 AM GMT
    I think you're dishonest.
    You say that "they have no morals" but you're "not judging"?
    That's completely full of shit.
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    Apr 05, 2014 12:11 PM GMT
    Sharkadelic saidI think you're dishonest.
    You say that "they have no morals" but you're "not judging"?
    That's completely full of shit.


    By lacking morals I meant “ Displaying gross sexual immorality, and, dishonoring their bodies with one another, in public".
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    Apr 05, 2014 12:25 PM GMT
    The only thing I hate about the gay community is the whole validation whoring and Daddy pity. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 05, 2014 12:34 PM GMT
    immunity said
    RainBow_Dragon2000 said
    Sharkadelic saidI think you're dishonest.
    You say that "they have no morals" but you're "not judging"?
    That's completely full of shit.
    By lacking morals I meant “ Displaying gross sexual immorality, and, dishonoring their bodies with one another, in public".
    That's a judgement on your part.

    It's okay to judge, you know. Everyone does it. Constantly.
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    Apr 05, 2014 12:35 PM GMT
    Xavier92 saidThe only thing I hate about the gay community is the whole validation whoring and Daddy pity. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Well, we only have a handful of people who do that. I wouldn't put it on the whole gay community.
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    Apr 05, 2014 12:59 PM GMT
    bonapart01 saidgay community always was predominantly shallow wishy washy narcissistic self obsessed losers
    but who cares

    I can agree with the shallow part but not the rest. All we care about is who's hot and I'm guilty of that too.
    Many people here are fascinating and certainly not losers.
    (Sharky, for example, never fails to come up with yet another amazing story about himself.)
    Wishy washy? We wouldn't have so many heated arguments if we were wishy washy.
    Disingenuous? All the time.
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    Apr 05, 2014 1:04 PM GMT
    Another thing I'm starting to hate is the whole white guilt shit going on. Apparently, if you are white, nothing bad ever happens to you and you are suppose to "owe" something to all non-whites. Wtf? I never enslaved anyone, I've never killed a non-white and I'm not a member of the KKK. I have zero white guilt. No fucks giving. icon_rolleyes.gif


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    Apr 05, 2014 3:06 PM GMT
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    Apr 05, 2014 3:19 PM GMT
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    Apr 05, 2014 3:23 PM GMT
    RainBow_Dragon2000 said
    Sharkadelic saidI think you're dishonest.
    You say that "they have no morals" but you're "not judging"?
    That's completely full of shit.


    By lacking morals I meant “ Displaying gross sexual immorality, and, dishonoring their bodies with one another, in public".


    If you don't like that personally, you should first explore why you don't like it, what makes you aberrant towards the idea of sexualizing yourself and the overall image that some of your friends feel fairly comfortable with. Also ask yourself if they are doing something wrong, when I say "wrong", I don't mean just because you think it is, or because society decided it to be on nothing other than the fact that sexual expression is simply too much. I mean is there something inherently wrong with what they are doing? Are they harming anybody? Are they harming themselves? If not, then why the fuck you care, move on, do what you like to do and don't judge your friends in the process.
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    Apr 05, 2014 3:58 PM GMT
    Being Gay is who you are. It is just like the friends group that we chose during our childhood or during college years. We really did choose then. Its the same.
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    Apr 05, 2014 4:03 PM GMT
    bonapart01 said
    owl_bundy saidand yet your profile picture is of you in your underwear and most of your pictures is mostly body shots. icon_lol.gif
    i can tell you that that shit doesn't apply to me as i prove with who i am because i let that shit speak for itself. i don't care about who's hot, who's not hot, who's fucking who, how i can out slut the next guy or whatever. never push myself into that territory to fit in to some shit. so fuck all this sex culture, sex objectification bullshit. there's a time and place for everything.

    you are just mad because you still live in your mothers basement and are ug*y as S*it

    You know, it's pretty much a standard rule with adults about not saying anything about anyone else's mother in an argument, not even a reference.
    I'm not taking sides in this unnecessary trade of insults but I would like to say I think Pazzy is cute. And I love underwear pictures.
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    Apr 05, 2014 4:09 PM GMT
    charlitos said
    If you don't like that personally, you should first explore why you don't like it, what makes you aberrant towards the idea of sexualizing yourself and the overall image that some of your friends feel fairly comfortable with. Also ask yourself if they are doing something wrong, when I say "wrong", I don't mean just because you think it is, or because society decided it to be on nothing other than the fact that sexual expression is simply too much. I mean is there something inherently wrong with what they are doing? Are they harming anybody? Are they harming themselves? If not, then why the fuck you care, move on, do what you like to do and don't judge your friends in the process.

    All true. If these guys are deliberately giving each other AIDS, well that's gross sexual immorality. If they're just having a lot of sex, that's not for me but who cares?