Apr 07, 2014 1:41 AM GMT
I am officially done having anything to do with closeted dudes. A coworker of mine through a bitch fit because I called him girl a week ago and then a few days ago I called him by a feminine nick name. Firstly I called him girl because he did something really bitchy. Something I have done to straight male coworkers in the past. Secondly multiple people have called him this nickname. Its a natural joke for a man with his first name. I get he's in the closet but I honestly treat him the same way I treat any straight dude I'm close with. I wish he wouldn't have come out to me because now I have to treat him differently because he is closeted. I don't want to bear his burden. I don't want to have to wonder if everything I say to him might jeopardize his closet. Next time I think a dude is sending signals to me that he is gay i will inform him that if he is closeted keep it too himself. Things between me and this dude would have been no different had I been allowed to go on assuming he was straight.