Passed a note to one of my classmates who I know is gay...How long should I wait?

  • Armymanis

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    Apr 23, 2014 3:09 AM GMT
    So I passed a note to a guy who i potentially want to get to know and think is really attractive. He wore a girl cat headband today and wore girl jeans and a girl T-shirt. His hair was colored a different color and really long. I told him I was gay in the note and gave him my number in the note. Will he respond? He is gay too and told the class flat out.

    He is in my class and sits on the other side of the room and class starts really quickly so that was my only reaction time I could think of.
  • jo2hotbod

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    Apr 23, 2014 3:12 AM GMT
    Just go talk to him
  • MikeW

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    Apr 23, 2014 3:12 AM GMT
    What kind of bed do you have? Do you have an air mattress?
  • killercliche

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    Apr 23, 2014 3:14 AM GMT
    if he told the whole class he is gay was it necessary to list all his "girl" clothing?
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    Apr 23, 2014 3:15 AM GMT
    What did you write on the note? "I'm gay, here's my number" ??
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    Apr 23, 2014 3:17 AM GMT
    killercliche saidif he told the whole class he is gay was it necessary to list all his "girl" clothing?

    yeah, it adds morbo to the storytelling
  • Armymanis

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    Apr 23, 2014 3:28 AM GMT
    xrichx saidWhat did you write on the note? "I'm gay, here's my number" ??


    I pretty much wrote I am gay. I came out two weeks ago. I find you really attractive. Want to hangout? Then i added my number.
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    Apr 23, 2014 3:36 AM GMT
    Armymanis said
    xrichx saidWhat did you write on the note? "I'm gay, here's my number" ??

    I pretty much wrote I am gay. I came out two weeks ago. I find you really attractive. Want to hangout? Then i added my number.

    You're going so fast I begin to question your veracity. Coming out is not a media event - it's a time for personal reflection, adjustments & planning. You're turning it into a circus.
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    Apr 23, 2014 3:37 AM GMT
    xrichx saidWhat did you write on the note? "I'm gay, here's my number" ??

    He wrote:

    Do you like me?

    ____Check here is yes.


    ____Check here if no.
  • Armymanis

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    Apr 23, 2014 3:41 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    Armymanis said
    xrichx saidWhat did you write on the note? "I'm gay, here's my number" ??

    I pretty much wrote I am gay. I came out two weeks ago. I find you really attractive. Want to hangout? Then i added my number.

    You're going so fast I begin to question your veracity. Coming out is not a media event - it's a time for personal reflection, adjustments & planning. You're turning it into a circus.


    I can act how I want and do things at my own speed. I learn things by trial and error. So if you dont like how I do things then don't respond.
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    Apr 23, 2014 3:45 AM GMT
    Armymanis said
    Art_Deco said
    Armymanis said
    xrichx saidWhat did you write on the note? "I'm gay, here's my number" ??

    I pretty much wrote I am gay. I came out two weeks ago. I find you really attractive. Want to hangout? Then i added my number.

    You're going so fast I begin to question your veracity. Coming out is not a media event - it's a time for personal reflection, adjustments & planning. You're turning it into a circus.

    I can act how I want and do things at my own speed. I learn things by trial and error. So if you dont like how I do things then don't respond.

    Then I won't. You're on your own, though I begin to think you're trolling us. Your storyline is a bit improbable.
  • Armymanis

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    Apr 23, 2014 3:48 AM GMT
    Believe what you want to believe. I'm done with this shitty forum. No wonder people don't listen to the internet. People don't believe stories and think its all fiction on the internet. Bye
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    Apr 23, 2014 3:56 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    Armymanis said
    xrichx saidWhat did you write on the note? "I'm gay, here's my number" ??

    I pretty much wrote I am gay. I came out two weeks ago. I find you really attractive. Want to hangout? Then i added my number.

    You're going so fast I begin to question your veracity. Coming out is not a media event - it's a time for personal reflection, adjustments & planning. You're turning it into a circus.

