Attracted to masculinity

  • Skipper18

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    Apr 07, 2014 9:10 PM GMT
    Why is it that I am more attracted to straight men
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    Apr 07, 2014 9:11 PM GMT
    Because gay people aren't identical.
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    Apr 07, 2014 9:12 PM GMT
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    Apr 07, 2014 9:19 PM GMT
    Skipper18 saidI swear I can't post on this site without getting some rude remark


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    Apr 07, 2014 9:19 PM GMT
    I'm attracted to masculine, assertive, mens men and theres nothing wrong with it. There's nothing wrong with someone being attracted to feminine guys either, or certain facial features or certain body types etc. It's all just preference.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Apr 07, 2014 9:40 PM GMT
    hmmm ... could it be because you are gay? icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 07, 2014 10:09 PM GMT
    Skipper18 said ... more attracted to straight men
    gay men are 5% or 1 in 20 of the general population so you will find what you are looking for if your patient.

    find a more solid relationship if you figure what you yourself can bring to the table, look for a partner that can provide the missing things so your household adds up to more than just 2.0.

    the other 95% the straights, their partner has likely nothing in common with him. If the divorce rate is 50% that means 50% stay with their partner for a long time. Something is working for them.


    there;
    not making fun of you, not pessimistic, no big truth here but it took a little time to type the stuff out. The OP has eleven posts here be loving, he might be from your town.
    you guys will never find a date.
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    Apr 07, 2014 11:28 PM GMT
    Because you want what's unattainable, making you nothing special.
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    Apr 07, 2014 11:40 PM GMT
    eagermuscle saidBecause you want what's unattainable, making you nothing special.

    This^ also, once again, this question has been asked many times. Search the forums before making a post.
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    Apr 08, 2014 12:13 AM GMT
    Kuestion said
    Skipper18 saidI swear I can't post on this site without getting some rude remark


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    Hehehehe
  • creature

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    Apr 08, 2014 12:18 AM GMT
    There are gay guys that exhibit those traits you find attractive. They're not exclusive to straight men. I don't know how far and wide you have gone looking, but I'm sure you can find what you're looking for. You are in DC, after all.
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    Apr 08, 2014 12:44 AM GMT
    eagermuscle saidBecause you want what's unattainable, making you nothing special.


    I don't know about that, certainly not as an absolute. Maybe that's what plays for those with low self-esteem?

    I find that generally, if it's attraction to masculinity, then that's just an aspect of being gay, a preference. Lots of us have that.

    But if it's attraction to str8 guys exclusive of gay guys, then that means you want to be the girl. It could indicate some self-loathing if gay guys actually turn you off.

    But also I wonder if attraction to str8 guys might not entail some acceptance issues, not that going after the unattainable makes you special, rather the idea that if a str8 guy will have sex with you then that means you've been accepted into the world of men as you are or certainly the fetishizing of that notion: sex as acceptance.
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    Apr 08, 2014 12:44 AM GMT
    Maybe you like being rejected.
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    Apr 08, 2014 12:45 AM GMT
    Skipper18 saidWhy is it that I am more attracted to straight men


    because you should have been a woman.
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    Apr 08, 2014 12:53 AM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidBecause gay people aren't identical.


    I'm seeing a lot of eerily similar clones is the gay world.
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    Apr 08, 2014 12:57 AM GMT
    ThatSwimmerGuy said
    eagermuscle saidBecause you want what's unattainable, making you nothing special.

    This^ also, once again, this question has been asked many times. Search the forums before making a post.

    You need help
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    Apr 08, 2014 1:03 AM GMT
    Let's see, perhaps this will answer your question:
    Skipper18 said, "I swear I can't post on this site without getting some rude remark"

    Member since: 04/01/14 Postings since then:

    Skipper18 saidWhy is it that I am more attracted to straight men
    Skipper18 saidI'm going to be in charleston sc this following week if anyone wants to showe a good time and go out
    Skipper18 saidYes this may seem desperate and a little sad, but yes I haven't been on a date. Any advice on how to start up my dating life even thought I'm at this awkward age.
    Skipper18 saidHow was your college experience as a gay man, could be you were or weren't out.
    Skipper18 saidAnyone have those awkward moments when you at to pull the straight card when you weren't out to the public and had to hook up with a girl.
    Skipper18 saidWhen was everyone's first kiss, or hookup. I have yet to be kissed before (by a guy of course) and I was was wondering if I'm not alone at the age
    Skipper18 saidI'm just curious but I myself am on the skinnier side. Don't get me wrong I workout and stay in shape, I'm just not huge and wouldn't necessarily considers self a bodybuilder.


    Perhaps enjoy other postings for awhile. Also, try searching the existing forums before posting, as many subjects could be repetitive.
  • jo2hotbod

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    Apr 08, 2014 1:08 AM GMT
    This is the first good post I've seen in a long time... lol Xavier92 and Kuestion... lol
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    Apr 08, 2014 1:14 AM GMT
    You're perhaps more attracted to straight men because you have a deep inner wish that you were one too...
    So many hot gay men out there. It only takes one.
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    Apr 08, 2014 1:18 AM GMT
    taichiguy said
    ThatSwimmerGuy said
    eagermuscle saidBecause you want what's unattainable, making you nothing special.

    This^ also, once again, this question has been asked many times. Search the forums before making a post.

    You need help

    Instead of simply stating "You need help", you should explain why I need help.
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    Apr 08, 2014 1:21 AM GMT
    jo2hotbod saidThis is the first good post I've seen in a long time... lol Xavier92 and Kuestion... lol


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    Apr 08, 2014 2:01 AM GMT
    Because deep inside you feel you're a straigt woman.
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    Apr 08, 2014 2:04 AM GMT
    taichiguy said
    JohnSpotter saidBecause gay people aren't identical.

    I'm seeing a lot of eerily similar clones is the gay world.

    Funny... but I retract my comment since the OP changed his question.
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    Apr 08, 2014 2:57 PM GMT
    Kuestion said
    Skipper18 saidI swear I can't post on this site without getting some rude remark


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    Maybe because gay men are really just catty middle school girls at heart? Even the ones on this site who insist they are masculine. That's probably why you're attracted to straight men; you're not interested in girls.

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    Apr 09, 2014 4:55 PM GMT
    Because your therapy isn't working? You crave being disappointed?

    If you want sex with straight men, you can probably get it with pretend straight men on craigslist. Or you can try getting some horny straight guys really drunk before closing time at bars where the available women have all left (you have to be able to outdrink them) and giving them rides home. Ski towns are your best bet.