Are there any guys on RJ that actually want to date?

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    Apr 14, 2014 5:25 AM GMT
    So I got a RJ account a few months ago because I wanted to meet a real guy that I could fall in love with but up till now all i have found and all that have found me are guys that just want to flaunt their pics or do vid sex or phone sex text&call... Im beginning to give up on the RJ community...please no your so young bull shit i may be young but I have had a rough real world childhood icon_sad.gif
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    Apr 14, 2014 5:27 AM GMT
    Um, slow down, tiger. You're 18.
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    Apr 14, 2014 5:32 AM GMT
    Thatguy460 saidAre there any guys on RJ that actually want to date?


    Yes, but they won't be easy to find. It's the same in the "real" world, too.
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    Apr 14, 2014 5:34 AM GMT
    This isn't a dating site and you're still young. I know I have more things to say but its late for me and I need to sleep....

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    Apr 14, 2014 7:42 AM GMT
    I'll go on a date with you? You have no face and you're 18 but.... Why not!? I've been to West Valley several times this year... Who wouldn't chill with a pair of abs....


    It could be fun :-) :-) :-)

    Maybe I could do laundry with you!
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    Apr 14, 2014 11:49 AM GMT
    Undoubtedly
  • Farmboy8

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    Apr 14, 2014 12:30 PM GMT
    Thatguy460 saidSo I got a RJ account a few months ago because I wanted to meet a real guy that I could fall in love with but up till now all i have found and all that have found me are guys that just want to flaunt their pics or do vid sex or phone sex text&call... Im beginning to give up on the RJ community...please no your so young bull shit i may be young but I have had a rough real world childhood icon_sad.gif


    I understand your frustration, we have all had our share of "show me your cock pics" types. The bottom line is that it isn't easy meeting "nice guys", period. Same as it isn't easy for straight guys to meet "nice women". You just have to keep putting yourself out there.
    If I might suggest, your profile pictures ALL show abs, nipples, bulges.....if you are trying to send the message of meeting a "nice guy", tone down the sexy shots and just share those with guys that seem genuinely interested AND show some face shots. Just a thought.
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    Apr 14, 2014 1:36 PM GMT
    Most new members who complain about not getting the expected number of hookUps or dates; you look at their profile and its none existent or goofy. Ck this guy out, he puts himself forward really sweetly.

    dating is about self discovery as much as anything else. Get a feel for what you bring to the table, find a partner who completes the household. The two of you add up to 2.0 The partner dosnt have to have the exact interests as you except he be honest, communicative, respectful...

    That being said; realjock is not a dating site. Most members have anger issues. Maybe me too.

    I hope the OP stays around a while, have patience, at minimum I am a little curious how what happens to this site with the new owners. The replies you read here are incredibly smart insightful.
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    Apr 14, 2014 2:31 PM GMT
    Although this is not primarily a Dating Site, there are MANY Dudes who want to date on RJ - TRUST ME.

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    Apr 14, 2014 3:08 PM GMT
    Snaz saidI'll go on a date with you? You have no face and you're 18 but.... Why not!? I've been to West Valley several times this year... Who wouldn't chill with a pair of abs....


    It could be fun :-) :-) :-)

    Maybe I could do laundry with you!


    Lol, if i'm reading this in the right tone than you Snaz, are fucking hilarious!
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    Apr 14, 2014 3:13 PM GMT
    Well, put it this way, i joined less than a week ago and i met a great guy, who was tired of being used and wanted something real. We went on a date and we really connected, don't know if he wants to date me, but he doesnt like hookups. And i'm your age. Buck up.

    But in your favour, where i live people take relationships a bot more seriously, your not just a dick attached to some guy.
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    Apr 14, 2014 3:47 PM GMT
    I want to date but my husband is opposed to it.
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    Apr 14, 2014 3:54 PM GMT
    This isn't really a dating site. IT's more of a fitness site.
  • buddycat

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    Apr 14, 2014 6:57 PM GMT
    Not really a dating site. As you can see, these guys are all over the world. It is more of a gay fitness site. If you are looking for a date, try OKCupid or Plenty of Fish.
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Apr 14, 2014 7:40 PM GMT
    Xavier92 saidThis isn't really a dating site. IT's more of a fitness site.

