Fixing an online dating conversation

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    Apr 21, 2014 12:39 AM GMT
    So I found this guy on a dating website who I'm really interested in. He has the type of look that I'm attracted to, and we actually seem to have a lot in common.

    I messaged him a simple "Hey" and he never replied. But then I decided to send him a little lengthier message and introduce myself more properly. He replied, and we chatted back and forth a bit. Then, he just stopped replying to me and I'm not sure why...so I kind of made the mistake of apologizing if I came off in the wrong way, and he never replied to that either (even though I can't imagine what I possibly could have said that would have made me come off as weird or anything).

    I really wish there was a way to fix this situation, but I don't know if there's anything I can say or do. icon_sad.gif
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    Apr 21, 2014 12:41 AM GMT
    nope no way to fix it.

    Apologising for the assumption you did something wrong clinched it.

    It's done and dusted get on with life.
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    Apr 21, 2014 12:43 AM GMT
    He's not interested. Move on.
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    Apr 21, 2014 12:44 AM GMT
    He's either already taken or just not attracted to you. Ignore him.
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    Apr 21, 2014 12:47 AM GMT
    He's not into you.
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    Apr 21, 2014 1:12 AM GMT
    Next :/


    I always like to give these a psycho finish

    But, thats me... Hahahaha

    Like "omg will you tell me you're not interested so, I can move on - thanks."

    I mean, if I didn't forget them or whatever..
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    Apr 21, 2014 1:15 AM GMT
    gabyboy saidHe's not into you.


    How many sock accounts do you fucking need?
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    Apr 21, 2014 1:16 AM GMT
    You seem like a nice guy and you're very handsome to boot. If he's not responding it's not anything you did. Either you're not his type or he's flakey. Either way, chasing after him is the worst thing you could do.
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    Apr 21, 2014 1:22 AM GMT
    I think your first mistake was starting a convo. with Hey...
    I have a hard time answering back to that as well.
    Sometimes, if someone loses interest during a text or and string of emails, it merely means they're finished and that's that.
    Don't feel bad, it's happened to most of us.
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    Apr 21, 2014 1:25 AM GMT
    Based on your profile I see a handsome young man. Based on what you wrote I sense you are still naive and probably have a lot of innocence to lose. Move on. Your goal is to find a guy you like who's into you not to chase after someone who is not. You will get better at identifying these men so don't waste your time with the others. And don't try to understand why because this type of rejection (if that is what it is) has nothing to do with your self-worth.
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    Apr 21, 2014 1:28 AM GMT
    Never apologise to someone without really knowing why just on the off chance that you've done something wrong. I've done that countless times and it was only after someone told me to not do that I've stopped so now I'm telling you the same lol icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 21, 2014 1:46 AM GMT
    When a guy doesn't answer your emails/texts, he's not interested, and unworthy of further communication attempts.
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    Apr 21, 2014 11:09 PM GMT
    I HATE ONLINE DATING. icon_sad.gif
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    Apr 22, 2014 2:11 AM GMT
    ant811 said ... wish there was a way to fix this situation ...


    in this type of situation you assume its all about you. When in fact usually its not and its all about him. he has reasons he did not respond back and you have to live with never knowing what they were.

    hope this helps
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    Apr 22, 2014 2:25 AM GMT
    He's not into you bro. Lol, I ignored guys who said **Hey before. Even after he reply to you, he was just being nice. Move on, He's not going to be your man.


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    Apr 22, 2014 5:48 AM GMT
    Like everyone else has pointed out. He wasn't into you. So brush of the hay from barn and ride a horse.
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    Apr 22, 2014 6:13 AM GMT
    Avoid lengthy messages. Give enough information to pique interest and then suggest that you talk about it more over a coffee.