Would you be OK with dating someone who didn't engage in anal sex?

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    Apr 24, 2014 5:49 PM GMT
    I'm really not into anal sex at all. I've tried it on multiple occasions and just don't enjoy it and don't find anything pleasurable about it (giving or receiving).

    I'm wondering if in the future it's going to hinder my chances of a relationship?
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    Apr 24, 2014 5:53 PM GMT
    You might experience some challenges. But there are guys out there that feel the same as you and are into frotting, mutual masturbation, and other things that don't involve penetration.
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    Apr 24, 2014 5:55 PM GMT
    Yes. I hate assholes.
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    Apr 24, 2014 5:58 PM GMT
    Xavier92 saidYes. I hate assholes.


    kt makes a mental note to pair these two up on the matchmaker thread....
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    Apr 24, 2014 5:59 PM GMT
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    Xavier92 saidYes. I hate assholes.


    kt makes a mental note to pair these two up on the matchmaker thread....


    lol No thanks.
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    Apr 24, 2014 6:12 PM GMT
    Not a problem at all.

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    Apr 24, 2014 6:13 PM GMT
    Mr_Charles saidOMG no way!

    Anal sex is the most intimate part of being in a relationship! Feeling the other person inside of you is like you cannot be more connected. The best part is when he cums inside of you, OMG, it's like you carry a part of his identity inside of you. It's symbolic.


    #DisposableHumanCumDumpster

    Ain't no Man wanna be with miss_charles...
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    Apr 24, 2014 6:18 PM GMT
    I would want to know why
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    Apr 24, 2014 6:24 PM GMT
    As I've said on multiple threads before, if I like the guy, no problemo.
    The spiritual aspect means so much more to me.
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    Apr 24, 2014 6:32 PM GMT
    Mr_Charles saidOMG no way!

    Anal sex is the most intimate part of being in a relationship! Feeling the other person inside of you is like you cannot be more connected. The best part is when he cums inside of you, OMG, it's like you carry a part of his identity inside of you. It's symbolic.


    Either a troll (from other things you have posted), or pathetic. Good luck finding another sex crazed shallow fuck, oh wait, this is the gay community.
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    Apr 24, 2014 7:05 PM GMT
    Sweetooth said
    Mr_Charles saidOMG no way!

    Anal sex is the most intimate part of being in a relationship! Feeling the other person inside of you is like you cannot be more connected. The best part is when he cums inside of you, OMG, it's like you carry a part of his identity inside of you. It's symbolic.


    Either a troll (from other things you have posted), or pathetic. Good luck finding another sex crazed shallow fuck, oh wait, this is the gay community.


    lol, where do I start?

    Mr_Charles, are you advocating risky sex? Tsk tsk.

    Sweetooth, I think you should know that 'the straight community' is rife with sex crazed shallow fucks, too. icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 24, 2014 7:07 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Sweetooth said
    Mr_Charles saidOMG no way!

    Anal sex is the most intimate part of being in a relationship! Feeling the other person inside of you is like you cannot be more connected. The best part is when he cums inside of you, OMG, it's like you carry a part of his identity inside of you. It's symbolic.


    Either a troll (from other things you have posted), or pathetic. Good luck finding another sex crazed shallow fuck, oh wait, this is the gay community.


    lol, where do I start?

    Mr_Charles, are you advocating risky sex? Tsk tsk.

    Sweetooth, I think you should know that 'the straight community' is rife with sex crazed shallow fucks, too. icon_lol.gif


    most guys on this site are evidence of what Sweetooth means.
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    Apr 24, 2014 7:11 PM GMT
    Nope
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    Apr 24, 2014 7:14 PM GMT
    Xavier92 said
    meninlove said
    Sweetooth said
    Mr_Charles saidOMG no way!

    Anal sex is the most intimate part of being in a relationship! Feeling the other person inside of you is like you cannot be more connected. The best part is when he cums inside of you, OMG, it's like you carry a part of his identity inside of you. It's symbolic.


