Homophobic bully neighbour

  • saras

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    Apr 13, 2014 4:07 PM GMT
    This guy from the neighbourhood keeps pissing me off by calling me nasty gay nicknames. i try to avoid him everytime i can but he just seems to be all over the place. stronger than me but i really wanna kill him. unreasonable bully with a sharp nasty tongue. help me please
  • saras

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    Apr 13, 2014 4:15 PM GMT
    pepper spray wont work. this guy is over 6 feet tall. he'd most probably pepper spray me. shit, i'm so frustrated.
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    Apr 13, 2014 4:16 PM GMT
    It has been my experience these types of men are the pinnacle of self hating, as in he wants you, wants to be you.
    The hate builds so much that he lashes out.
    For me I give them an air kiss and a wink, but I'm a moose so I can get away with it.
    You could do the same, just have a camera ready for when he freaks the hell out.
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    Apr 13, 2014 4:17 PM GMT
    Call the cops on him for harassment.
  • roadbikeRob

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    Apr 13, 2014 4:19 PM GMT
    LC92 saidCall the cops on him for harassment.
    I second that.
  • saras

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    Apr 13, 2014 4:19 PM GMT
    dustin, this guy just loves calling me names when i pass by his apartment block and he makes all the neighbours grin. I need to KILL him. shit. i'm really frustrated. sorry gents, didn't know where that came from
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    Apr 13, 2014 4:26 PM GMT
    Restraining Order?
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    Apr 13, 2014 4:31 PM GMT
    You should tell his mother on him.
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    Apr 13, 2014 4:31 PM GMT
    saras saiddustin, this guy just loves calling me names when i pass by his apartment block and he makes all the neighbours grin. I need to KILL him. shit. i'm really frustrated. sorry gents, didn't know where that came from

    Do you have a camera phone?
    you have to document it.
  • saras

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    Apr 13, 2014 4:37 PM GMT
    the guy pummels his wife occassionally and gets crazy if she so much as chats me up in the street. well i happen to know her from before and she kinda knows about my , well orientation. but the husband has now made living in this neighbourhood impossible. can't afford to move out.
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    Apr 13, 2014 4:38 PM GMT
    saras saiddustin, this guy just loves calling me names when i pass by his apartment block and he makes all the neighbours grin. I need to KILL him. shit. i'm really frustrated. sorry gents, didn't know where that came from


    First of all, you need to stop saying you need to kill him. This is a very PC society we live in and just saying those words can land you in a lot of trouble. And God forbid you did have to defend yourself, those words could be used against you. Secondly, you need to file a police report for harassment. I know little about the laws in London but from what I hear they take threats much more seriously than in the U.S.
  • thadjock

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    Apr 13, 2014 4:40 PM GMT
    he's hot for u, he's just a little clumsy with his mating call.

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  • saras

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    Apr 13, 2014 4:55 PM GMT
    hey. the last post was fun. hot for me ? he's hot for all the wags in the neighbourhood.
  • killercliche

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    Apr 13, 2014 5:23 PM GMT
    you are 34 years old with this problem?

    You know for a fact that his abuses his wife and have taken no action to stop him?

    Sounds like you have bigger problems than a name calling bully.
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    Apr 13, 2014 7:07 PM GMT
    Just respond

    "And?"

    Lol works for me

    Lol I didn't check where you live but, if he hits you call the cops. Don't be afraid.
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    Apr 13, 2014 7:30 PM GMT
    I find it strange people immediately always claim this must be a self-hating individual. There are still people out there who just don't want to have anything to do with gay people and that their own (dumb) right. Ofc that's no reason to start bullying anyone and you should definitely try to stand your ground in order to make him stop doing this.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Apr 13, 2014 8:05 PM GMT
    Tell him, nice try at trying to get your attention, but you have no interesting in having sex with him ever because he couldn't even satisfy a hamster. Make sure you state it loud enough for everyone in the neighborhood to hear.
  • safety43_mma1...

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    Apr 13, 2014 8:33 PM GMT
    Sorry to hear your situation I say beat his ass. Or atleast get in his face let him know u r sick of it. A taser always works nicely too just saying. The police r a option also but u need to have witnesses that he said it otherwise let your anger go and fuck his bitchass world up.
  • safety43_mma1...

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    Apr 13, 2014 8:34 PM GMT
    All else fails a nice swift kick to the nuts always works nicely
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    Apr 13, 2014 9:02 PM GMT
    saras saidThis guy from the neighbourhood keeps pissing me off by calling me nasty gay nicknames. i try to avoid him everytime i can but he just seems to be all over the place. stronger than me but i really wanna kill him. unreasonable bully with a sharp nasty tongue. help me please

    You all seem not to get it; If you avoid him you will accomplish nothing. Go and fix things face to face, you dont have to beat him up at once, just go and be scary and threatening so he knows not to mess with you. Have in mind you might have to fight him though, so go prepared.
    This is the only way to deal with these people, and trust me I know I work in an homophobic field and havent been bothered once in almost 5 years.
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    Apr 13, 2014 9:06 PM GMT
    call him a loser and if he attacks, stab his stomach, carry a new knife with you and if it ever happens, say to police you just bought it for home use and as it happened he attacked you at that exact day

    call him an undeveloped loser and an ape
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    Apr 13, 2014 9:08 PM GMT
    roadbikeRob said
    LC92 saidCall the cops on him for harassment.
    I second that.


    Charge him for emotional harassment.
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    Apr 13, 2014 9:09 PM GMT
    You should face your demons like a man.
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    Apr 13, 2014 9:11 PM GMT
    rsnextdoor said
    roadbikeRob said
    LC92 saidCall the cops on him for harassment.
    I second that.


    Charge him for emotional harassment.

    And be labeled as the gayest of the gay forever and ever. Right.
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    Apr 13, 2014 9:13 PM GMT
    bonapart01 saidcall him a loser and if he attacks, stab his stomach, carry a new knife with you and if it ever happens, say to police you just bought it for home use and as it happened he attacked you at that exact day

    call him an undeveloped loser and an ape

    Im sure that will work, if he's 12 icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif