Masturbation and Privacy

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    Apr 22, 2014 6:28 PM GMT
    How do you find an opportunity (if not multiples) to rub one out when you almost never had the privacy (or feel as if you don't have any privacy) if you live at home?

    As a student, I live at home, but my mother is always questioning why my door is closed whether I need to jerk off or I'm simply on the computer. I just like to have my door closed. However, with my recent case of lethargy, fluctuating sex drive, and large amount of school work, I never have time to do it (even though I rarely jerk off actually).

    I see guys here posting about edging for hours on end or masturbating daily, and I don't see how they can do it. How can I fix my problem?
  • Apparition

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    Apr 23, 2014 5:25 AM GMT
    most parents dont walk in on their sons jerking it more than once....try that.

    or next time you get asked why your door is closed say "I dont have a girlfriend thats why"
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    Apr 23, 2014 4:59 PM GMT
    ^ ^ ^ ^
    I agree here. Every parent knows that their son is rubbing one out at some point, even though they won't admit it. I think picking a time when you're in a good place with your mother and replying that sometimes you just want privacy without interruption would be appropriate. I would also point out that we all desire that and you would ask that she respects that for you. Allow her to commit so that you can close the door and not wonder if she's going to interrupt or, worse yet, walk in. You should have a lock on your door of some sort.

    Also, take opportunities when no one is home. If you're an early riser, rub one out before you head to the bathroom to shower or while showering either in the morning or at night. Be creative, you can surely find some alone time at some point during the day.
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    Apr 23, 2014 5:35 PM GMT
    Do it in the shower
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    Apr 26, 2014 1:31 AM GMT
    - I use do it when my parents went away, grocery shopping.
    - At nights in my room (used an old mariner as my cum rag).
    - In the bathroom and flush like was actually using the toilet.
    - In the shower, but I don't really like it much, because the water makes friction difficult.
  • Timbales

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    Apr 26, 2014 1:38 AM GMT
    I make my husband watch and play with my nipples.
  • chris24rcon

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    Jun 15, 2014 4:21 PM GMT
    When I was 15/16, closed doors didn't matter when I did get caught- kinda like George Costanza on Seinfeld. The differences were that it was at night, and I was in a crawlspace-type closet in my bedroom. The Prince song "Cream" may have been on the radio (it was probably too loud). The sight my mother saw was something I wished she never saw. The most awkward talk I had with my mother occured in the middle of the afternoon the next day. I stayed in my bedroom up to that point.
  • kew1

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    Jun 15, 2014 4:58 PM GMT
    PaulDee said- I use do it when my parents went away, grocery shopping.
    - At nights in my room (used an old mariner as my cum rag).
    - In the bathroom and flush like was actually using the toilet.
    - In the shower, but I don't really like it much, because the water makes friction difficult.

    Did he enjoy it?icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 15, 2014 5:25 PM GMT
    Tell your mom that you finally reached the mental acuity of a 12 year old and you're masturbating to celebrate your transition to puberty.