    Either a troll (from other things you have posted), or pathetic. Good luck finding another sex crazed shallow fuck, oh wait, this is the gay community.


    lol, where do I start?

    Mr_Charles, are you advocating risky sex? Tsk tsk.

    Sweetooth, I think you should know that 'the straight community' is rife with sex crazed shallow fucks, too. icon_lol.gif


    This most guys on this site are evidence of what Sweetooth means.


    My my, you've met and gotten to know most men on this site. That's quite an accomplishment. icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 24, 2014 7:15 PM GMT
    CoolChillGuy27 saidI'm really not into anal sex at all. I've tried it on multiple occasions and just don't enjoy it and don't find anything pleasurable about it (giving or receiving).

    I'm wondering if in the future it's going to hinder my chances of a relationship?


    It will, to a certain extent. It won't, to a certain extent.

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    Apr 24, 2014 7:15 PM GMT
    Xavier92 said
    meninlove said
    Sweetooth said
    Mr_Charles saidOMG no way!

    Anal sex is the most intimate part of being in a relationship! Feeling the other person inside of you is like you cannot be more connected. The best part is when he cums inside of you, OMG, it's like you carry a part of his identity inside of you. It's symbolic.


    Either a troll (from other things you have posted), or pathetic. Good luck finding another sex crazed shallow fuck, oh wait, this is the gay community.


    lol, where do I start?

    Mr_Charles, are you advocating risky sex? Tsk tsk.

    Sweetooth, I think you should know that 'the straight community' is rife with sex crazed shallow fucks, too. icon_lol.gif


    This most guys on this site are evidence of what Sweetooth means.


    Totally wrong Xavier - and you know it.

    If that is your impression, then You are in fact MISSING what "most guys on this site" are really all about.
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    Apr 24, 2014 7:16 PM GMT
    Cash said
    Xavier92 said
    meninlove said
    Sweetooth said
    Mr_Charles saidOMG no way!

    Anal sex is the most intimate part of being in a relationship! Feeling the other person inside of you is like you cannot be more connected. The best part is when he cums inside of you, OMG, it's like you carry a part of his identity inside of you. It's symbolic.


    Either a troll (from other things you have posted), or pathetic. Good luck finding another sex crazed shallow fuck, oh wait, this is the gay community.


    lol, where do I start?

    Mr_Charles, are you advocating risky sex? Tsk tsk.

    Sweetooth, I think you should know that 'the straight community' is rife with sex crazed shallow fucks, too. icon_lol.gif


    This most guys on this site are evidence of what Sweetooth means.


    Totally wrong Xavier - and you know it.

    If that is your impression, then You are in fact MISSING what "most guys on this site" are really all about.


    I know you're not one of them Cash.
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    Apr 24, 2014 7:17 PM GMT
    Sweetooth said
    Mr_Charles saidOMG no way!
    Anal sex is the most intimate part of being in a relationship! Feeling the other person inside of you is like you cannot be more connected. The best part is when he cums inside of you, OMG, it's like you carry a part of his identity inside of you. It's symbolic.

    Either a troll (from other things you have posted), or pathetic. Good luck finding another sex crazed shallow fuck, oh wait, this is the gay community.

    I agree with you the gay community is shallow as fuck, however wanting butt sex is not one of the reasons. It might not be a big of a deal for you but some like it a lot and there's nothing shallow in wanting to have a compatible sex partner because sex is an important part of a romantic relationship.
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    Apr 24, 2014 7:19 PM GMT
    D3K_ said
    Sweetooth said
    Mr_Charles saidOMG no way!
    Anal sex is the most intimate part of being in a relationship! Feeling the other person inside of you is like you cannot be more connected. The best part is when he cums inside of you, OMG, it's like you carry a part of his identity inside of you. It's symbolic.

    Either a troll (from other things you have posted), or pathetic. Good luck finding another sex crazed shallow fuck, oh wait, this is the gay community.

    I agree with you the gay community is shallow as fuck, however wanting butt sex is not one of the reasons. It might not be a big of a deal for you but some like it a lot and there's nothing shallow in wanting to have a compatible sex partner -sex is an important part of a romantic relationship.


