How do you attract gay guys when you're not the best looking guy in the room?

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    Apr 17, 2014 2:29 AM GMT
    For those of us not blessed in the looks department how do you attract a gay guy and get him to like you for you?

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    Apr 17, 2014 2:30 AM GMT
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:31 AM GMT
    There is no such thing as pretty people. Beauty is subjective. People are attracted to different things. There will always be at least one person that will find you attractive. It's called preferences.
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:32 AM GMT
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    The very first step. icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:35 AM GMT
    There are pretty people that look very ugly when I get to know them :S

    Occassionally I forget about it

    I've liked downlow guys but, moment I realize they won't let that go I lose all interest and perma-friend categorize or let go altogether.

    One was balding and very short, not usually my type?

    Ehhh don't worry bout it so much.
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:36 AM GMT
    Win them over with your personality. Be outgoing and fun. Make them want to come meet you.
    People either draw others in or push them away.
    Draw them in.
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:37 AM GMT
    HamsterCheeks saidFor those of us not blessed in the looks department how do you attract a gay guy and get him to like you for you?

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    I'm not sure if you consider me good looking or not, but my current date is slightly overweight and does not work ot, but has a great personality, that's why I date him.
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:37 AM GMT
    xrichx said<--- See my profile pic. icon_lol.gif
    all your pics are gone!!
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:39 AM GMT
    Xavier92 saidThere is no such thing as pretty people. Beauty is subjective. People are attracted to different things. There will always be at least one person that will find you attractive. It's called preferences.


    Well pretty people was obviously an attempt at humour lol. There is such a thing though because some guys won't even talk to people in real life or online due to their looks.
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:39 AM GMT
    I won't

    I instantly go, ewwwwww I've seen your face in every god damn state!
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:40 AM GMT
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    xrichx said<--- See my profile pic. icon_lol.gif
    all your pics are gone!!

    I may or may not be uploading new pics. Haven't decided yet.
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:41 AM GMT
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    xrichx said<--- See my profile pic. icon_lol.gif
    all your pics are gone!!


    xrichx was referring to gym as the answer to the OP's question.
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:41 AM GMT
    xrichx said
    _Behemoth_ said
    xrichx said<--- See my profile pic. icon_lol.gif
    all your pics are gone!!

    I may or may not be uploading a new pics. Haven't decided yet.
    icon_exclaim.giffinally!!
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:41 AM GMT
    xrichx said
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    xrichx said<--- See my profile pic. icon_lol.gif
    all your pics are gone!!

    I may or may not be uploading a new pics. Haven't decided yet.


    Don't. Ever. You'll end up on tumblr. icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:42 AM GMT
    Erik101 said
    _Behemoth_ said
    xrichx said<--- See my profile pic. icon_lol.gif
    all your pics are gone!!


    xrichx was referring to gym as the answer to the OP's question.
    I'm aware..I was referring to his sexy Asian muscle body bein off the profile icon_redface.gif
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:42 AM GMT
    You just be you. You don't want to attract someone who wouldn't want you for you being you, it would never work out.
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:43 AM GMT
    Xavier92 said
    xrichx said
    _Behemoth_ said
    xrichx said<--- See my profile pic. icon_lol.gif
    all your pics are gone!!

    I may or may not be uploading a new pics. Haven't decided yet.


    Don't. Ever. You'll end up on tumblr. icon_lol.gif


    When I'm offline I put my pics in the private album to stop people doing that although I accidentally deleted my verification photo now by messing about with my albums icon_neutral.gif
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:44 AM GMT
    Xavier92 said
    xrichx said
    _Behemoth_ said
    xrichx said<--- See my profile pic. icon_lol.gif
    all your pics are gone!!
    I may or may not be uploading a new pics. Haven't decided yet.
    Don't. Ever. You'll end up on tumblr. icon_lol.gif

    Oh please. I'm hardly Tumblr worthy. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:46 AM GMT
    Story of my life. icon_neutral.gif

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    Apr 17, 2014 2:46 AM GMT
    xrichx said
    Xavier92 said
    xrichx said
    _Behemoth_ said
    xrichx said<--- See my profile pic. icon_lol.gif
    all your pics are gone!!
    I may or may not be uploading a new pics. Haven't decided yet.
    Don't. Ever. You'll end up on tumblr. icon_lol.gif

    Oh please. I'm hardly Tumblr worthy. icon_rolleyes.gif


    Yes you are. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:49 AM GMT
    xrichx saidStory of my life. icon_neutral.gif

    h3RLWVXl.jpg


    I don't believe that nobody has shown interest in you. icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 17, 2014 2:59 AM GMT
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    Xavier92 saidThere is no such thing as pretty people. Beauty is subjective. People are attracted to different things. There will always be at least one person that will find you attractive. It's called preferences.


