Apr 11, 2014 5:57 PM GMT
Let's say you have a good relationship. But sex just doesn't happen..how long do you wait before you either a.break it off and find someone New or b.get a fuck bud to fill in what your not gettin at home
_Behemoth_ saidHow long? Months? Years??
_Behemoth_ saidI do not think It's an issue of liking anyone,I'm actually surprised people are saying they could do a sexless relationship.It's not everything but it is an important part of being with someone. I mean if your not fucking you are pretty much friends
eb925guy saidIn a good solid relationship the two will sit down and openly discuss each person's needs and desires and how they can agree to fulfill them. Every person is potentially different in what they deem appropriate for a relationship so an open nonjudgmental discussion is the best.
As for the timeframe, I say it's when ever either of the party is feeling ready. Some might think that's after a day or two of no sex, another might feel a week or two or a month, other still may be content to take things into their own hands and might wait a year or never. There's no definitive answer to this question.
Love includes so much more than just sex. Sure, sex can or may play a large part in a relationship for many or most but the absence of sex is not a killer for a relationship if the couple truly love each other and are able to communicate.
How they resolve the issue of no sex is much the same as how they resolve the issues of finances, house work, vacations and family. They discuss it like two grown adults and find resolve/compromise between them.
jocktrainee saidMy relationship.
We've been together for over 6 months and we only had j/o session about 5 times. It's not so bad. Because I know that sex does not happen more frequently due to many reasons: place, time, life events, etc.
I still fancy my bf every day and I will wait. He's just worth the wait.