How do you ask him out?


  • Apr 17, 2014 12:47 AM GMT
    So for those of us who are attracted to the kind of guys who most people would have no idea that they're gay, it can be tough working up the courage to hit on someone.

    So I'm just curious, this is mostly just for fun:

    You see a hot guy at the bar, or at the game, or at the gym or whatever and you're definitely into him but you have no idea if he's into dudes or not. How would YOU go about asking him out??
  • Apparition

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    Apr 17, 2014 1:01 AM GMT
    smack your phone around and look confused like its not working in front of him. looked pissed off, then abruptly say...Fuct stupid phone,...hey, can you see if this thing is working for me. can you text 555 758 5588 for a second...

    then later that night text back "are you out?"
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    Apr 17, 2014 1:08 AM GMT
    Apparition saidsmack your phone around and look confused like its not working in front of him. looked pissed off, then abruptly say...Fuct stupid phone,...hey, can you see if this thing is working for me. can you text 555 758 5588 for a second...

    then later that night text back "are you out?"


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    Genius.
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    Apr 17, 2014 1:10 AM GMT
    Just start asking him for directions or something.
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    Apr 17, 2014 1:13 AM GMT
    Talk to him. Ask questions might give you a better idea of whether or not he's gay. Bring up subtle conversation topics that give a hint that you're gay. Not saying you should ask him if he likes Lady Gaga and stuff. Like if he asks you what you're going to do this summer, you can casually mention that you're just going to catch some sun at [your local gay beach]. Or you might grab a drink at [your local gay bar]. And so on.
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    Apr 17, 2014 1:45 AM GMT
    Apparition saidsmack your phone around and look confused like its not working in front of him. looked pissed off, then abruptly say...Fuct stupid phone,...hey, can you see if this thing is working for me. can you text 555 758 5588 for a second...

    then later that night text back "are you out?"


    For some reason, I was thinking of the following when I read your reply:

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  • Apr 17, 2014 7:22 AM GMT
    Apparition saidsmack your phone around and look confused like its not working in front of him. looked pissed off, then abruptly say...Fuct stupid phone,...hey, can you see if this thing is working for me. can you text 555 758 5588 for a second...

    then later that night text back "are you out?"


    haha yeah, that's a good one dude
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    Apr 17, 2014 9:38 AM GMT
    Well if he's in a gay bar, chances are he's a homo and likes dick. Lol, eye contact, stare at him, if he stares back and smile, that's a signal to ok moving in. icon_smile.gif No need to get rejected over some random dude who don't appear friendly at you.
  • Bunjamon

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    Apr 17, 2014 8:01 PM GMT
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    Apr 18, 2014 2:42 AM GMT
    Bunjamon said


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  • Apr 18, 2014 8:02 AM GMT
    Bunjamon said


    Funny you posted this. that video is what inspired this topic haha
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    Apr 18, 2014 9:23 AM GMT
    I once happened to get a cute bartender's phone number. So I just called him and asked if he wants to go out, I emphasized that it IS a date. He instantly shouted NO! in the phone icon_biggrin.gif then after 2 second silence he politely declined and said he's too busy. I think it was the first time for him that a guy asked him out.