    That's a lovely sentiment but coming out not being a media event is becoming increasingly untrue between YouTube and Facebook.
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    Apr 23, 2014 3:59 AM GMT
    You couldn't go up and speak to him? You're 24!!!!!
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    Apr 23, 2014 4:18 AM GMT
    eagermuscle said
    Art_Deco said
    You're going so fast I begin to question your veracity. Coming out is not a media event - it's a time for personal reflection, adjustments & planning. You're turning it into a circus.

    That's a lovely sentiment but coming out not being a media event is becoming increasingly untrue between YouTube and Facebook.

    That's a good observation. And given my generational gap here perhaps I don't understand the influence of YouTube & Facebok.

    But I still think this is all too quick & improbable, whatever the media. Despite having come out very quick myself. But really, this scenario is ridiculous. Can we have a reality check here?
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    Apr 23, 2014 4:20 AM GMT
    Aww so cute lol I didn't realize people passed notes still! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


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    Apr 23, 2014 4:21 AM GMT
    YYeah dude youre 24, whats that about sending littl notes around? And just like ART this story to me seems a little bit unlikely
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    Apr 23, 2014 4:30 AM GMT
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    Sweetooth saidYou couldn't go up and speak to him? You're 24!!!!!


    icon_confused.gif what does his age have to do with being shy or being too anxious to step up to somebody? some people are just naturally like that at any age.


    If an adult passes me a note, I won't take him seriously. What are we, kids? Just say hi, and if you are too anxious, then too bad.
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    Apr 23, 2014 4:41 AM GMT
    owl_bundy said
    Sweetooth said
    owl_bundy said
    Sweetooth saidYou couldn't go up and speak to him? You're 24!!!!!


    icon_confused.gif what does his age have to do with being shy or being too anxious to step up to somebody? some people are just naturally like that at any age.


    If an adult passes me a note, I won't take him seriously. What are we, kids? Just say hi, and if you are too anxious, then too bad.


    what if he's a mute?


    Then it would be a totally different story, he would come up to me giving me a note explaining it and telling me he can read lips etc.
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    Apr 23, 2014 4:54 AM GMT
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    xrichx saidWhat did you write on the note? "I'm gay, here's my number" ??

    He wrote:
    Do you like me?
    ____Check here is yes.
    ____Check here if no.

    This is totally a George Strait song. icon_biggrin.gif

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    Apr 23, 2014 2:50 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    eagermuscle said
    Art_Deco said
    You're going so fast I begin to question your veracity. Coming out is not a media event - it's a time for personal reflection, adjustments & planning. You're turning it into a circus.

    That's a lovely sentiment but coming out not being a media event is becoming increasingly untrue between YouTube and Facebook.

    That's a good observation. And given my generational gap here perhaps I don't understand the influence of YouTube & Facebok.

    But I still think this is all too quick & improbable, whatever the media. Despite having come out very quick myself. But really, this scenario is ridiculous. Can we have a reality check here?


    Next up I'm sure: Flash mob coming out vids.
  • Amira

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    Apr 23, 2014 6:32 PM GMT
    Aww... icon_redface.gif
  • Nhlakz

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    Apr 23, 2014 7:57 PM GMT
    Take from a dude's point of view...u should go upto the guy and tell him u wanna hangout and see how he takes it....make sure that u got ur swagger ryt to improve ur chances of getting a good response...being shy wont get u want u want....just find the ryt moment and man up!!
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    Apr 23, 2014 8:04 PM GMT
    Armymanis said He wore a girl cat headband today and wore girl jeans and a girl T-shirt.

    You really need to rethink this.
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    Apr 23, 2014 8:22 PM GMT
    jo2hotbod saidJust go talk to him


    Yeah.

    I think the "note" approach is a little... middle/high school.
    He might just think that you're fucking with him - or he might just be like "really?".

    It's definitely cute on one hand but on another, you're 24, go approach the dude.