    What about oral sex or manual sex?
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    Apr 24, 2014 7:22 PM GMT
    Xavier92 said
    D3K_ said
    Sweetooth said
    Mr_Charles saidOMG no way!
    Anal sex is the most intimate part of being in a relationship! Feeling the other person inside of you is like you cannot be more connected. The best part is when he cums inside of you, OMG, it's like you carry a part of his identity inside of you. It's symbolic.
    Either a troll (from other things you have posted), or pathetic. Good luck finding another sex crazed shallow fuck, oh wait, this is the gay community.
    I agree with you the gay community is shallow as fuck, however wanting butt sex is not one of the reasons. It might not be a big of a deal for you but some like it a lot and there's nothing shallow in wanting to have a compatible sex partner -sex is an important part of a romantic relationship.

    What about oral sex or manual sex?

    What about it? If you like it go and do it. What I mean is sometimes handjobs and blowjobs are not enough. Like I said, we're not talking about cars here, sex is one of the basic human instincts so we better keep that fulfilled- thats not being shallow.
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    Apr 24, 2014 7:28 PM GMT
    Mr_Charles said
    D3K_ said
    Xavier92 said
    D3K_ said
    Sweetooth said
    Mr_Charles saidOMG no way!
    Anal sex is the most intimate part of being in a relationship! Feeling the other person inside of you is like you cannot be more connected. The best part is when he cums inside of you, OMG, it's like you carry a part of his identity inside of you. It's symbolic.
    Either a troll (from other things you have posted), or pathetic. Good luck finding another sex crazed shallow fuck, oh wait, this is the gay community.
    I agree with you the gay community is shallow as fuck, however wanting butt sex is not one of the reasons. It might not be a big of a deal for you but some like it a lot and there's nothing shallow in wanting to have a compatible sex partner -sex is an important part of a romantic relationship.

    What about oral sex or manual sex?

    What about it? If you like it go and do it. What I mean is sometimes handjobs and blowjobs are not enough. Like I said, we're not talking about cars here, sex is one of the basic human instincts so we better keep that fulfilled- thats not being shallow.
    I know! Its like their sex life is so boring. If a guy just wants oral sex forever, it's like I'm not even interesting. I NEED a good pounding and that's maybe 35% of how a relationship lasts. You can't just rely on kissing and cuddling. Ugh, I feel like I'm the only adult here and they're all asexual.

    Dude shut up.
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    Apr 24, 2014 7:29 PM GMT
    FROT. Slow touching. Fast rubbing. Kissing everywhere.

    Watch some videos of frottage and try it out with your hot buddy.
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    Apr 24, 2014 7:29 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Sweetooth said
    Mr_Charles saidOMG no way!

    Anal sex is the most intimate part of being in a relationship! Feeling the other person inside of you is like you cannot be more connected. The best part is when he cums inside of you, OMG, it's like you carry a part of his identity inside of you. It's symbolic.


    Either a troll (from other things you have posted), or pathetic. Good luck finding another sex crazed shallow fuck, oh wait, this is the gay community.


    lol, where do I start?

    Mr_Charles, are you advocating risky sex? Tsk tsk.

    Sweetooth, I think you should know that 'the straight community' is rife with sex crazed shallow fucks, too. icon_lol.gif


    Yes I agree, what he is talking about risky behavior. It won't be his identity you will be carrying around, it will be HIV if he comes up positive. He's not the only one advocating this, porn sites like Sean Cody also promote it with all the bare-backing.
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    Apr 24, 2014 7:30 PM GMT
    CarolinaMan saidFROT. Slow touching. Fast rubbing. Kissing everywhere.

    Watch some videos of frottage and try it out with your hot buddy.


    That's really sexy icon_redface.gif
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    Apr 24, 2014 7:31 PM GMT
    I love it all and would be hard to leave something out, but it all depends on the scene with the guy. I am not one to say I'd never get involved with a guy if he didn't that or anything else I suppose...

    I mean, what if he had a medical condition and sex wasn't possible, would I dump him? I would hope not.