Is my friend possibly curious?

  • Nearon

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    Apr 11, 2014 4:01 AM GMT
    So sometimes we "cuddle" but he says it's not gay. In this particular instance, I'm still bummed about blowing it in my class presentation, so he did our Bruddling (bros cuddling as he calls it). So then the song "1, 2, 3, 4" by Plain White Tees comes on pandora and he starts singing it to me. It was kinda cute but felt a little awkward cause my dick was getting hard, but luckily my back was facing his front while we were cuddling. I dunno bout this guy, we went to high school together....he was mega popular and all of a sudden we're super close.icon_neutral.gif
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    Apr 11, 2014 4:17 AM GMT
    Nearon saidSo sometimes we "cuddle"


    He's gay.

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  • MikeW

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    Apr 11, 2014 6:00 AM GMT
    Dude, are you crushing? Sounds like.
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    Apr 11, 2014 6:01 AM GMT
    Ehhh ca-uuuuuuute

    Well if hes nice who cares. If he says weird internalized homophobic things etc.. then ,.. ehhhhhhhhhh

    So what I mean is :-) :-) :-) :-)

    Go with it - sounds all squishy and cuddly :-)
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    Apr 11, 2014 6:55 AM GMT
    Cuddling doesn't make him gay. I cuddle with my straight female friends and I'm not straight.
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    Apr 11, 2014 7:55 AM GMT
    I'm willing to bet he isn't gay.

    Straight guys are surprisingly affectionate with each other when your alone and they feel secure enough to be affectionate with you.

    Then you got the ones who are secure in there own sexuality and know without doubt they are straight and they want to be affectionate with you cause of how they feel. THEN it's all out love you snuggles!

    It's weird at first but you get used to it.
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    Apr 11, 2014 8:05 AM GMT
    +1 with YN2K and Liltanker.

    Also, cuddling is actually pretty common for guys that are comfortable with each other.

    A few years ago in High a school I remember going on club/team trips and all the guys would literally pile on one bed, cuddle, and sleep like that all night. I was the only gay one.
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    Apr 11, 2014 8:19 AM GMT
    Xavier92 saidCuddling doesn't make him gay. I cuddle with my straight female friends and I'm not straight.
    Nope. You're totally straight.
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    Apr 11, 2014 5:34 PM GMT
    Possibly, yes. We don't know your friend; anything is possible.

    Personally, I've had a "straight" friend rarely touch me at all in the 10 years we've known each other... then suddenly, bam. I'll leave that line open to interpretation.

    So who knows. Boys will be boys.
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    Apr 11, 2014 11:54 PM GMT
    Urg, what's wrong with a straight guy cuddling with you, listening to some music and sing back to you. He's probably curious and afraid? I don't know, hang out more with him, if he's a homo, you would know if he has a boner hanging out with you.