Dec 30, 2008 6:32 PM GMT
I'm seeking advice. What makes a bottom a good bottom. I assume there's more to it than just passively getting pounded. So, how can a bottom make sex an event to remember?
MunchingZombie saidAnyone can just lounge about and get pounded. I like an aggressive bottom who tries to chew your dick off.
MunchingZombie saidAnyone can just lounge about and get pounded. I like an aggressive bottom who tries to chew your dick off. But, not everyone has the same tastes I do. Figuring out what turns your top's crank is key. Maybe they like a little power play, maybe they want their bottom to top from the bottom, maybe they want a vocal guy. There are guys who like it as tight as a virgin. There are guys who like it so loose they can fit a fist or two up there. There are guys who like bottoms who aim to please. There are guys who like them reluctant.
Talk to your top. Figure them out. Report back with pictures.
tommieboiisf saiddon't most tops like a loud verbal bottom?
that's wut i've always been told...
tommysguns2000 saidbeing able to cum without touching your dick helps...it always makes me feel good when he can't control it...
lilTanker saidMunchingZombie saidAnyone can just lounge about and get pounded. I like an aggressive bottom who tries to chew your dick off.
lilTanker saidtommieboiisf saiddon't most tops like a loud verbal bottom?
that's wut i've always been told...
Its all about the moans, the breathing, how your body reacts, tensing of muscles in anticipation of whats about to take place..
You moan loud enough for him to hear, but you also moan softly, just enough that he knows you just moaned but not loud enough for him to have heard it fully, then some more of each, what ever takes your fancy really,.
Then you got the breathing, now that can be really good, a little heavy breathing, a little panting when you get really excited, even a little under the breath moaning..
Then your body, if your on your back and you get beg your legs around his chest/waist you can have a lot of fun with him, you can really get your entire body into it, pulling him in harder, forcing him to stay where he is, get your back arching a little maybe run your hand through his hair, keep one if his chest or abs, pull him down to kiss, come up to him, while your up there, maybe a little quiet words ya know, let him know verbally how good he feels, maybe a little harder, or some quiet begging ya know, what ever will do it for him
on your knees, well, flex your back, push back at him, groan a little when he pushes in, arch your back still, moan some more, make it a touch louder maybe.. if he pulls you up to kneel, if hes tall enough lay your head onto his shoulder, keep a light moan, his ear is right there, you do'nt need to be screaming for him, take one of his hands, move it to places on the front of your body that you like, wrap the other around to the back of his head..
Hes a top, hes putting in a lot of effort, you gotta put in just as much if not more, let him know where and when hes hitting the right spots, a good top wants to make it just as good for you as it is for him, I've never met a guy who didn't like a bottom that let him know when the right stuff was happening, being a forceful bottom can be hot as can being submissive.. but always know, sex is between two people, it takes two people, you both have to put work into it.
BerberKnight saidA good bottom is one who doesn't get penetrated. A good top is one who doesn't need to penetrate to feel sexually satisfied.
Good sexual partners are those who respect the body and its biological functions. Therefore, they are those who will refrain from any penetrative sex.
There are alternatives like frottage (penis to penis rowdy, sweaty, hot rubbing).
However, if the feeling of penetration is necessary for either partner to feel satisfied, the bottom could always lift his balls and let the top go back and forth within the area in between his balls and butt.
This can be done frontal or from the back. It's very sensual!
Greygull saidOh God more of that G0Y crap. Face it you're gay, either you like it in your butt, that your prerogative, but to say that what I do in the bedroom is unnatural and demeaning is offensive.
Lostboy76 saidsome affirmation is gratifying, otherwise I just think the poor guy is in pain. I don´t enjoying bottoming and so find it hard to believe that others do.