    Well pretty people was obviously an attempt at humour lol. There is such a thing though because some guys won't even talk to people in real life or online due to their looks.


    guilty family guy photo: Guiltyyy! guilty_normal.jpg

    I'll admit thats me. And most of my friends are pretty attractive. So sue me. icon_biggrin.gif

    Nothing wrong with you being honest.

    If someone isn't as attractive as your usual type is there something they can do to get your attention?

    I ask because I notice more guys like yourself treating appearance as the prerequisite before they speak to someone or even reply to an online message (or they just reply they aren't interested before they've even spoken to or met you).
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    Apr 17, 2014 3:19 AM GMT
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    HamsterCheeks said
    Xavier92 saidThere is no such thing as pretty people. Beauty is subjective. People are attracted to different things. There will always be at least one person that will find you attractive. It's called preferences.


    Well pretty people was obviously an attempt at humour lol. There is such a thing though because some guys won't even talk to people in real life or online due to their looks.


    guilty family guy photo: Guiltyyy! guilty_normal.jpg

    I'll admit thats me. And most of my friends are pretty attractive. So sue me. icon_biggrin.gif

    Nothing wrong with you being honest.

    If someone isn't as attractive as your usual type is there something they can do to get your attention?

    I ask because I notice more guys like yourself treating appearance as the prerequisite before they speak to someone or even reply to an online message (or they just reply they aren't interested before they've even spoken to or met you).


    Well, let me put it like this.

    Unless we regularly talk on the forums or build up a rapport I'm unlikely to respond to you in private or outside the forums.


    It's similar IRL. If I don't know you before hand or you aren't a mutual friend of mine then I don't think I will make the first attempt to talk to you.

    If we are talking romantically. There is little to no chance I will talk to you if I don't find you attractive. Call me shallow, but I don't buy into this inner beauty crap where I fall in love with your personality. Though of course, good looks will get you in the door but a great personality will keep you there.

    And if if just aren't my type, then you just aren't my type. Sorry. #notsorry



    Hahahaha
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    Apr 17, 2014 3:19 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    HamsterCheeks said
    jmusmc85 said
    HamsterCheeks said
    Xavier92 saidThere is no such thing as pretty people. Beauty is subjective. People are attracted to different things. There will always be at least one person that will find you attractive. It's called preferences.


    Well pretty people was obviously an attempt at humour lol. There is such a thing though because some guys won't even talk to people in real life or online due to their looks.


    guilty family guy photo: Guiltyyy! guilty_normal.jpg

    I'll admit thats me. And most of my friends are pretty attractive. So sue me. icon_biggrin.gif

    Nothing wrong with you being honest.

    If someone isn't as attractive as your usual type is there something they can do to get your attention?

    I ask because I notice more guys like yourself treating appearance as the prerequisite before they speak to someone or even reply to an online message (or they just reply they aren't interested before they've even spoken to or met you).


    Well, let me put it like this.

    Unless we regularly talk on the forums or build up a rapport I'm unlikely to respond to you in private or outside the forums.


    It's similar IRL. If I don't know you before hand or you aren't a mutual friend of mine then I don't think I will make the first attempt to talk to you.

    If we are talking romantically. There is little to no chance I will talk to you if I don't find you attractive. Call me shallow, but I don't buy into this inner beauty crap where I fall in love with your personality. Though of course, good looks will get you in the door but a great personality will keep you there.

    And if if just aren't my type, then you just aren't my type. Sorry. #notsorry



    Funny. You're unattractive both ways. icon_neutral.gif
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    Apr 17, 2014 3:23 AM GMT
    Im usually not attracted to very good looking guys like pretty guys with great abs, I know maybe it's weird, guys like zac efron are not my type