gradeabeef saidSo I would never slim down because Im just too big for that...but sometimes I wonder if I'm too big or if I should get even bigger. Its usually a hit for me being this size but sometimes its a miss. I also don't want to look like a manlet. Feed back would be great
Dude. You're a stud. A natural born stud. Hang with your gifts. Go for bigger. It's fun. It's what you're good at. It suits you well. You're the right age for it.
Nothing says man like muscle.
In the end...do what YOU want. It's not about validation. You are a natural born mesomorph that was made to be big. Embrace your gifts. Skinny guys can call it dysmorphia..but you can call it this...
When you excel at something on a daily basis, it becomes your normal. Nothing wrong with that. Excellence, is, in fact, embracing your gifts, and excelling at them..daily, and as a matter of habit.