The physical vs the personality. What do you think is more important.

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    Apr 19, 2014 10:29 PM GMT
    Its wonderful to meet a beautiful man. But I think personality is of greater value. I was told by a close friend that personality doesn't matter that much, especially if its a hook-up, chances are you are not going to be around long enough to see the beauty within.
    What do you think about this?
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    Apr 19, 2014 10:31 PM GMT
    Hookups yeah your just a nice view with a cock or arse. everything else is secondary and unimportant.

    Otherwise it's a mix if it's for dating nice face, alright body, great personality will win me over more often then not.

    But a horrible personality will kill it for me no matter how hot you are.

    Friends good personality is all that's needed my friends don't need to be "hot"
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    Apr 19, 2014 10:31 PM GMT
    Personality. I wouldn't want to be with a "hot" guy that's dull and rude. I have a very low tolerance for stupidity. Meatheads are a NO in my my case.
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    Apr 19, 2014 10:32 PM GMT
    Combination of both.
  • jo2hotbod

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    Apr 19, 2014 10:33 PM GMT
    You need to be physically attracted to each other, but more weight goes with personality
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    Apr 19, 2014 10:37 PM GMT
    A little from column A and a little from column B.
  • KittenpasteCo...

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    Apr 19, 2014 10:47 PM GMT
    A definite combination, as I found from my last relationship with a guy I had no physical attraction towards. If anything, the physical attraction works as a temporary stat boost. :v
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    Apr 19, 2014 10:47 PM GMT
    To be honest, there are a lot of good looking guys out there, but peoples personalities have been so offputting it's harder to find anyone with a personality that I can really stand icon_rolleyes.gificon_eek.gif
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    Apr 20, 2014 1:13 AM GMT
    Nice face and a good personality is enough to get me smitten. Any thing else is just bonus, man. I prioritize friends over hookups any day so if I had no plans beyond a single night or something I probably wouldn't be there any ways. icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 20, 2014 5:20 PM GMT
    I will have to say both! not everyone will look perfect and not everyone has the perfect personality. It will have to be based on what you can live with.
  • muscle_dude

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    Apr 20, 2014 5:44 PM GMT
    initial excitement comes from "wow!! he's hot". And I think that is necessary for me.

    But in 20 minutes of conversation - I will be thinking either "wow - this guy has potential" or "is it too soon for me to make an excuse to leave?".

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    Apr 20, 2014 6:10 PM GMT
    Looks catch my attention and personality determines whether or not they keep my attention.
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    Apr 20, 2014 6:15 PM GMT
    I don't believe those people who say looks don't matter at all
  • Patrator

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    Apr 20, 2014 6:20 PM GMT
    Definitely personality.

    Your body can be trained, but your personality stays the same.

    Doesn't matter if you got the hottest body in the world, if you know you're hot and is an asshole to everone that doesn't look as ripped as you do.
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    Apr 20, 2014 6:22 PM GMT
    When I was younger believed the latter of the two, that beauty was more important than personality. I guess growing older "wiser" you see things a bit differently.

    I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who is as dense as the latest issue of Vouge magazine. I personally would prefer someone who is physically appealing and is developed personality wise. I mean you only can look at a pretty photo for so long...
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    Apr 20, 2014 6:23 PM GMT
    Both
  • safety43_mma1...

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    Apr 20, 2014 6:24 PM GMT
    Looks fade with time and age personality is what is more important. A guy can be hot but if he is cocky rude or has no heart then move on bye.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 20, 2014 6:27 PM GMT
    Definitely personality.... definitely.

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  • mybud

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    Apr 20, 2014 6:54 PM GMT
    If you can make me laugh...you're in...
  • FRE0

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    Apr 20, 2014 7:37 PM GMT
    Personality, with looks a close second. However, we become aware of looks before we become aware of personality.
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    Apr 20, 2014 9:03 PM GMT
    the right mix of both always leaning towards the personality side. The better looking a guy is the higher the chances he will turn out to be a jerk. You have to find the right compromise that works for you.
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    Apr 20, 2014 9:04 PM GMT
    mybud saidIf you can make me laugh...you're in...


    well that was easy
  • britmed

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    Apr 20, 2014 9:05 PM GMT
    In terms of looks, it's mostly about being clean and making an effort. You don't have to be born looking like a swimwear model, just make the best of what you've got and be thankful for it. Someone who has that kind of confidence in themselves are instantly more attractive anyway.
  • mybud

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    Apr 20, 2014 9:07 PM GMT
    charlitos said
    mybud saidIf you can make me laugh...you're in...


    well that was easy
    SAY WAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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    Apr 20, 2014 9:31 PM GMT
    The obvious answer is first comes something physical but a relationship is sustained by the personality or lack there of because the absence of personality is personality just not the type you may appreciate.