    Yet the site says gay men and gay dating hmmm..
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    Apr 14, 2014 7:44 PM GMT
    ThatSwimmerGuy said
    Xavier92 saidThis isn't really a dating site. IT's more of a fitness site.

    Yet the site says gay men and gay dating hmmm..


    But dudes rarely use as a dating site. This is more of a fitness/Grindr kinda place. icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 14, 2014 7:58 PM GMT
    Aleco_Graves said
    Snaz saidI'll go on a date with you? You have no face and you're 18 but.... Why not!? I've been to West Valley several times this year... Who wouldn't chill with a pair of abs....


    It could be fun :-) :-) :-)

    Maybe I could do laundry with you!


    Lol, if i'm reading this in the right tone than you Snaz, are fucking hilarious!


    I laughed writing it so, yes. Compliment me more :-) haha
  • Rene_Aensland

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    Apr 14, 2014 8:10 PM GMT
    Oh my Fuck, another thread with a kid bitching about something.


    Great.
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    Apr 14, 2014 8:14 PM GMT
    Fivealive saidThis isn't a dating site and you're still young. I know I have more things to say but its late for me and I need to sleep....



    Actually it is also a dating site.
    If you put your mouse pointer on the site tab you'll see it says "Gay Men and Gay Dating - Chat, Forums, Personals, Fitness, Health, Community and More - Realjock"

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    Edit: Also it's an 18+ site, so it definitely rules out that it's an only fitness site icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 14, 2014 8:38 PM GMT
    I never understood why guys say this isn't a dating site...or a hookup site. I'm sure it's on the down low.

    RJ is designed for social interaction. If it leads to emails, exchanges of phone numbers, dates, hookups.

    I've been hit up by one guy on the site who wanted to hook up with me.

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    Apr 14, 2014 9:05 PM GMT
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    Apr 14, 2014 9:28 PM GMT
    n8698u saidI never understood why guys say this isn't a dating site...or a hookup site. I'm sure it's on the down low.

    RJ is designed for social interaction. If it leads to emails, exchanges of phone numbers, dates, hookups.

    I've been hit up by one guy on the site who wanted to hook up with me.


    I agree with this. It isn't a Grindr-get-your-rocks-off-here site but more a place to talk, interact, share advice, information. I think that is a much better way to meet someone and all you have to do is be involved and not come on too strong. Lots of great guys here. (There are some unpleasant people here, too, like OWL BUNDY, but you can ignore them.) They are in the minority.
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    Apr 14, 2014 9:30 PM GMT
    Destinharbor said
    n8698u saidI never understood why guys say this isn't a dating site...or a hookup site. I'm sure it's on the down low.

    RJ is designed for social interaction. If it leads to emails, exchanges of phone numbers, dates, hookups.

    I've been hit up by one guy on the site who wanted to hook up with me.


    I agree with this. It isn't a Grindr-get-your-rocks-off-here site but more a place to talk, interact, share advice, information. I think that is a much better way to meet someone and all you have to do is be involved and not come on too strong. Lots of great guys here. (There are some unpleasant people here, too, like OWL BUNDY, but you can ignore them.) They are in the minority.


    ...then, there was adult chat back in the day. THAT was...adult.
  • Breeman

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    Apr 14, 2014 10:06 PM GMT
    I don't put much hope into RJ or any kind of online dating site. I met one guy on here a year ago but there was no real connection between us. I get the odd visit to my profile or hello and that's about it.
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    Apr 14, 2014 10:17 PM GMT
    Ammon said
    Fivealive saidThis isn't a dating site and you're still young. I know I have more things to say but its late for me and I need to sleep....



    Actually it is also a dating site.
    If you put your mouse pointer on the site tab you'll see it says "Gay Men and Gay Dating - Chat, Forums, Personals, Fitness, Health, Community and More - Realjock"

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    Edit: Also it's an 18+ site, so it definitely rules out that it's an only fitness site icon_smile.gif


    My bad...^_^

    Although I haven't heard any guy who uses this site to date!